Flowing Through Us: The Our Collective Consciousness Water Crisis

Explore the deep spiritual connection between humanity and water in our latest Life in Synergy blog. Discover how the global water crisis mirrors our inner spiritual drought and how we, as a connected species, can bring about renewal and change.

Well Hello there seekers of enlightenment and cosmic stuff, to another reflective journey at the intersection of our universal energy and the global environment.

Today, we dive into the depths of an issue that mirrors the essence of our very being: the global water crisis. As human beings are composed predominantly of water, the crises facing this vital resource are not merely environmental or economic challenges; they are profound reflections of our spiritual and communal health. Water is not just a resource; it is the medium of life itself, coursing through our veins, cradling our cities, and nurturing our ecosystems. In many spiritual traditions, water is considered a purifier, a bringer of life, and a renewer of the worn and tainted. Every drop of water that flows through us or around us carries the potential for cleansing, purification, and renewal. It is a sacred cycle that supports not just the physical form of all living beings but also our spiritual well-being.

The crisis of water scarcity and pollution on Earth is a stark indicator of our current state as a species. Where water flows, life thrives, and where it is absent, hardship follows. This dichotomy is not just a matter of physical survival but is deeply emblematic of the barriers we have erected in our hearts—barriers against sharing, purity, and the natural flow of generosity. When we deny access to clean water, we deny the very essence of life, revealing a spiritual drought in our collective consciousness.

The uneven access to clean water across different regions of the world highlights a profound imbalance in our global community. This disparity is not merely a logistical failure; it is a moral and spiritual crisis that reflects our priorities and values as a collective soul. The inability of societies to ensure water access for all is akin to closing our hearts to the needy, a sign that we must reevaluate and cleanse our own spirits.

Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy: A Conduit for Change

In the face of such challenges, Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program offers a path to transformation. This innovative approach teaches us to view the water crisis not just as an external problem but as a reflection of our internal state of mind. By understanding our interconnectedness with nature and each other, we learn that healing our waters and our environment starts with healing ourselves.

Apex Life in Synergy emphasizes energy cleansing and spiritual renewal and encourages participants to break down the internal barriers that impede the flow of empathy, sharing, and collective responsibility. Through meditation exercises, mindful Synergistics Fitness Method® based movement that opens your body to the now, active release engagement techniques ( and more), practitioners can discover renewal and inspire change, starting within themselves and rippling outward.

Joining the Currents of Change

As we contemplate the water crisis, let us remember that we are the water of life. Our thoughts, actions, and spirits can contribute to a wave of positive change. By addressing the spiritual blockages within ourselves, we open the channels for healing waters to flow more freely through our communities. Let this be a call to action, not just to conserve water or to campaign for its equitable distribution, but to cleanse and renew our inner wellsprings of compassion and connection. Together, we can redefine our journey as a species—one where water flows abundantly and nourishes all souls equally.

We thank you for joining us on this reflective journey for a few moments in time. May your path be ever fluid, and your spirit as replenishing as the waters that sustain us all.

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy® Boston

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Embracing Change: Breaking Down Mental Borders to Enhance International Understanding

Explore the profound parallels between international migration and personal mental barriers. Discover how breaking down these barriers can lead to greater global understanding and interconnectedness with multi award winner Helena Collins.

Welcome once again, seekers of ascension!

Today, we delve into a oh so light hearted/profound topic that reflects both our inner landscapes and the global scene: international migration. Just as people cross many geographical borders in search of new beginnings, our minds, too, have the potential to welcome new thoughts and inspirations. Yet, often, we construct mental barriers as formidable as any wall built to divide lands and it’s people.

International migration is a powerful, visible manifestation of the fundamental human desire for change and betterment. It is driven by individuals' quests for safety, prosperity, and happiness—universal aspirations that know no borders. Yet, the reception migrants receive is often colored by the invisible borders we erect around our own minds: prejudices, fears, and unwelcoming attitudes. These are the mental barriers that say "keep out" to new ideas/experiences just as effectively as any physical wall deters movement. In our global village, every act of exclusion and every wall built is a mirror reflecting our own deep set internal fears and resistances. The barriers we see and place in the world are but external representations of the internal blocks against the ever-flowing energy of cosmic change. Understanding our universal connection deepens our comprehension of not just migration, but also the nature of all human thoughts and interactions.

Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy: A Doorway to Cosmic Consciousness

Helena Collins, the multi award winning visionary behind Apex Life in Synergy, teaches us that to truly engage with the world in a meaningful way, we must first dismantle the internal walls that limit our understanding. Her program is designed not just to scrape the surface of our consciousness, but to penetrate the deep layers of the 'subconscious basement', where many of our unexamined beliefs and prejudices lie. Helena’s approach encourages participants to view reality not as a single layer of existence but as a multifaceted, dynamic interaction of multiple layers. This perspective is akin to achieving a cosmic consciousness that sees and appreciates the complex layers of human experience and thought and takes actions to “get out of the way”.In the spirit of interconnectedness that is central to Apex Life in Synergy, we come to see that personal transformation is inextricably linked to global changes. By opening our minds to new thoughts and dismantling the internal barriers/walls to change, we facilitate a smoother passage not only for new ideas but also for people moving across physical human-made borders. Embracing the fluidity of thought and the transience of states, whether they be mental or geographical, aligns us more closely with the ever-changing universe. In doing so, we not only enhance our own lives but also contribute to a more understanding, accepting, and interconnected world. We begin to see that walls and borders are merely illusions of separation that hinder the universal flow of energies and ideas.

Join the Life in Synergy Movement: Become Part of a Greater Whole

If you're ready to challenge your internal borders and expand your horizons, consider embarking on a journey with Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program. It's more than a personal development course; it's an invitation to become part of a cosmic consciousness that works on multiple layers to create a more integrated, peaceful, and understanding world. Together, let's break down the walls within and without, fostering a culture of acceptance and interconnectedness that transcends all perceived barriers.


Join us, and let's transform our internal and external worlds one thought, one border, at a time.



Life in Synergy Inc.

Boston Ma.

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One World, One Breath: How Your Exhale Might Be Someone's Inhale

Explore how our every exhale connects us to others around the globe in this insightful Life in Synergy blog. Learn about the invisible ties that bind us all, from a simple breath in a serene garden to its journey across continents with Master teacher, Helena Collins.

Welcome, dear readers! Today, we're diving deep into the wonderfully whimsical yet profoundly practical concept that we all live on—one magnificent, interconnected world.

It's a concept so simple yet so often overlooked, like accidentally stepping over a $100 bill because it's covered in dust. We're talking about the unified idea of a single world where your breath becomes part of another's life journey. Sounds poetic, doesn't it? But stick with us—it's not just about flowers and butterflies (though they do play their part!). 🌸 🦋

The Breath of Life:

Imagine this: you're sitting in your backyard, enjoying a cup of tea, and with each sip, you take a deep breath. That exhale? It doesn't just disappear into the ether like last year's New Year's resolutions. No, it ventures forth like a brave little toaster, swirling through the air, mingling with the winds, and eventually, could be inhaled by someone across the globe. Yes, part of you might end up giving a breath of fresh air to a street artist in Paris or a tea grower in the Himalayas. That's right, your simple sigh of relief after finishing a long day’s work could be someone else's breath of inspiration!

Discovering Ourselves Through Others:

Now, on to a more metaphysical plane. Have you ever stopped to ponder the idea that to truly discover yourself, you need to connect with the world around you? This isn’t just about taking personality quizzes online (though those can be a hoot!). It's about understanding that our own personal growth is deeply connected to the growth of others. When you help someone else climb their mountain (literal or metaphorical), you’re also paving a bit of your own path to enlightenment. By contributing positively to the lives of others, you’re not just being altruistic; you’re also crafting a better version of yourself. It’s like upgrading your spiritual software!

