A whirled world

Feeling disconnected post-election? Dive into the interconnected nature of our judgments and biases. Explore how unresolved generational patterns shape how we see ourselves and others, and why understanding this is key to personal and collective healing.

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Navigating Disconnection: Understanding Our Interconnected Reality

If recent Political events have left you feeling detached or disillusioned, or even if you're in high spirits, there’s value in exploring perspectives beyond our own as “different,” rather than “wrong.” This shift isn’t about invalidating our emotions but rather expanding our understanding.

Let’s begin with an essential truth: we all share this single, fragile planet. Regardless of where we stand, we all navigate a tangled web of personal emotions, biochemical processes, and internal energies that fuel our actions and reactions. No one—not even the most ambitious among us—has the luxury of relocating to a different world simply because they find their fellow inhabitants difficult. Even hypothetically, what chance would a new society have if it carried unresolved legacies like ego, racism, sexism, and the persistent urge for control?

Likely, the cycle of conflict would follow us wherever we go.

As it stands, we’re a species governed by millennia of repetitive patterns, cycling through the same historical themes. We see global divides in 2024 that resonate with those of 1900, 1800, or 500. Despite immense advances in technology and society, these underlying currents of division remain hauntingly unchanged.

In many ways, the human mind—our most potent tool, capable of inventing everything from electric lights to digital marvels—still relies on a primitive “filter.” This mental filter, which automatically categorizes people by characteristics such as race, gender, wealth, and social status, was our first attempt at making sense of the world. It acts like a camera filter on our phones, coloring every interaction before we even engage. With this filter, we slot people into boxes, drawing on preconceptions we’ve absorbed from countless external influences.

The paradox? The “other” we resist or judge is often a reflection of our own unresolved aspects.

When we feel triggered by someone else’s behavior or identity, it’s often because they mirror parts of ourselves we haven’t fully accepted or understood. This realization is jarring: the person we project our judgments onto is, in many ways, an extension of our own experience.

Human consciousness is thus a vessel carrying layers of history—emotional imprints from generations past that we unconsciously replay. The 21st century is simply the context; our bodies are processing the same fundamental impulses that may have driven us thousands of years ago. When we judge others, we reinforce the very divisions within ourselves.

So, the age-old principle remains: what we do to others, we ultimately do to ourselves. This isn’t a curse—it’s a chance to recognize that healing ourselves may be the most effective way to heal the divisions we see around us. In learning to honor this shared humanity, we allow for a kind of progress that can’t be measured in inventions or societal advancements alone.

Spirituality isn’t a 4 letter word or some bullshit…….it doesn’t have to be religious or cult like. It could be as basic as looking at someone you despise in your mind and taking a moment to see if any of what “they” are doing can also be a part of your very being and if so, how can you change it within yourself and join the whole cosmic quantum entanglement fun in the process?

Helena and Brian

Life in Synergy Inc.

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The Power of Collective Healing: How Individual Transformation Can Create Global Change

Discover how individual healing can create a ripple effect of positive change across the world. Learn practical steps for self-transformation, the impact of inner work on global challenges, and how programs like Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy can guide you toward personal and collective growth.

In a world where turmoil often takes center stage, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer magnitude of global challenges.

From environmental crises to social inequality, the issues seem insurmountable. Yet, what if I told you that the greatest power to create change lies within each of us—one soul at a time? This isn't just a romanticized notion but a profound truth that has guided spiritual practices for centuries. By focusing on our individual healing and growth, we can spark a ripple effect that reaches far beyond our personal lives, creating positive shifts that reverberate throughout the world.

The Ripple Effect: Healing Starts Within

Healing doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly doesn’t happen in isolation. When we take time to confront our shadows, face the patterns that hold us back, and nurture our inner light, we begin to transform. This inner work might start with meditation, therapy, or spiritual practices like Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy program, which provides a structured path for understanding the deeper layers of our being. Through such practices, we uncover the roots of our suffering—whether they are karmic, inherited, or learned—and begin to release them.

As we change, so does the energy we bring into the world. Think of each healed heart as a stone dropped into a still pond. The ripples created by that one stone travel outward, touching the lives of others, inspiring them to embark on their own healing journey. The more stones we drop, the greater the collective wave of change becomes.

How Personal Transformation Impacts the World

It’s easy to dismiss individual healing as insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but let’s put it in perspective. When one person breaks free from a cycle of self-doubt, they radiate a new sense of confidence and peace. Their interactions become more compassionate, their decisions more thoughtful, and their presence more uplifting. This energy is contagious—people around them start to feel it too, even if they don’t fully understand why.

Imagine a world where more of us operate from this space—where instead of reacting to pain with more pain, we respond with patience, understanding, and love. It’s not about ignoring the world's problems or pretending they don’t exist; it’s about cultivating the strength and clarity to approach them with a fresh perspective.

Practical Steps to Begin Your Healing Journey

  1. Self-Awareness: The first step to change is awareness. Pay attention to the patterns in your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Are there recurring themes or feelings that keep coming up? These may be clues to deeper, unresolved aspects of yourself.

  2. Meditation and Reflection: Carving out time for introspection can open doors to deeper understanding. For those who prefer guidance, programs try Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy it offers a structured approach to diving into your inner world.

  3. Embrace Your Shadows: Healing isn’t just about love and light; it’s also about confronting the darker aspects of yourself—your fears, regrets, and pain. It’s through facing these shadows that we integrate them and begin to find wholeness.

  4. Connect with a Community: While the journey is deeply personal, having a supportive community can make all the difference. Whether it’s a local meditation group, a spiritual mentor, or online spaces for sharing and reflection, being surrounded by others on a similar path can amplify your growth.

