Global Instability: Unlocking the Akashic Records and Human Potential

“Past moments that inspire us can create lasting impressions, and the present memories we create remain with us throughout our lives.”

Helena Collins

In a world increasingly defined by uncertainty and upheaval, it’s easy to feel adrift, overwhelmed by the forces beyond our control.

Economic instability, political discord, and environmental crises have become the backdrop of our lives, prompting many to seek solace and direction. Yet, within this turbulence lies an opportunity—a chance to connect with the inner self, to tap into the Akashic Records, and to harness the collective power of humanity to evolve beyond our current stagnation.

The Mirror of Global Instability

Global instability is not merely an external phenomenon; it is a mirror reflecting the internal state of humanity. The chaos we see in the world is often a manifestation of the unresolved conflicts within each of us. Fear, greed, and division are not just societal issues—they are personal ones, rooted in the depths of the human psyche. This is where the inner self becomes crucial. By turning inward and confronting our own shadows, we begin to understand that the chaos outside is a call to address the chaos within.

The Akashic Records, often described as a cosmic library containing the history of all souls and their experiences, offer a profound tool for this inner journey. They are not just a repository of past lives and karma but a guide to understanding our purpose and potential in the present moment.Accessing the Akashic Records is akin to opening a doorway to universal knowledge and wisdom. It requires a state of deep inner stillness and openness, a willingness to confront both the light and the darkness within. When we engage with the Records, we are not just seeking answers about our past; we are uncovering the patterns that bind us to the cycles of fear and division that perpetuate global instability.

This knowledge is not meant to be hoarded or used for personal gain.

It is a beacon that illuminates our collective path forward. Each soul’s journey within the Akashic Records is unique, yet deeply interconnected with the journeys of others. By understanding our place within this vast web of existence, we unlock the potential to transcend our individual limitations and contribute to the collective evolution of humanity.

The Untapped Connective Ability of Humanity

At the heart of this evolution is the untapped connective ability of all humans—a profound, yet often overlooked, aspect of our existence. This ability is not just about empathy or communication; it is about recognizing the oneness of all life. The divisions that fuel global instability—whether they are based on race, religion, nationality, or ideology—are illusions, perpetuated by the ego. When we look beyond these illusions, we see that we are all threads in the same tapestry. By tapping into this connective ability, we move from a mindset of survival to one of cooperation and co-creation. The challenges that face us, from climate change to social inequality, are not insurmountable. They are invitations to innovate, to collaborate, and to evolve. The solutions we seek are not outside of us—they are within us, waiting to be realized through collective action.

Moving Beyond Eons of Stagnation with Apex Life in Synergy

Stagnation, both individually and collectively, arises when we resist change. Yet, change is the very essence of life. The Akashic Records teach us that evolution is a constant process, one that requires us to let go of the old and embrace the new. This is not always easy, especially in times of global instability, when the instinct is to cling to what is familiar. However, it is precisely in these moments of uncertainty that the greatest growth occurs. As we navigate the complexities of the modern world, we must remember that we are not alone. We are supported by the wisdom of the ages, encoded in the Akashic Records, and by the innate connective ability of humanity. By embracing this support, we can move beyond stagnation, both as individuals and as a species.

Wrapping it all up already: A Call to Evolve

The current state of global instability is a wake-up call, urging us to look within and to reconnect with the deeper truths of our existence. It is a reminder that we are all part of something much greater than ourselves—a cosmic dance of evolution that spans lifetimes and dimensions.By accessing the Akashic Records and embracing our innate connectivity, we can transform this period of turmoil into a catalyst for growth. Together, we have the power to overcome any challenge, to heal the divisions that separate us, and to create a future that reflects the highest potential of humanity.

For more insights and guidance on your spiritual journey, visit Life in Synergy and explore how you can tap into your inner wisdom and contribute to the collective evolution of our world.

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy Inc

Boston Ma.

Holding Onto Letting Go: The Path to True Enlightenment

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, the concept of "letting go" can seem like a paradox.