The Butterfly Effect—But With People:

Ever heard of the butterfly effect? It's not just a cool-sounding theory or an Ashton Kutcher movie—it's the idea that small causes can have large effects. This concept doesn’t just apply to butterflies causing hurricanes. Your actions, like the comforting words you offered to a friend or even a stranger, might ignite a chain reaction of positivity. This could lead to monumental changes that might just circle back to you in unexpected and wonderful ways. Imagine being the pebble that starts an avalanche of kindness!

So, as we reflect on our singular, shared Earth, let’s remember that every small action of ours reverberates across this blue and green globe. From our breaths mingling in the vast sky to our actions echoing through the lives of others, we are all connected in a beautifully complex dance of existence. To discover ourselves, we must dare to help others rise to their own versions of greatness. Now, take a deep breath in... and let it out. Who knows where it’ll travel next? Maybe it’ll inspire another soul, somewhere, to read this blog and smile. After all, we’re all just walking each other home on this one, extraordinary planet.

Let's make each step one towards a more peaceful loving world, shall we?

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy®

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Navigating the Mirror Maze - The Impact of Society and Social Media on Body Image

Helena Collins explores how societal norms, media marketing, and social media platforms impact our body image. Learn strategies to foster self-acceptance and celebrate diversity in her latest blog post.

In our visually dominated world, the concept of body image continually crosses the tightrope between personal acceptance and societal expectation.

The reflection we see in the mirror is often clouded by the pervasive pressures of advertising, social media, and cultural standards. These external influences can significantly distort our self-perception, sometimes leading to a negative projection of self. In this discussion, we will explore the intricate dance between self-identity and external influences, and offer insights on reclaiming a positive body image in the face of societal pressures. From billboards to TV commercials, from fashion runways to fitness magazines, society bombards us with images of 'ideal' bodies. These ideals are often unattainable and unrealistic, yet they are presented as benchmarks of beauty and health. The ripple effect is profound, leading many to view their bodies through a lens of inadequacy.

📺 Marketing strategies are finely tuned to exploit insecurities ( ALERT!), promoting products through ideals that few can achieve. Whether it's the latest diet trend shot or pill or the newest cosmetic surgery procedure, the underlying message is often the same: you are not enough as you are. This relentless messaging can erode self-esteem, making it challenging to maintain a healthy body image. Social media platforms, where users curate snapshots of their best selves, amplify these issues. Filters and photo editing tools create flawless images that set unrealistic expectations for appearance. The constant comparison to these curated lives can intensify feelings of inadequacy. As we scroll through these images, the line between reality and digital illusion blurs, further complicating our relationship with our bodies.

The consequence of this continuous exposure to idealized images is a widespread dissatisfaction with one's body. This dissatisfaction can lead to serious emotional and psychological distress. Studies have shown that negative body image is linked to higher risks of depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem.

👁️ Being aware of the sources of these pressures is the first step towards countering their impact. Recognize that the media often portrays body standards that are not only unrealistic but also unrepresentative of the population at large. By understanding these as marketing tactics rather than reflections of reality, we can start to dismantle the harmful narratives that surround us. It's crucial to develop a practice of self-compassion. This involves treating oneself with the same kindness, concern, and support we would offer a good friend. When we shift our focus from criticism to care, we begin to foster a healthier, more loving relationship with our bodies.

Ultimately, embracing our unique bodies is an act of resistance against the pressures of a conformist society. Celebrating individual differences and recognizing the beauty in diversity can help recalibrate our self-image. Every body has a story, a purpose, and a beauty that is not defined by conventional standards.. Seek the frequencies that resonate with you and provide you with the experience of genuine qualities over appearance, which reinforces positive self-perception and helps in resisting societal pressures. Engaging in conversations about body positivity and the diversity of body types can also be empowering.

Ultimately, embracing our unique bodies is an act of resistance against the pressures of a conformist society. Celebrating individual differences and recognizing the beauty in diversity can help recalibrate our self-image. Every body has a story, a purpose, and a beauty that is not defined by conventional standards.
— Helena Collins

By nurturing a positive body image, we do more than just accept ourselves — we reclaim our power from the forces that seek to diminish it. This journey of acceptance is not just about changing the way we see our bodies, but also about transforming the way we navigate the world. So, with all the “blah blah blah” of some random blog on the interwebnet wrapping up, remember that you are more than a reflection in the mirror. You are a tapestry of experiences, thoughts, and talents. No societal pressure should have the power to overshadow the profound uniqueness of your own personal journey.