  5. Practice Compassion—For Yourself and Others: As you embark on this journey, remember to extend compassion to yourself. Healing can be messy and nonlinear. By being gentle with your process, you naturally learn to be more patient with others, creating a world that is kinder and more understanding.

The Bigger Picture: Shifting from Individual to Collective

The beauty of focusing on individual healing is that it requires no grand gestures—no major resources, no complex plans. It’s about each of us, in our everyday lives, striving to become a little more self-aware, a little more loving, a little more whole. And as more of us commit to this path, the energy of the world slowly begins to shift.

Collective healing doesn’t mean erasing diversity or uniformity of thought. Rather, it’s about creating a world where each person’s unique journey is honored and where the higher vibrations of self-awareness and love become the norm. Imagine a world where people make decisions not out of fear or ego but from a place of grounded clarity and deep compassion.

Why Now? The Urgency of Healing

The challenges we face today—climate change, social divisions, economic disparity—are reminders that the old ways of thinking no longer serve us. They call for a new approach, one that starts from within and expands outward. By focusing on our own transformation, we can become the kind of leaders the world needs—leaders who act from a place of integrity, courage, and vision.

If you’ve been looking for a way to make a difference, know that your journey towards wholeness is the first step. It may seem small, but every step you take creates a ripple. And when those ripples meet, they create waves that can shape the world.

The Role of Tools like Apex Life in Synergy

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program is one such tool that supports this process. It’s designed to help you understand the inherited patterns, karmic challenges, and learned behaviors that might be holding you back. By working through these layers, you not only transform your own life but also contribute to the larger movement of collective healing. Programs like this offer a roadmap, a way to navigate the complexities of self-discovery with guidance and support.

Final Thoughts: A Brighter Future Begins with You

The world is in need of healing, but that healing doesn’t start in governments or boardrooms—it starts in the hearts of individuals like you. By embracing your journey, you become a beacon for others, showing them that change is possible, not through force, but through the quiet power of transformation. In a time when the world is aching for change, never underestimate the impact of your own healing. Every moment you choose peace, compassion, or understanding, you are contributing to a world that is more whole.


So, let’s create that ripple together—one soul at a time.

Ready to start your healing journey?

Discover how the Apex Life in Synergy program can guide you through self-discovery and transformation.




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Love as the Ultimate Power: The Strength Behind Vulnerability

Discover why love is not a weakness but the strongest force in the universe. Learn how love’s transformative power can guide personal growth, transcend fear, and foster deep connections.

In a world where power is often equated with control, strength, or dominance, it can be easy to overlook the most profound and transformative force that we all possess: love.

Many see love as soft, perhaps even a weakness, especially in environments where vulnerability is frowned upon. But what if love is, in fact, the most potent force in the universe? What if it is the key to unlocking the deepest levels of personal growth and spiritual ascension?

The Nature of Love as Power

At its core, love is the opposite of control. It invites openness, understanding, and acceptance. Love is the antithesis of fear. It requires us to release the need to dominate or be dominated and instead embrace connection on a soul-deep level. Love, in this sense, is not a fleeting emotion but an energy that sustains and fuels life itself.

It takes immense courage to love unconditionally—to love ourselves, others, and the world in spite of the difficulties we face. When we allow love to guide our actions and choices, we are not acting out of weakness but from a place of immense strength. This strength is not limited to romantic love; it extends to compassion, kindness, and empathy for all beings.

The Power of Vulnerability

In today's world, vulnerability is often mistaken for weakness. We are taught to protect ourselves by building walls around our hearts, keeping others at arm's length. However, the true power of love comes when we dare to be vulnerable. When we allow ourselves to be open, we create space for genuine connection and healing. Vulnerability is not about being defenseless—it’s about being so secure in our self-love that we can afford to let others in.

This vulnerability is at the core of the Apex Life in Synergy program. Here, love is not something to be feared, but rather harnessed as a tool for self-awareness and growth. Through this process, participants learn to understand that the barriers they’ve built around themselves are not sources of strength, but blockages to their own spiritual development.

Love in Action: Transcending Fear

Fear is one of the greatest forces that holds us back, keeping us stuck in negative cycles. Yet love transcends fear. When we choose to act from a place of love rather than fear, we reclaim our power. We stop allowing fear to dictate our actions and instead move forward with clarity and purpose. In relationships, this can mean the difference between conflict and harmony. In personal growth, it means choosing to heal rather than stay wounded. When we align with love, we operate on a higher frequency, where abundance, joy, and peace naturally flow into our lives.

Love and the Universe: A Cosmic Perspective

On a metaphysical level, love is often described as the highest vibrational energy. It’s no coincidence that many spiritual teachings and philosophies describe love as the foundation of the universe. From a cosmic perspective, love is the force that connects all living beings. It binds us to the earth, to each other, and to the divine. This universal love is not just an abstract concept—it is something we can tap into, channel, and live by every day.

When we embrace love as a guiding force, we align ourselves with the flow of the universe itself. This is where true power lies, not in the ego’s need for control but in our ability to surrender to the expansive, transformative nature of love.

Self-Love: The Foundation of All Strength

Before we can extend love outward, we must first cultivate self-love. Many of us struggle with this concept, confusing it with selfishness or vanity. However, true self-love is about honoring ourselves, respecting our boundaries, and recognizing our intrinsic worth. When we love ourselves, we operate from a place of fullness, rather than lack. This is where real power comes from—not from seeking validation from others but from knowing that we are whole and complete as we are.