How can we hold onto the idea of releasing our grip on what binds us by holding onto what WE want?

This journey isn't about abandoning everything we know but rather about embracing the essence of transformation and allowing new energies to guide us toward true enlightenment. Enlightenment is not a marketplace where we selectively pick and choose what suits our current state of mind. It's an invitation to awaken our senses to the infinite possibilities that lie beyond our comfort zones. Enlightenment beckons us to open our eyes and ears to the profound wisdom that a teacher has to offer, urging us to evolve continually.

Letting go is often misconstrued as giving up or losing something valuable. In reality, it's about releasing the stagnant energies that no longer serve our higher purpose. By holding onto the intent of letting go, we create space for new practices, methods, and experiences to flow into our lives. This is not a passive act but a conscious decision to evolve and grow. True enlightenment requires us to step beyond our preconceived notions and embrace new methods and practices. This might involve exploring different spiritual practices, engaging in mindful meditation, or simply allowing ourselves to be present in the moment. Each new practice is a step towards expanding our consciousness and tapping into the universal energy that connects us all.

As we embark on this journey, it's essential to approach it with humility.

The great quote we used frequently at our former multi award winning brick and mortar studio in Boston’s Back Bay, "I know nothing about what you do, but I know more than you," served as a powerful reminder of the dangers of arrogance when we were confronted by people who knew nothing about our global training, our history of success or philosophy. True wisdom comes from acknowledging limitations and being open to learning from every person and experience we encounter. One of the most profound aspects of letting go is the gift of presence. By releasing our attachment to past regrets and future anxieties, we can fully immerse ourselves in the present moment. This presence allows us to experience life with clarity and purpose, awakening us to the beauty and interconnectedness of all things.

As you reflect on the concept of holding onto letting go, consider how you can incorporate this practice into your daily life.

What energies and practices can you embrace to enhance your journey toward enlightenment?

How can you remain open and humble, allowing the universe to guide you towards your highest potential?

Enlightenment is not a destination but a continuous journey of growth and self-discovery. By holding onto the intention of letting go, we create a pathway to true transformation, allowing us to live with greater awareness, acceptance, and inner peace. Embrace this journey with an open heart and mind, and watch as the universe unfolds its infinite wisdom before you.In our quest for spiritual growth, it's vital to remember that enlightenment is not about selectively choosing what feels comfortable.

It's about FULLY embracing the unknown, allowing new energies to guide us, and remaining humble in our pursuit of wisdom.

Don't be the person who claims to know more without understanding. Instead, be open to learning, evolving, and holding onto the beautiful paradox of letting go.

Helena Collins-2x Best of Boston Winner

www.lifeinsynergy.com

What Happens After We Die? Rediscovering the Heaven Within

The question of what happens after we die is one of the most profound and frequently asked questions in human history.

It taps into our deepest fears, hopes, and curiosities about the nature of existence and what lies beyond our physical lives. Many religious and spiritual traditions suggest that afterlife is a time of reward or punishment based on how we lived our lives on Earth. However, in this contemplation, we often overlook a crucial aspect: most of us never truly live in the first place.

The Ol’ Illusion of Deferred Reward aka 3 Card spiritual monty

Many people live their lives in anticipation of a heavenly reward, believing that true fulfillment and happiness are reserved for the afterlife. This mindset can lead to a life filled with deferred dreams and suppressed desires, as people endure hardship with the hope of a better existence after death. Many “spiritual teachers” use this concept as a crutch and hide behind sales techniques to keep people “coming back for more”. But what if the true essence of heaven isn't a distant promise, but something that can be experienced here and now? What if a person could bring the energy of some unseen peaceful dimension to the Earth realm through study and practice?