Helena Collins

Life in Synergy Founder

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A Day with My Thoughts: Discovering the Space Beyond the Noise

Join Sienna as she explores a day filled with self-reflection and mindfulness, counting subconscious thoughts and discovering a path to deeper self-awareness with Helena Collins Life in Synergy.

Is this your story?

Morning Meditation: A Quiet Start

The first rays of sunlight cast a gentle glow across my room as I find my spot on the yoga mat. It’s early, the world is just waking up, and the cool morning breeze brings the distant sounds of birdsong through my window. As I settle into a cross-legged position, a familiar thought pops up: "I hope I can stay calm when I see the piles of work waiting for me." That's one thought to count already. I smile a little at this, acknowledging the start of my daily challenge to observe and count my subconscious judgments and assumptions about myself and the world around me.

Mid-Morning at Work: A Flurry of Activity

My workday begins with a bustling pace. As I reply to emails and shuffle through my tasks, another thought strikes, "I'm not fast enough compared to Lara." Followed by a worry about an upcoming meeting: "What if I stumble?" That's three more thoughts before lunch. I pause, jot a note to keep track, and take a deep breath, reminding myself that these projections are not my reality.

Lunch Break: A Moment of Solitude

Lunchtime finds me in the park, taking a moment for myself amid a day of deadlines. I watch others around me—so carefree and absorbed in their moments. "Why can't I be that carefree?" I think. Another note in my mental journal. It's okay to just observe these thoughts, I remind myself, they do not define me.

Afternoon Challenges: Deadlines and Doubts

As the afternoon wears on, my heartbeat quickens with the looming deadline. "I might not make this. I don’t want to let the team down." Thought number eight. But instead of spiraling, I ask myself, "What can I control?" By focusing on one task at a time, I manage to calm my rising panic and chip away at the workload effectively.

Evening Reflections: Unwinding and Understanding

Evening arrives, and with it, a chance to unwind. As I sip chamomile tea and turn the pages of a mindfulness book, my journal lies open next to me—today’s thoughts carefully noted. Reflecting on the entries, I'm struck by how many judgments and assumptions I've made throughout the day. "Did I really think so much today?"

This realization sparks curiosity. What if I could understand my mind better, manage these thoughts more skillfully? I find myself searching online for resources and stumble upon a site called Life in Synergy, led by Helena Collins. Intrigued by their promise of deeper self-awareness and personal growth, I sign up for an online course titled "Apex Life in Synergy."

Conclusion: A Step Towards Self-Discovery

Tonight, I feel a quiet excitement about the journey ahead. I realize that I am not my thoughts; they are merely visitors in the vast landscape of my mind. With this new understanding, I’m eager to explore further, to learn how to live in better harmony with my thoughts and myself. For those interested in joining me on this path of discovery, consider exploring the transformative programs offered at Life in Synergy. Your own journey towards inner synergy might just be a click away.

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Navigating Spiritual Headwinds: Embracing the Ebb and Flow of Relationships

Explore how spiritual headwinds shape our lives through the people we meet—some bring joy while others challenge us. Learn to transform these encounters into lessons of growth and resilience in our spiritual journey with award winners Helena and Brian Collins.

In our journey through life, we often encounter spiritual headwinds—those challenging periods that test our resilience, beliefs, and inner peace.

These headwinds can often manifest through the people who enter our lives, some bringing light and others, unfortunately, casting shadows. Yet, it's essential to recognize that each person who crosses our path serves a purpose, offering us lessons and opportunities for growth, even if their presence feels momentarily disruptive. Spiritual headwinds are akin to the natural winds that buffet against us, pushing us back even as we strive to move forward. These winds are not just obstacles; they are forces that compel us to strengthen our spiritual muscles. They are the necessary resistance that helps deepen our roots in our own beliefs and values.