The Apex Life in Synergy program offers tools to help individuals build this foundation of self-love. By understanding our patterns, our inherited beliefs, and our karmic lessons, we can begin to see that loving ourselves is not a luxury, but a necessity. It is the first step toward living a life in alignment with our highest potential.

Conclusion: Love as the Ultimate Strength

Love is not a weakness; it is the most powerful force we can harness. It breaks down barriers, transcends fear, and connects us to the greater flow of the universe. When we embrace love in all its forms—self-love, love for others, and love for the world—we step into our true power. We become unstoppable. So, the next time you feel tempted to hide behind the illusion of control or fear, remember that love is your greatest ally. It is the force that will carry you through every challenge, help you rise above every setback, and guide you to the highest version of yourself. Let love be your strength.

For more insight into how love can transform your life, visit Life in Synergy and explore the Apex Life in Synergy program—a journey toward deep self-love, healing, and ultimate spiritual ascension.

❤️

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy Inc.

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Evolution of Humanity and the Role of a Light Worker in a World Often Pitch Black

Discover how light workers contribute to humanity's spiritual evolution, guiding others through challenging times and bringing hope to a world often filled with darkness. Let Boston’s multi award winning wellness Master Helena Collins show you how to embrace your role and find strength through community and personal growth.

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In a world where darkness seems ever-present—where pain, suffering, and confusion appear to dominate the narrative of humanity—there exists a quiet revolution of light workers.

These are the souls who stand tall, despite the pitch black that surrounds them, striving to heal, uplift, and transform the energies of the world. But what does it mean to be a light worker in times like these? How do we balance the evolution of humanity, which feels painfully slow, with our drive to bring about change?

The Evolution of Humanity: More Than a Physical Journey

When we talk about evolution, we often think of physical transformation over time—Darwinian theory at work. But the evolution of humanity isn’t limited to our biological makeup. It’s an evolution of consciousness, awareness, and connection to something much greater than ourselves. Humanity’s spiritual evolution is, at its core, about remembering. We are remembering the truths that have always existed: that we are interconnected, that love is the most powerful force, and that each of us carries the divine spark. This isn’t a straight line of progress. We experience moments of profound awakening, followed by periods of deep challenge and regression.

The process is messy, unpredictable, and often painful.

In today’s world, the darkness feels heavier than ever. Global crises, environmental destruction, political turmoil, widespread suffering—it can all seem like a never-ending avalanche of negativity. And yet, within this darkness lies the potential for transformation.

The Role of the Light Worker: A Beacon Amidst the Darkness

Light workers are those who have heard the call to bring healing and transformation to this world. They are not exempt from the darkness; in fact, they often experience it even more intensely. But they possess the ability—and the responsibility—to hold the light even in the face of overwhelming shadow.

Being a light worker doesn’t mean bypassing the difficulties. It means walking through them with courage. The world today requires those who can sit with the discomfort, who can face the pain with open hearts, and who can transmute it into something more elevated. Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program, for example, is a tool that can help light workers and seekers alike to better understand themselves, their patterns, and how they can rise above their own shadows. By diving deep into our core wounds, inherited traumas, and karmic baggage, we begin to understand the role we’re meant to play in this cosmic journey.

Finding Strength in Community

Being a light worker can often feel like a lonely journey. After all, in a world that celebrates quick fixes and surface-level happiness, those who delve into the deeper aspects of existence might seem ‘out of place.’ But there is a growing community of people who share these values, and together, we can create an energetic field strong enough to counterbalance the darkness.

It’s crucial to seek out and connect with others on the same vibratory path. Whether through programs like Apex Life in Synergy or one-on-one mentorship, having a support network allows you to recharge, recalibrate, and continue the work. It’s through community that we realize we’re not carrying this weight alone. Together, we are stronger.

Embracing the Duality: Light and Dark Coexist

One of the most challenging aspects of being a light worker is accepting that the darkness isn’t going away anytime soon. In fact, the more we shine light, the more shadow will be revealed. It’s a dance between the two forces, and this dance is what propels the evolution of humanity forward. Rather than fighting against the darkness, we must learn to work with it. We must see it as a necessary part of our journey. Just as a seed must push through the dirt to reach the sunlight, humanity must push through its shadow to evolve. The darkness, in many ways, is our greatest teacher.

Practical Ways to Hold the Light

So, how do we, as light workers, continue to evolve ourselves while contributing to the evolution of humanity?

  1. Grounding Practices: Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy program can help you stay connected to your inner light when the external world feels overwhelming.

  2. Daily Intentions: Set a clear intention each day to embody your light, no matter the circumstances. This simple act can shift your energy and influence those around you.

  3. Heal Yourself First: You cannot pour from an empty cup. Prioritize your healing and self-care so that you can show up fully for others. Programs like Apex Life in Synergy are excellent resources for deeper personal transformation.

  4. Service to Others: Offer your gifts in whatever way feels aligned, whether it’s through healing work, mentorship, or simply being a compassionate presence for those in need.

  5. Non-Attachment: Understand that you are not responsible for “saving” the world. Your role is to hold the light and trust that, in doing so, you are contributing to the greater good.

Final Thoughts: The Light Worker’s Legacy

The evolution of humanity is not a sprint, but a marathon. As light workers, we are the ones holding the torch, guiding humanity forward one step at a time. It’s not always an easy path. There are moments of doubt, fatigue, and overwhelm. But remember this: your light matters. Your presence in this world is contributing to a much larger, cosmic unfolding.