The Heaven Within and Living Fully in the Present

The concept of "heaven on earth" isn't just a poetic phrase; it’s a tangible reality that can be achieved if we shift our focus inward. Living a fulfilling life doesn't require waiting for an afterlife. It begins with an internal transformation, where we embrace the present moment and cultivate joy, peace, and contentment from within. This perspective aligns with many spiritual teachings that emphasize mindfulness and self-awareness as pathways to enlightenment and happiness. To truly live is to be fully present in each moment, to embrace the beauty and challenges of life without constantly yearning for something beyond our reach. This shift in mindset allows us to experience a profound sense of peace and fulfillment, regardless of external circumstances. It’s about finding joy in the journey and appreciating the present moment for what it is.

Helena Collins and the Apex Life in Synergy Program

For those seeking guidance on how to live more fully in the present, Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program is an invaluable resource. Recognized with the "Best of Boston" award for her transformative work, Helena offers a comprehensive approach to personal growth and enlightenment. Her program helps individuals unlock their potential and experience life with greater clarity and purpose. You can learn more about her program and its benefits here.

Why Wait for Heaven? Embrace Your Journey Today

Living in the now is about realizing that the heaven we seek is already within us. It requires effort and intentionality to cultivate this awareness, but the rewards are indeed transformative. Instead of postponing happiness for an uncertain future, we can choose to create our own paradise here on earth, enriching our lives and those around us. The journey to a more fulfilling life begins with a single step. By embracing the present moment and making conscious choices, we can transform our lives and create our own version of heaven on earth. Programs like Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy can provide the tools and guidance needed to make this transformation a reality.

Wrap Up

What happens after we die remains a mystery, but what we do with our lives now is within our control. By choosing to live fully and embrace the present moment, we can create a life that feels like heaven on earth. To start your journey towards a more enlightened and fulfilling life, consider exploring the transformative resources available through Helena Collins and her acclaimed program.

Learn more about Helena Collins and her life-changing work at Life in Synergy.

©2024 Life in Synergy Inc.

The Clouded Mind: Perception, Reality, and the Eternal Cycle of Mistakes

Helena Collins shows you how to open up to the cosmos

In the delicate dance of life, our minds serve as the prism through which we perceive and interpret our reality.

This prism, however, is not always crystal clear. Often, it is clouded by a myriad of factors—emotions, past experiences, societal conditioning, and subconscious patterns. When our perception is clouded, our reality becomes distorted, leading us to recreate the same mistakes over and over, perpetuating a cycle that can span lifetimes and echo through the corridors of history. A clouded mind is like a fogged-up mirror. When we look into it, the reflection is hazy, and our understanding of ourselves and our surroundings becomes skewed. This cloudiness can arise from various sources:

1. Emotional Turbulence: Intense emotions, whether they be fear, anger, or sadness, can cloud our judgment. In the grip of strong emotions, we often react impulsively, making decisions that are not in alignment with our true selves.

2. Past Experiences: Traumas and unresolved issues from the past can linger in our subconscious, influencing our current thoughts and actions. These unresolved issues act as filters through which we view new experiences, often leading us to misinterpret situations and repeat past mistakes.

3. Societal Conditioning: From a young age, we are bombarded with religious beliefs, societal norms and expectations. These external influences shape our beliefs and perceptions, often leading us away from discovering our own beliefs and authentic selves and towards actions that do not serve our highest good.

4. Subconscious Patterns: Our subconscious mind is a powerful force, driving much of our behavior without our conscious awareness. Patterns ingrained in the subconscious, often from early childhood, can lead us to repeat the same mistakes, even when we consciously desire change.

When our minds are clouded, our perception of reality is distorted. We might see threats where there are none, interpret kindness as manipulation, or view opportunities as risks. This distorted perception influences our actions, leading us to make decisions that reinforce the cloudiness of our mind. For instance, someone who has experienced betrayal may develop a distorted view of relationships, seeing potential partners as untrustworthy. This perception can lead them to sabotage relationships, thereby reinforcing their belief in the untrustworthiness of others. The cycle continues, as each new experience is filtered through the same clouded lens, leading to the same outcomes.