As we navigate life, some people come into our lives like a gust of wind—sudden and impactful. While their presence might be fleeting, the effects can be lasting, urging us to reassess our direction and our choices. Others might linger like a relentless storm, challenging our patience and resolve. It's a universal truth that people come and go in our lives. Some departures are as painful as a bandage being ripped off, while others may leave a whisper of a scent that fades with time. Each encounter, each shared moment is a thread woven into the tapestry of our existence.

The spiritual perspective teaches us that every soul we meet is a teacher.

Those who radiate positivity reinforce our joy and encourage our growth, while those who bring negativity are tests of our resilience. They are the speed bumps on our spiritual highway—slowing us down enough to force our awareness of our surroundings, making us more cautious, deliberate, and ultimately stronger. When faced with negativity, it's tempting to dwell on the discomfort and challenge it brings. However, spiritual growth lies in using these experiences as catalysts for self-reflection and development. Each negative encounter is an opportunity to practice forgiveness, patience, and empathy—qualities that are essential for spiritual maturation.

Ask yourself:

•What is this situation teaching me?

•Is it patience?

•Is it the ability to love unconditionally, or perhaps, the strength to stand up for my own beliefs?

By viewing these interactions as lessons rather than setbacks, we transform our spiritual journey into one of continual learning and evolution.

One of the most profound spiritual practices is the art of letting go.

Holding onto anger, resentment, or disappointment only anchors us to a point that we should move past. Letting go does not mean forgetting; it means understanding that the only person we can control is ourselves. It means not allowing the actions of others to disrupt our inner peace.As we let go, we make room for new experiences, relationships, and insights. We open ourselves up to the positive flow of energy that sustains and nourishes our spiritual beings.

Life is a dynamic balance of meeting and parting, of holding on and letting go.

The people who come into our lives, whether they bring joy or challenges, are integral to our spiritual journey. They are not just passersby but pivotal players in the grand design of our personal growth. By embracing each encounter as an opportunity to learn and evolve, we ensure that no headwind is too strong to overcome. We turn each speed bump into a stepping stone towards deeper spiritual understanding and fulfillment. In the spirit of growth and resilience, let us continue to move forward, not just in spite of the spiritual headwinds we face, but because of them. Each person, each challenge, is a precious gift, helping to shape us into the most authentic and spiritually attuned versions of ourselves.

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy® Inc. Boston

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Ageless Wonders: Experiencing a Life in Synergy through an Open Lens

Explore how to live life unbounded by age with this insightful blog from Helena Collins, Boston’s top wellness and fitness Guru. Discover practical tips and inspirational stories that demonstrate all things can be new at any age, if we stay open and in synergy.

In the grand tapestry of life, our experiences are often viewed through the lens of age, as if certain years carry set expectations and limitations.

However, the essence of truly living—embracing each moment as a new, uncharted adventure—is not confined by the number of candles on our birthday cake. At Life in Synergy®, we believe that all things can be new at any age, provided we remain open and willing to ascend beyond our perceived boundaries. Society often scripts our life stages: youthful years are for exploration, middle years for consolidation, and later years for reflection. Yet, this segmented approach to living can limit the richness of our experiences. When we label activities or dreams as 'too young' or 'too old' for us, we confine our spirit within boundaries that are, in truth, artificial.

Eternal Synergy: A Mindset Shift

The key to breaking free from these age-related confines lies in a mindset shift. Imagine viewing life not as a linear journey with set phases but as a spiral of continual growth and exploration. Each loop of the spiral brings us back to familiar emotions or experiences but from a higher, more enlightened perspective. This model encourages an ever-evolving engagement with life, where nothing is ever truly repeated and everything can be experienced anew. To live this Life in Synergy philosophy, openness and willingness are essential. Openness requires us to see beyond societal norms and personal prejudices. It involves cultivating a mindset that values curiosity over certainty. Willingness, on the other hand, is about the courage to step out of our comfort zones, to embrace the unfamiliar, and to risk the vulnerability that comes with trying new things.