We may not always see the immediate impact of our work. But know that every act of kindness, every bit of healing you offer—whether to yourself or others—ripples out into the universe in ways beyond comprehension. And one day, as more and more light workers rise, the darkness will no longer seem so daunting. In a world that often feels pitch black, be the spark. Be the light. You are not alone in this journey, and together, we are evolving toward something far more beautiful than we can yet imagine.

For those seeking deeper guidance, healing, or simply a space to reflect on their own journey as light workers, the Apex Life in Synergy program offers powerful tools to navigate these times with grace and wisdom. Learn more at www.lifeinsynergy.com.


Boston’s multi award winning light worker, Helena Collins

This blog post is inspired by the incredible work of Helena Collins and her dedication to bringing about global change, one enlightened soul at a time.



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Living with the Energy of Negativity While Denying It: A Path to Awareness and Transformation

Explore how unacknowledged negative energy can impact your life and discover the power of accepting and transforming it. Learn how to recognize denial of negativity and turn it into a tool for growth with insights from Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy program.

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We all encounter moments where life’s challenges feel heavier than they should, where negativity seems to loom over every step we take.

Whether it’s from personal circumstances, the pressures of society, or even our own self-critical thoughts, negativity can subtly creep into our lives and take root, sometimes without us even realizing it. But what happens when we live with this energy of negativity and deny its presence? What does it mean to unknowingly give negativity power, while claiming we are unaffected?

The Silent Companion: Unseen, Unacknowledged Negativity

Negativity, when not addressed, can become like an unwanted guest that lingers in your space. You tell yourself you're fine, that it's just a phase, that the problem is external, but internally, this energy chips away at your sense of peace. Often, we deny the presence of negativity because it’s uncomfortable to face. We’ve been taught to “stay positive,” to focus on the good. But in this culture of forced optimism, we forget that acknowledging negative emotions and energy is part of the healing process.

At Life in Synergy, we believe that true awareness begins with recognition and responsibility. Denying negativity doesn't make it go away. In fact, denial is often a way of feeding the very energy you’re trying to escape from. Without acknowledgment, it can manifest in various forms — stress, anxiety, tension in relationships, or even physical discomfort.

The Illusion of Control

When we refuse to acknowledge negativity, we often feel that we are in control. We convince ourselves that we are above those emotions, that positivity is the only answer. But this is where the illusion lies. By denying negative energy, we are not controlling it; we are allowing it to control us from the shadows. This avoidance may show up as resistance to self-reflection or even a defensiveness when others suggest we might need to address something within ourselves. It may appear as constant busyness, as if productivity can keep negativity at bay. But that feeling of unease, the tightness in your chest, or the sleepless nights? That’s negativity tapping on your shoulder, asking for attention.

The Power of Acceptance

The key to transforming negative energy lies in acceptance. Acceptance doesn’t mean surrendering to it or wallowing in it. Rather, it means recognizing it as a part of your experience. When you acknowledge negativity, you create space for it to be transformed into something that serves you. This process is not about blame or judgment — it’s about observation and understanding.

Helena Collins, the multi award winning creator of the Apex Life in Synergy program, often speaks about the power of self-awareness in overcoming life's challenges. She encourages us to explore the root causes of our emotions.

Are they karmic patterns?

Are they inherited from family dynamics?

Or are they societal expectations that you’ve unconsciously absorbed?

Through the tools offered in her program, you can begin to recognize how deeply ingrained negative energy may be, and more importantly, how you can shift it.

Transforming Negativity into Fuel for Growth

Once you acknowledge negativity, you can begin to work with it. Instead of denying it or pushing it away, try asking: "What is this energy here to teach me?" This simple question can shift your perspective from resistance to curiosity. When we view negativity as a teacher rather than an enemy, we open ourselves up to learning and transformation.

The Apex Life in Synergy program’s approach to this transformation is multi-faceted, addressing both the energetic and physical aspects of negative emotions. It combines ancient wisdom with modern practices, helping you to clear your energy fields and release the hold that unacknowledged negativity can have. Through SFM, breath work, meditation, and deep reflective subconscious tools, you can realign with your true self — a self that thrives beyond the limitations of negative energy.

Moving Forward with Awareness

Living with negativity while denying it creates a dissonance within. It's like driving a car with the parking brake on — you're moving, but not freely. The first step toward freedom is recognizing the energy you're carrying. Once you're aware of it, you can begin to unravel it, transform it, and eventually, release it. It’s not about never experiencing negativity — that’s impossible. Life will always present challenges, but how you respond to them determines your path. By embracing both the light and the shadow, you move closer to a state of harmony within yourself.

At Life in Synergy, we guide you through this journey of self-awareness and transformation. With the tools and insights from Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program, you’ll find that even the heaviest of negative energies can become a source of profound growth. All it takes is the courage to stop denying and start acknowledging — and from there, your life can shift in ways you never imagined.

👍 Interested in exploring how the Apex Life in Synergy® program can help you break free from unacknowledged negativity?


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Who let the air out of the tires?

Discover how to identify and overcome energy hounds, subconscious sabotage, and old patterns that block your spiritual growth. Explore insights on achieving personal ascension through self-awareness and energy protection with Boston's award winning wellness dynamic duo, Brian and Helena Collins

Did you ever have a moment when you felt that the world was your oyster?

Life itself was a supernova and the world was exactly on track?

You could see your role and it’s infinite possibilities on how you could contribute to the bigger picture of life itself and by doing so, you yourself would also ascend to new levels of consciousness? You may have had a specific song play in your head as a soundtrack and a special pep in your step as each step forward was indeed a step forward into a new world of your creation?