Throughout history, this pattern of clouded perception leading to repeated mistakes has played out on both personal and collective levels. Societies have risen and fallen, often making the same errors in judgment that their predecessors did. Wars are fought over the same misunderstandings, and civilizations crumble under the weight of repeated missteps. On a personal level, individuals find themselves trapped in cycles of behavior that they cannot seem to break. Whether it’s choosing the wrong partners, engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors, or perpetuating limiting beliefs, the clouded mind keeps us bound to our mistakes.

Ending the pattern

To break free from this cycle, we must first clear the fog from our minds. This requires a journey inward, towards self-awareness and healing. Here are some steps to begin this journey:

1. Mindfulness and Meditation: By practicing mindfulness and meditation with the Apex Life in Synergy program, we can become more aware of our thoughts and emotions. This awareness allows us to observe our patterns without judgment and begin to understand their roots.

2. Healing Past Wounds: Confronting and healing past traumas is crucial to clearing the cloudiness of the mind. This may involve therapy, energy healing, or other modalities that resonate with us.

3. Challenging Societal Norms: Questioning and redefining the societal norms that have shaped our beliefs can help us align more closely with our true selves.

4. Reprogramming the Subconscious: Techniques such as Apex Life in Synergy can help the subconscious mind, replacing limiting beliefs with new, vibrant empowering ones.

5. Cultivating Emotional Intelligence: Developing emotional intelligence allows us to navigate our emotions more effectively, preventing them from clouding our judgment.

The journey to clear the mind and alter our perception of reality is not an easy one, but it is a path worth walking. As we clear the fog, our true reality begins to emerge—a reality where we are empowered to make choices that serve our highest good. By breaking free from the cycle of repeated mistakes, we can create a life of harmony, growth, and fulfillment. In doing so, we not only transform our own lives but contribute to the collective evolution of humanity, breaking the chains of history and stepping into a future of infinite possibilities.

Life in Synergy®-Boston

“Helena Collins is a true sage! I will always be grateful to her for teaching me and creating the Apex Life in Synergy course. With the precision of a scientist, she guides you layer by layer through your entire being while sharing her own journey along the way. Despite her knowledge, Helena never talks down to you or asks you to accept anything on faith. Through the Apex Life in Synergy adventure, I’ve strengthened aspects of myself I didn’t know existed and created real peace in my life. If you are as lucky as I have been to discover her course, my advice is to take the plunge!”

— P.K Washington D.C

The Energy of Security: A Pillar of Spiritual Stability

In our quest for spiritual enlightenment, we often focus on transcendent experiences and higher consciousness, sometimes overlooking the foundational elements that support our journey.

One such foundational element is the energy of security. Security, in a spiritual sense, is not just about physical safety or financial stability; it is an inner state of being grounded and feeling safe within ourselves and our place in the universe. Understanding and cultivating this energy is crucial for our spiritual growth and overall well-being. The energy of security is the assurance that we are protected and supported by the universe. It is the confidence that we are anchored in our spiritual essence, regardless of external circumstances. This energy emanates from a deep-rooted sense of trust in ourselves and the divine, creating a stable foundation upon which we can build our spiritual lives.

Security, in this context, is not about creating rigid boundaries or living in a bubble of safety.

Instead, it is about developing an inner fortress of strength and resilience. It is knowing that no matter what happens, we have the spiritual resources to navigate life's storms. Security is a vital component of our spiritual journey, providing the stability needed to explore and expand our consciousness. Here are a few ways in which the energy of security supports our spiritual growth:

1. Foundation for Exploration: Just as a tree needs strong roots to grow tall, we need a secure foundation to explore higher realms of consciousness. The energy of security grounds us, allowing us to venture into unknown spiritual territories with confidence.

2. Resilience in Adversity: Life is filled with challenges and uncertainties. The energy of security gives us the resilience to face these challenges without losing our spiritual balance. It helps us remain steadfast and centered, even in the face of adversity.

3. Openness to Vulnerability: Feeling secure within ourselves allows us to be open and vulnerable. This openness is essential for deep spiritual connections and growth. When we feel secure, we are more willing to let down our defenses and embrace our authentic selves.