Ascending Beyond Age

Ascending beyond age is about elevating our spirit to a place where chronological age does not dictate capability or desire. It involves embracing a form of spiritual and mental growth that views age not as a decline but as an accumulation of wisdom and experiences that can propel us into new adventures. Whether it’s learning a new language at 60, starting a venture at 70, or exploring the metaphysical realms at any age, every new endeavor adds depth and dimension to our existence.

Practical Steps to Embrace a Life in Synergy:

Challenge Your Own Stereotypes: Reflect on what you believe is appropriate for your age. Challenge these beliefs by engaging in activities that defy these norms.

  1. Cultivate Curiosity: Develop an insatiable curiosity about the world. Let your interests guide you, regardless of whether they seem age-appropriate.

  2. Connect Across Generations: Learn from people both younger and older than yourself. These interactions can offer fresh perspectives and challenge age-related biases.

  3. Prioritize Growth: Focus on personal growth and learning as lifelong processes. Embrace new technologies, ideas, and ways of thinking that keep you engaged with the changing world.

  4. Meditate on Transience: Use meditation to reflect on the transient nature of life, which can help detach from the ego’s focus on age and instead connect with the eternal.

Remember Age is but a number ( at all stages of life), and life is a canvas of endless possibilities. By remaining open and willing to explore, learn, and grow, we can all find newness in our days, no matter the year we were born. Let’s embrace this journey with the enthusiasm of a child and the wisdom of our years, for in synergy, they create a life rich with unending discovery and joy.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy ® Inc.

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The Tale of Terry and the Tenacious Tack

Dive into the quirky and humorous story of Terry, an office worker who learns an important lesson about comfort and choice, all thanks to a tack stuck in his butt. Discover how Terry's office life transforms once he decides to change his comfort levels.

Once upon a time in the bustling town of Everydayville, there lived a chap named Terry.

Terry was your average Joe—well, except for one little thing. Unbeknownst to most, Terry had a tack permanently stuck in his butt. Yes, you read that right—a shiny, sharp tack had made its home right there on Terry's left cheek! The tack first made its appearance one fateful afternoon at Terry’s office. You see, Terry worked at "Cheeks Relief," a company so dedicated to making life comfortable for its employees that it accidentally forgot to check the comfort of their chairs. Terry, in a rush from a very engaging lunch break discussing the metaphysical implications of potato chips, plopped down into his chair, and voila! The tack introduced itself to his lower frame.

At first, Terry was in agony. He jumped up, did a little dance that would later be known as the 'Terry Twist,' and pondered pulling it out. But, as deadlines loomed and emails piled up, Terry decided to "deal with it later." Days turned into weeks, and weeks turned into months, and the tack became as much a part of Terry as his own cellulite. Colleagues started noticing that Terry had developed a peculiar lean in his gait—what some might call a ‘swagger,’ but it was really just a tack-tical adjustment. Terry, however, began to see the tack as a part of his daily routine. He named it "Tacitus," after the stoic philosopher, because like his ancient namesake, the tack inspired a kind of resigned indifference in Terry.

One sunny day, while Terry was sipping his fourth cup of matcha-enhanced coffee, a new employee named Wilma joined the office. Wilma, a vibrant soul who wore her aura like a technicolor dreamcoat, noticed Terry's lopsided limping and winced every time he sat down."Hey Terry," she ventured one day, "why do you wince like you’ve just watched the finale of your favorite show get canceled, every time you sit?" Terry chuckled. "Oh, that's just Tacitus, my personal little life coach. Keeps me in check, reminds me of the persistent pains of existence," he explained with a mix of pride and a dash of martyrdom.

Wilma, who wasn’t just about random chit chat but also about removing unnecessary pain from the cosmos, gave Terry a look that was part therapist, part wizard. "You know, Terry," she said in a tone that suggested enlightenment was just a conversation away, "just because you're used to the pain doesn’t mean it has to be part of your life. Comfort is not just corporate policy—it’s a choice!"

This simple revelation hit Terry like a truck full of meditation cushions.

He had become so accustomed to the discomfort that he forgot he could just… remove it.