Then the fan that cosmically spun, suddenly had massive shit thrown directly at it and clogged its mechanisms. Suddenly you felt devastated, weakened and off track. Your very being was wiped and the pep in the step was replaced with the doom in your gloom. How can this be? How can a cosmic battery be drained so quickly?

Energy hounds and old patterns are Ninjas that’s why.

Both can knock a person off center at any time if a person loses sight of the unfortunate truth of our dimension: if there is good, there is evil.

A good person who is blind to this reality is subject to the double whammy of self attack and of the negative will of others. A self attack consists of subconscious thoughts and actions often sabotaging a persons forward progress. Why would a person do that to themselves you might think? They wouldn’t, the subconscious mind is simply a hard drive that stores information throughout a persons present ( and past) life and when challenged with new energy patterns, thoughts, deeds and actions may rebel against what it considers its “only”cemented reality.

This challenge may lead to self destructive actions, arguments, disillusionment as the subconscious tries its best to hold a firm grasp on “What is” and unknowingly a person will fall prey to the subtle aspects of old ways surfacing and causing slow downs in ones progress. I personally went through periods of this as I studied deeply in Chi Gong and Hawaiian spiritual aspects throughout the years. I was challenged daily by my older mindset of being “just” an inner city kid who couldn’t possibly ever be like the Masters I idolized, after all, they had the secrets and me? I was just a guy from the projects in the lower end of South Boston.

All old bullshit in my subconscious.

As my training continued over the decades and I began to wake to the acknowledge that I was the person people came to see from all over the world to create change for them at my office on Newbury street in Boston’s Back Bay and I was rewriting my life story daily by fully dedicating myself to the new energies I was creating. I will pat myself on the back and say I also never forgot that there is a ton of negative bullshit out there and stayed true to my inner city side (keeping a spiritual head on a swivel) so I guess in many ways I accepted that the yin yang as just not an Asian symbol, but an absolute fact on the ever shifting levels of invisible influential duplicity and prepared myself for any and all “Ninjas” that may pop up.

If there is light, there is indeed dark and a seeker has to be prepared and learn how to feel the subtle changes of these intertwining flows moment by moment. As you unlock new levels of self , you can and will identify the “What was energy” and “What is” and be more aware to old energies trying to regain frequency control and influence your thoughts and actions. This is the key to not allowing subconscious influence to creep in as you ascend into new heights.

Energy hounds?

Now they are on a whole different predatory level.

They are ones that when you say things like “What a wonderful sunny day” they will say to you “ No, Not really, “blank” is currently in war and people are dying or tell you a story about how a relative of theirs can’t be out in the sun and cries in a window when the sun comes out. You know the type, we have all met someone like this be it at work, social life or encounter with a stranger on the street. These people will say white is black, up is down, day is night and so on, all to just cause a rift in your peace so they can feed on your positive field reaction and use it for themselves. They in turn will make you feel as if you are one that has all the facts wrong and then add onto the energy draining by gaslighting you into thinking that you may be wrong for being so positive in an often negative world.

We all know the feeling after being near a person like this: tired, confused, and completely off center.

These people are very easy to diffuse, you simply do not engage and if you have engaged…walk away. There is no being rude to a person who is trying to drain energy off you, it is simply aura self defense. You owe nothing to an energy hound, if you work with one, if you are friends with one, if you just met one…..when you feel the shift in your vibration begin and feel a “pull” into this persons world…walk away. Preservation is better than being reduced to their level. Who cares if they say “You are rude” as they are simply sending out feelers to pull you back in to them by seeking another reaction from you by doing so, see the endless tendrils?

You owe it to yourself to read this blog and then study what thoughts YOU then have….are they telling you “This is bullshit” perhaps?

Mine thought was just that many decades ago when I met the Kahuna I would study with for the very 1st time, he quickly altered that thought of mine and well, off I went into the land of renew and haven’t stopped yet. He has since passed away and in many ways I feel as if I have picked up the staff and gone off into the desert of the world continuing my “job” of being the man behind the curtain of change. I remember when he came to Boston 2 decades ago after I did something VERY large for the city and pulled me aside and told me that All ( including him) in his organization should be studying with me, he was so proud of what I had become and said that saying that fact to people in his organization would cause many wonderful “opportunities” to grow and advance. I asked him why would people reject that fact if they were indeed so ascended? He said in his great old Hawaiian accent ( sort of like a Hawaiian Jerry Seinfeld) “ Ohhhh, no matter who people think they are, they always have ego tapping them on their shoulders to remind them they are not”.

So I ask you at YOUR crossroads, see that blue button below?

That is now your chance to ascend, a chance to begin to study new ways or let old outdated energies run your life ( and thus all life on Earth based on Quantum Entanglement). By simply clicking off and taking some morsels of knowledge to regurgitate that you read on this blog and not telling your clients, friends or co workers about www.lifeinsynergy.com, you continue the rule of old energies on the planet and add onto the “take take take” imbalances on Earth or you can purchase one of our programs and help shift the planet.


Brian Collins- Retired Healer and Current Old Man behind the curtain

Life in Synergy® Inc.



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Building Power Skills with Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy Program

The power skills you build with Apex Life in Synergy are more than just tools for success—they are the foundation for a fulfilling, purpose-driven life. Whether you're looking to enhance your career, improve your relationships, or simply become more resilient in the face of life's challenges, these skills are the key to unlocking your full potential.

In today's rapidly changing world, the importance of "power skills" can't be overstated.