4. Inner Peace: Security fosters a profound sense of inner peace. This peace is the fertile ground for spiritual insights and profound realizations. It is in this state of tranquility that we can truly connect with our higher selves and the divine.

   👉 Cultivating the energy of security requires mindful practices and a commitment to inner work. Here are some steps to help you develop this essential energy:

1. Trust in the Divine: Develop a deep trust in the universe and the divine plan. This trust is the bedrock of spiritual security. Affirm to yourself that you are always supported and guided by a higher power.

2. Grounding Practices: Engage in grounding practices such as the Apex Life in Synergy program, or spending time in nature. These activities help anchor your energy and create a sense of stability and security.

3. Self-Care and Boundaries: Prioritize self-care and establish healthy boundaries. Taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being enhances your sense of security. Boundaries protect your energy and create a safe space for spiritual growth.

4. Community and Support: Surround yourself with a supportive community. Having a network of like-minded individuals who uplift and encourage you can strengthen your sense of security. Sharing your spiritual journey with others creates a sense of belonging and mutual support.

The energy of security is a fundamental pillar of our spiritual journey.

It provides the stability and resilience needed to explore and expand our consciousness. By cultivating this energy through trust in the divine, grounding practices, self-care, positive affirmations, and community support, we create a solid foundation for our spiritual growth. Remember, security is not about external conditions but an inner state of trust and stability. Embrace this energy, and let it anchor you in your spiritual pursuits, allowing you to soar to new heights with confidence and peace.

Helena Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy®

Acceptance: Embracing Life as It Is

Acceptance is a fundamental aspect of personal and spiritual growth.

It involves acknowledging and embracing the reality of our lives without resistance or judgment to the self or others. This blog explores the concept of acceptance and offers practical advice from Boston’s award winning wellness Guru Helena Collins on how to cultivate it in our daily lives. Acceptance is not about resignation or giving up. It is about recognizing the present moment as it is and finding peace with it.

• Letting Go of Control: Acceptance means letting go of the need to control everything and trusting that things will unfold as they should.

• Embracing Imperfections: Accepting ourselves and others with all our imperfections is key to building self-love and compassionate relationships.

There are several practices that can help us develop acceptance.

• Mindfulness through Apex Life in Synergy: Practicing mindfulness helps us stay present and accept each moment as it comes, without judgment or resistance.

• Gratitude: Focusing on what we are grateful for can shift our perspective and help us accept our lives as they are.

• Self-Compassion: Being kind and compassionate towards ourselves in difficult times fosters acceptance and self-love.

Acceptance has the power to transform our lives in profound ways.

• Inner Peace: Accepting life as it is brings a deep sense of inner peace and reduces stress and anxiety.

• Personal Growth: Acceptance allows us to move forward and grow, rather than being stuck in resistance and denial.

Embracing acceptance is a powerful step towards a more peaceful and fulfilling life. By practicing mindfulness, gratitude, and self-compassion, we can cultivate acceptance and experience the many benefits it brings to our personal and spiritual growth. The practice however is a challenge to the accepted “norms” of daily life and provides the ultimate conundrum…the acceptance of change as security.

Life in Synergy® ©2024

Awareness: The Key to Conscious Living

Awareness is the cornerstone of conscious living.

It involves being fully present in each moment, recognizing our thoughts, feelings, and actions, and understanding their impact on our lives and the world around us. This Life in Synergy blog delves into the importance of awareness and offers practical steps to enhance it. Awareness is the first step towards personal growth and transformation. It allows us to see things as they truly are, free from the distortions of our mind and emotions.

• Self-Understanding: Awareness helps us understand our motivations, desires, and fears, leading to greater self-awareness and self-acceptance.

• Better Decision-Making: Being aware of our thoughts and emotions enables us to make more informed and conscious choices.

There are several practices that can help us cultivate and enhance our awareness.