With a blend of hesitation and excitement, Terry finally decided to part ways with Tacitus. Post-tack-ectomy, Terry’s life changed. His walk straightened, his mood lightened, and he even retired the Terry Twist for a more joyful jig. Terry learned a valuable lesson that day: just because you’re accustomed to discomfort, doesn't mean it has to become part of your life's upholstery. And from then on, Terry made a point to choose comfort, whenever possible, much to the delight of his butt and the office at large. And so, Terry lived more comfortably ever after, reminding us all that sometimes, removing the tack is all it takes to find a little more joy in the journey.

Any spiritual, emotional tacks nagging you? Help remove them here!!'

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy®

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Breaking Free and Rediscovering Yourself: The Journey of Transformation

Explore the true story of “Lily”, who transformed her life by losing weight but struggled with her new identity due to family pressure. Discover insights on balancing personal change with social acceptance and how to truly embrace a new version of yourself with Boston’s Multi Award winning wellness Mentor Helena Collins.

In the quest for personal transformation, we often dream of shedding our past selves like an old skin, hoping to emerge refreshed, renewed, and vibrant.

Yet, the journey towards this renewal is seldom a straight path. It is fraught with challenges that test our resolve, our self-esteem, and our deepest beliefs about who we are and who we can be.

The following story of one of our old clients, whom we'll call "Lily," at Life in Synergy perfectly illustrates this complex dance of transformation. In the late 1990s, Lily came to us at our former brick and mortar studio on Newbury Street in Boston with a goal that resonates with many: she wanted to lose weight. But beneath her initial goal was a deeper, more profound aspiration—to rediscover herself and break free from the clutches of her accepted old habits and self-perceptions. With determination and endless support , Lily embarked on her journey with us. Months of dedication and hard work paid off. Lily not only met her weight loss goal at Life in Synergy but exceeded it. With My multi award winning Synergistics Fitness Method®, she sculpted a new amazing version of herself that she had only imagined in her dreams.

However, this new reflection in the mirror, though celebrated by many, felt alien to Lily’s family.

The transformation was so significant that she found herself struggling to reconcile her new physical state with her old internal identity. As Lily adapted to her new self, the positive reactions from those around her began to pour in. Her family, accustomed to the old Lily ( and her feelings of insecurity) however expressed their concerns. They suggested she was "too skinny," echoing their discomfort with the unfamiliar change. Despite her achievements, the pressure to revert to her former self intensified, feeding into Lily's insecurities and fears. The tug-of-war between her new self and the comforting familiarity of her old identity became too much to bear. Eventually, Lily succumbed to these pressures began to miss many of her appointments, and gradually returned to her old patterns that her family desired and she quit coming to the studio and regained the weight she had fought so hard to lose.

Lily’s story is a powerful parable about the human struggle with change.

It underscores a profound truth: letting go of who we were is terrifying, even when we desire nothing more than to evolve. Our past selves, with all their flaws and comforts, often provide a confusing sense of identity and belonging. The challenge, then, is not merely in shedding the physical or behavioral traits but in redefining who we are in the eyes of our communities (family, friends, co-workers, etc) and, most importantly, in our own hearts. The parable of Lily teaches us that the journey to self-transformation is as much about building resilience against external pressures as it is about changing ourselves, for ourselves. It highlights the necessity of a supportive environment that nurtures our new selves without alienating us from our roots. True transformation requires a synergy of self-belief, community support, and a deep, unwavering faith in our ability to change the course of our lives.

For those of us on a path of personal transformation, let Lily's story be a reminder: hold onto your vision with compassion for your past selves, and step forward with courage, even when the road of your life twists unexpectedly and may be influenced by the poor driving instructions of outside sources. Remember, every version of you has contributed to who you are today and will become tomorrow. Lily’s case of “family override” made me go deeper into discovery of pattern energies back in 2001 and for the past 23 years, I have been perfecting the facets of ascension power and levels of release and now have them all available in my online program Apex Life in Synergy.

Embrace your journey, knowing that each step, forward or backward, is a part of your unique path to discovering your truest self and discover how to unlock and trust your your voice to create your reality.