These skills—sometimes labeled as "soft skills"—are the backbone of personal and professional success. They encompass everything from emotional intelligence and communication to adaptability and leadership. But how does one cultivate these crucial abilities? Enter Helena Collins and her transformative Apex Life in Synergy program, which is designed not just to teach these skills, but to help individuals embody them fully.

What Are “Power Skills”?

Before diving into how the Apex Life in Synergy program builds power skills, let's take a closer look at what they are:

  • Emotional Intelligence: Understanding and managing your emotions, as well as recognizing and influencing the emotions of others.

  • Communication: Articulating thoughts clearly and effectively, listening actively, and reading between the lines of what’s said—and unsaid.

  • Adaptability: Thriving in change, adjusting approaches when faced with new challenges or circumstances.

  • Leadership: Inspiring and guiding others toward a shared goal, regardless of your role or position.

  • Creativity: Innovating and thinking outside the box, bringing fresh ideas to the table.

  • Resilience: Bouncing back from setbacks with a positive outlook and a strong sense of purpose.

These skills aren't just desirable; they are essential. Whether you're navigating the intricacies of a corporate career, managing personal relationships, or simply striving to become the best version of yourself, power skills are the tools that will get you there.

The Apex Life in Synergy Approach

Helena Collins, a pioneer in the wellness and personal development space, has spent years refining her approach to building these vital skills at her 2 highly successful wellness studios in Boston’s Back Bay. The Apex Life in Synergy program is the culmination of this work—an all-encompassing journey that integrates physical, mental, and spiritual growth.

1. Holistic Skill Development

The Apex program doesn’t treat power skills as isolated abilities to be learned. Instead, it weaves them into every aspect of the program. Through a combination of online lessons, one-on-one coaching (for an additional fee) , and active engagement, participants are not just taught power skills—they practice and live them. For example, emotional intelligence is cultivated through guided meditations and reflective exercises, while leadership is fostered in activities that challenge participants to take initiative and inspire others.

2. Experiential Learning

One of the standout features of the Apex Life in Synergy program is its emphasis on experiential learning. Instead of just talking about adaptability or communication, participants are placed in situations that require them to actively use these skills. This could be through role-playing scenarios, real-time problem-solving challenges, or even in the way daily interactions within the program are structured. The focus is on learning by doing, which leads to deeper, more ingrained skill development.

3. Personalized Coaching

Helena Collins understands that each individual is unique, with different strengths, weaknesses, and goals. The Apex Life in Synergy program also offers personalized coaching to help participants identify the specific power skills they need to develop and the best ways to do so. This tailored approach ensures that the skills you build are not just relevant, but also aligned with your personal and professional aspirations.

Why It Matters

In the end, the power skills you build with Apex Life in Synergy are more than just tools for success—they are the foundation for a fulfilling, purpose-driven life. Whether you're looking to enhance your career, improve your relationships, or simply become more resilient in the face of life's challenges, these skills are the key to unlocking your full potential.

Helena Collins' program is not just about teaching; it's about transformation.

It's about guiding you to discover the best version of yourself, equipped with the skills you need to navigate whatever life throws your way. So, if you're ready to take the next step in your personal and professional journey, the Apex Life in Synergy program is here to help you build the power skills that will carry you to new heights.

For more information or to start your journey, visit Life in Synergy today.

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Overwhelmed Butterfly

Discover the power of the self and the Butterfly effect and how the world is your canvas.

In the chaos of the world today, it's easy to feel overwhelmed.

When headlines blare with turmoil and change, and everything seems to be spinning out of control, it's natural to feel a sense of powerlessness. Sometimes, that inner voice that wants to make a difference gets drowned out by the sheer weight of it all. It's an old story—one where we let ourselves believe that a single person's actions aren't enough to change the script. But this belief, while understandable, is what keeps old energies, the same harmful cycles, in charge of our lives and the world around us.

It can feel like we're standing in a storm, isolated and unsure. We think, "What can one person possibly do in all of this?" The truth is, we've all been conditioned to believe that change has to be monumental and fast, that it must be something we can see with our own eyes immediately. But science, and even spirituality, shows us that this simply isn't true. The small actions we take, the whispers of change, matter far more than we often acknowledge.

Let us introduce you to the Butterfly Effect.

The Butterfly Effect is a concept from chaos theory that tells us how small actions can have massive, unpredictable consequences. A butterfly flapping its wings in one part of the world can set in motion a chain of events that ultimately affects weather patterns thousands of miles away. While this may sound abstract, it has a grounding truth: seemingly insignificant moments create ripples that extend far beyond what we can perceive. And this is not just poetic—it's scientifically demonstrated. In our interconnected universe, every choice, every action, no matter how small, resonates.

We see the Butterfly Effect at play in human behavior, too. When one person smiles at a stranger, that stranger may be uplifted enough to make a positive choice in their day, which can lead to someone else benefiting, and on and on. Our actions, whether rooted in fear or hope, contribute to the energy of our shared reality. One person deciding to extend kindness, deciding to be aware, can alter the course of their community, even if that change isn't immediately visible.

Yet, it's easy to become paralyzed when we look at the bigger picture. We see everything that needs fixing, and it becomes too much. It's here that we must remember that the only true power we have—and it's a profound one—is in our ability to start small. Every time you choose love over fear, every time you choose awareness over ignorance, you contribute to shifting the collective energy. You stop the same old story from repeating itself. You step away from allowing the cycles of pain and control to keep playing out, and you invite new possibilities.

Feeling overwhelmed and alone doesn't negate your power; it reveals how much the world truly needs your unique energy. Your actions, your shift in thinking, even just being present and aware, matters. Life isn't about waiting for the massive opportunity to change everything at once—it's about recognizing that the opportunity to create change exists in every breath, every word, every choice. The power of one person, multiplied over time and through influence, can shift reality itself.