Helena Collins-2x Best of Boston Winner

Creator Multi Award Winning Synergistics Fitness Method®

Author of the 5 Star rated Nutritional Alignment Book

Creator Apex Life in Synergy® Wellness Program

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Embracing A Life in Synergy: Transmuting Guilt and Liberating Future Generations

Explore the profound journey of aging and the spiritual necessity of transmuting guilt from past deeds to prevent karmic debts from affecting future generations with multi award winning wellness mentor Helena Collins. Discover how self-awareness and forgiveness can pave the way for a peaceful transition.

As we journey through life, each of us carries a tapestry woven with our actions, decisions, and their subsequent energies.

As we age, the weight of this tapestry can feel heavier, burdened by moments of untruth or wrongdoing. It's not uncommon for the fear of these past deeds catching up to us as we approach the later chapters of our lives to stir a profound unease within our souls. This is a pivotal opportunity for transformation—a call to face and transmute the energies of guilt and regret that tether us to our past.

Understanding the hidden Energy of Guilt from past actions

Guilt is more than an emotion; it is an energetic signal that directs us to examine the parts of our lives where we may not have acted in alignment with our true selves. These energies, if left unaddressed, can become subconscious ties that bind us to repetitive patterns of behavior, and, according to spiritual teachings, may even influence the karmic balance of our families for generations to come. This is reminiscent of the age-old adage of "the sins of the father," where unresolved energies and actions of one generation cascade through the lineage, creating energetic imbalances.

The Importance of Transmutation Before Transition

In the spiritual context, the process of aging and facing our mortality should also be a process of purification and preparation. As we reflect on our lives, the need to transmute these energies becomes paramount. Transmutation here refers to the transformation of negative or heavy energies into higher vibrations of forgiveness, understanding, and peace. This not only frees us but also liberates our descendants from the cycle of retribution and karmic debt.

Practical Steps Towards Energy Transmutation can be found in Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy® program

  1. Reflection and Acknowledgment: The first step in transmuting guilt is to bravely face those moments we wish were different. This involves deep reflection and acknowledgment of ones actions and their impacts, both on ourselves and others who we may have done wrong.

  2. Seeking Forgiveness: Where possible, this may involve reaching out to those we have wronged, offering sincere apologies and making amends. If direct amends are not possible, other acts of kindness and contributions to the collective good can help balance the scales.

  3. Self-Forgiveness: Often, we are our harshest judges. Granting forgiveness to ourselves is essential in the transmutation process. Understanding that our mistakes do not define us but offer opportunities for deep learning and soul growth can be liberating. But this can be tricky, as the mind will always want the simple way out and only will address forgiving the self and moving on, not addressing the pain you may have caused another person ( or people) because it is uncomfortable, While it may be, not reaching out to those you wronged is not releasing karma, it is sealing it for eternity for yourself and your loved ones.

  4. Spiritual Practices: Engaging in spiritual practices that resonate with your beliefs can be incredibly powerful. The Apex Life in Synergy program offers a non denominational spiritual practice where you can delve deeper into your own religion by exploring your inner nature or simply use the program as your sole guide to higher understandings of self.

  5. Intentional Legacy Building with Apex Life in Synergy®: Focus on the legacy you wish to leave behind. Acts of love, kindness, and contribution can help you to build a new tapestry of energies that speaks to who you have truly become.

The Ripple Effects of Transmutation

By taking responsibility for our past actions and actively working to transmute these energies, we do not just heal ourselves; we contribute to the healing of our family line and the world at large. This proactive approach to resolving karmic debts can prevent these energies from trickling down and affecting future generations with similar challenges or spiritual burdens.

In embracing the Life in Synergy concept of return, we recognize that our lives are interconnected tapestries of actions and reactions. The work of healing within and transmutation is perhaps one of the most profound gifts we can offer to ourselves and to those who will come after us, ensuring that the cycles of the past do not dictate the vibrancy of the future. As we age, let us view each moment as an opportunity to weave golden threads of consciousness and healing into our collective human story.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy® Founders and Teachers

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