The Life in Synergy approach reminds us that we're never really alone in our efforts. Just as a butterfly's wings create unseen currents, our intentions and actions are part of a larger, connected whole. When we lift our own energy—when we choose to believe in our potential to create change—we lift others, too. We free ourselves from the old energies and invite a new story to unfold. You don't have to save the world alone. You just need to begin, in whatever way you can. Your ripple, combined with countless others, will shape the future.

If you're feeling stuck or unsure where to start, Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy program offers guidance to help you break free of these old patterns. It's about learning to believe in the difference you can make—understanding that your personal growth is part of the change the world needs.

Visit www.lifeinsynergy.com to learn more and start your journey of making a difference, one small step at a time.

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The Vastness of Human Potential vs. The Infection of Old Energies

Explore the contrast between humanity’s vast potential and the outdated energies like racism, sexism, and greed that hold us back. Discover how fashion, technology, and climate have evolved, yet emotional imbalances persist. Learn ways to break free and achieve spiritual growth.

As we walk through the modern world, it’s almost impossible not to marvel at how much things have changed.

Fashion has evolved from Victorian corsets to athleisure and sustainable wear. Technology has taken us from hand-cranked telephones to devices that fit in our palms, connecting us instantly across continents. The climate, once stable and predictable, is now a chaotic force reminding us daily of the impacts of human activity. In so many ways, humanity has made progress, and yet, when you look beneath the surface, ancient, outdated energies continue to linger like a silent infection.

We speak of human potential in lofty terms. There’s an unspoken acknowledgment that each of us is capable of extraordinary things. At our core, we are beings of light, creativity, and love, capable of profound transformation both personally and collectively. The potential is vast, unlimited even. But old energies, some of which have persisted for millennia, are slowing down the growth of humanity, keeping us tethered to cycles of suffering and imbalance.

Fashion & Technology Have Evolved, So Why Haven’t We?

Think about it: how has fashion changed over the last century? Once symbols of status and class, clothing now reflects individuality, freedom, and even resistance. We’ve transitioned from rigid gendered clothing norms to embracing fluidity in expression. Yet, despite this evolution, look at how power dynamics—like sexism and gender inequality—continue to thrive. The clothing may have changed, but the underlying issues of control, hierarchy, and worthiness linger.

Similarly, technology has brought us to the brink of miracles. We’ve created machines that think faster than we do, artificial intelligence that learns, and spacecraft that reach beyond our solar system. And yet, with all this advancement, the emotional wounds of our ancestors—racism, greed, desire for control—remain disturbingly familiar. Isn’t it curious that while technology marches forward at an exponential rate, our hearts, our emotional intelligence, often seem stuck?

We’ve been raised in a world where old energies like fear and separation continue to dictate our choices. Racism, sexism, and greed aren’t merely relics of past generations—they are living forces, woven into the very fabric of our societies. They thrive in the shadows, infecting new generations despite our technological sophistication.

The Inertia of Old Energies: Why Does This Happen?

What is it about these old energies that make them so sticky, so hard to shake? Part of the issue lies in their subtlety. While fashion and technology are external and visible, emotional and karmic imbalances are invisible forces that persist beneath the surface. These energies thrive in patterns, passed down through generations—sometimes consciously, but often unconsciously.

Many of us were taught to believe that survival comes from power, that control ensures safety, and that the "other" is to be feared. These beliefs are deeply ingrained, and they don’t disappear just because we invent smartphones or revolutionize fashion. They take root in our families, communities, and institutions, quietly shaping the world around us.

Old energies are comfortable. They feel safe because they are familiar. Breaking out of them requires us to confront uncomfortable truths about ourselves and the world. It means we have to look in the mirror and see where we, too, have perpetuated division, judgment, and fear. It means stepping into new ways of being, where the heart, not the ego, leads the way.

So What Do We Do?

There is hope, of course. If human potential is truly infinite, then we have the capacity to transcend these old energies. The question is, how?

First, it begins with awareness.

Becoming aware of the old patterns we carry—whether personal or societal—gives us the power to change them. You can’t fix what you don’t acknowledge. We need to recognize how these forces show up in our lives, not just in large systemic ways, but in the subtle, everyday interactions we have. Where does control creep in? Where does fear of the unknown arise?

Second, we need tools to dissolve these energies.

That’s where programs like Apex Life in Synergy come into play. Helena Collins’ program is designed to not only raise awareness of these ancient forces but also provide a roadmap for moving beyond them. It’s not enough to just talk about how the world needs to change; we need practical steps to untangle the old threads and weave something new.

Lastly, we need courage. Growth is uncomfortable. It requires us to step into the unknown and let go of the security that old energies offer, even if they no longer serve us. But the reward is profound—personal and collective evolution, where humanity finally begins to tap into its vast potential.

Human Potential: The Next Frontier

The external world will continue to evolve—fashion, technology, climate. But true change happens within. Imagine if, alongside our technological advancements, we began to heal the old wounds of racism, sexism, and greed. Imagine a world where the pursuit of power and control gave way to collaboration and compassion. We are on the cusp of something extraordinary, but we cannot carry the infection of old energies with us into the future. The time to shed them is now, and the tools to do so are already in our hands. If we can harness the potential within, humanity’s next great leap won’t be a technological one, but a spiritual one.


Want to begin understanding and releasing the patterns that hold you back? Check out Apex Life in Synergy and start your journey to a new way of being. Visit Life In Synergy to learn more.




©2024 Life in Synergy Inc.


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Fear: The Hidden Gateway to Spiritual Growth

Fear can impede spiritual growth, but it also holds the key to emotional release and healing. Discover how fear manifests and how to unlock spiritual potential by embracing and understanding it.

Fear. It’s an ancient, primal response embedded deep within us, designed to keep us alive.

In moments of physical danger, it kicks in, sharpens our senses, and propels us to fight or flee. But beyond its life-saving utility, fear has another, more elusive role—it holds a key to our spiritual awakening. Yet, fear in its many forms can block our path, keeping us trapped in cycles of worry, self-doubt, and avoidance. Understanding how fear manifests is essential to unlocking the hallways of our consciousness, where powerful emotions lie dormant, waiting to be acknowledged.

The Many Faces of Fear

Fear shows up in our lives in ways that go beyond mere survival instincts. Often, it hides behind layers of emotions like anxiety, dread, or insecurity, quietly dictating our decisions and actions. It's fear that tells us to shrink, to play small, to stick with what we know instead of stepping into the unknown. It clouds our inner vision, making it difficult to connect with our higher selves or embrace spiritual growth.

At times, fear isn’t even about immediate threats. It can be inherited, passed down from generations, shaped by past traumas, or even carried from past lifetimes. These inherited fears may stem from long-forgotten memories or karmic imprints, subtly influencing how we move through the world today. While some fears are easy to recognize, others sit beneath the surface, subtly guiding our decisions, often without us even realizing.

Fear as a Spiritual Roadblock

From a spiritual standpoint, fear can block us from progressing. It acts like an internal dam, preventing us from accessing the deeper realms of consciousness where our highest truths reside. Think of fear as a hallway, where every door represents an opportunity to heal, to grow, and to expand. But as long as we remain gripped by fear, these doors stay closed, and we become stuck in a single, narrow corridor of life.

For example, fear of failure can keep us from exploring new opportunities or starting on a spiritual path. Fear of rejection holds us back from forming meaningful connections with others. Even the fear of our own potential—of being truly seen, heard, and understood—can keep us small and stagnant, stifling our spiritual progress. But fear isn’t just an obstacle; it’s also a doorway. When we confront and embrace it, we unlock access to emotional and spiritual layers that lie just beyond. Inside this fear exists more than just dread or discomfort. There’s wisdom, healing, and the chance for release.

The Substrate of Fear: A Path to Emotional Release

Fear is not just an isolated emotion; it's a substrate—a fertile ground where many other emotions are stored. Beneath the surface of fear, there are often other unresolved feelings: grief, anger, shame, sadness. These emotions become embedded within us, waiting for the right trigger to emerge. Fear opens the door for these emotions to rise to the surface, giving us the opportunity to release them.

Picture a hallway in your mind, lined with doors.

Behind each door, there are fragments of past memories where fear has played a role.

Some of these memories are clear and easily remembered, while others are so deeply buried they seem distant and vague.

But the moment fear shows up, the doors start to open, bringing forth not just the memory of fear, but every emotion that came with it—helplessness, sadness, or even regret.

When we face fear, we’re not just confronting the immediate emotion; we’re also offered a chance to release the entire emotional tapestry that’s been stored along with it.

Turning Fear into a Catalyst for Growth

While fear can be debilitating, it also has the power to initiate profound spiritual growth. When we experience fear, we often feel a visceral tightening or constriction. This physical sensation is a signal—an opportunity to look deeper. Rather than running from fear, we can turn toward it, asking, "What is this fear trying to show me?"

In the Apex Life in Synergy program, we teach that fear is a guide, not an enemy. When we lean into our fears, rather than running away, we begin to see fear as a form of spiritual resistance that holds valuable lessons. Much like resistance in physical exercise strengthens muscles, resistance in spiritual practice strengthens the soul. By identifying the root of our fears, we start to dismantle the barriers that block our personal growth and soul ascension.

It's important to recognize that many of our fears are not entirely ours. They are inherited from our ancestors, imprinted in our DNA, passed down through generations. These fears may have once served a purpose—protecting us from physical harm or ensuring our survival—but they no longer serve us in the same way today. Now, these inherited fears can limit our spiritual progress. When we consciously work to release these fears, we not only heal ourselves but also free future generations from the chains of past trauma.

Walking Through the Doorways of Fear

Each time fear arises, it offers a chance to pause, breathe, and walk through the doorway it opens. On the other side of fear, there is clarity, freedom, and expansion. But to reach that other side, we must be willing to face the discomfort head-on. This isn’t easy, and it isn’t always immediate. But with patience, self-compassion, and the right tools, we can transform fear into a catalyst for growth.

At Apex Life in Synergy, we believe in embracing fear as part of the journey. Helena Collins’ unique approach helps individuals explore their deepest fears in a safe and supportive environment, guiding them to release the emotional baggage that has accumulated over the years. The program's tailored methods offer the tools to not only face fear but to see it for what it truly is—a spiritual teacher, guiding us toward deeper awareness and emotional liberation.

As you continue on your journey of self-discovery, remember that fear isn’t something to be ashamed of or avoided. Instead, it’s a signpost, pointing you to areas of your life where there’s room for growth, healing, and spiritual evolution. Walk the hallway of fear, open the doors, and see what lies on the other side. You may be surprised by the liberation that awaits.

For more insights on releasing fear and uncovering the hallways of your own consciousness, explore Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program at www.lifeinsynergy.com.

Take the first step toward embracing your fears and unlocking your spiritual potential here.

Helena and Brian

©2024 Life in Synergy Inc.

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