• Mindfulness Meditation with Helena Collins: Regular meditation practice helps train the mind to stay present and aware.

• Journaling: Writing down our thoughts and feelings can provide clarity and insight into our inner world.

• Mindful Breathing: Focusing on our breath with the amazing energy breath exercises offered in Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy can anchor us in the present moment and increase our awareness.

Living with heightened awareness brings numerous benefits to our lives.

Improved Relationships: Being aware of our own and others' emotions and needs can lead to more harmonious and fulfilling relationships. Greater Emotional Resilience: Awareness allows us to respond to challenges with greater calm and clarity, reducing stress and increasing our emotional resilience. Cultivating awareness is a powerful step towards living a conscious and fulfilling life. By practicing mindfulness, journaling, and mindful breathing with Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy wellness journey online, we can enhance our awareness and experience the many benefits it brings to our personal and spiritual growth.

Life in Synergy® ©2024

Take time

Today's Reflection: A Lesson from a Swan

Today’s blog takes a more introspective turn, prompted by a poignant reminder from nature itself.

This morning, as I wandered through the natural haven we are blessed to inhabit—home to over 90 species of birds, along with frogs, muskrats, opossums, coyotes, fisher cats, and both snapping and regular turtles—I encountered a deeply moving scene. Among these creatures are swans, majestic birds known for their lifelong bonds. Tragically, this season has been cut short for one such pair; the male swan has passed away, leaving his mate alone to tend their nest. Observing her solitary vigil, waiting for a partner who will never return, was heartbreakingly profound. Before writing this blog, I delved into some research about swans and discovered that they mate for life, their dedication unwavering.

The loss of the male swan led me to a broader contemplation:

•How does the transition of energy from one form to another influence human consciousness each time it occurs?

•What lessons are we to learn when faced with such transitions?

The message that resonates through this experience is clear: Take time.

But take time for what, exactly?

It’s about truly seeing and appreciating those around us.

Whether it’s family, friends, or a significant others, now is the moment to express our love and gratitude. The abrupt departure of our swan, who left for food only to never return, was not planned—much like many events in our own lives. Yet, it underscores the unpredictability of life and the plans the universe holds. In meditating on this sad event, I've been prompted to reflect on the profound "why" behind what we observe. The answer always circles back to the same simple yet profound directive I often receive in meditations: Take time. You can dismiss this as mere musings, or you can embrace it and decide to take time for what truly matters. For me, today, that means spending precious moments with the light of my life, my Helena, with gratitude to the swan whose brief presence in our lives brought this timeless reminder: Cherish the now.

Thank you, beautiful swan, for your fleeting but significant impact in our lives, now I am going to pamper my Queen (even more).

Brian

Life in Synergy®

Finding Balance: The Spiritual Perspective on Money and Comparison

In a world that constantly bombards us with images of success and opulence, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparing our financial journey to that of others.

At Life in Synergy, we understand that money itself isn’t the root of imbalance—rather, it's our perception of and reaction to money that can lead to spiritual and emotional turmoil. Today’s blog explores how shifting our focus from comparison to personal growth can lead to a more balanced relationship with money.

When we compare our financial status to that of others, we aren't just evaluating numbers; we're often weighing our self-worth against visible markers of success. This comparison can distort our perception of what it means to be successful, embedding feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. This mindset does not just hinder our happiness—it can actively disrupt our financial stability. By focusing on someone else's endgame, we lose sight of the crucial steps needed to forge our own path toward financial well-being.

Engaging in this constant comparison often dredges up unresolved energies of inadequacy and self-hatred. When we measure our lives against others', we focus on what we perceive to be lacking rather than appreciating what we have and recognizing opportunities for growth. This skewed focus can prevent us from taking the actions necessary to improve our financial situations, as we're caught up in a cycle of negativity and self-defeat under the comparison microscope.

The key to overcoming this challenge is to shift the focus back to ourselves—not in isolation, but in terms of our personal growth and spiritual development. Here’s how we can start this transformation:

1. Recognize Your Unique Path: Understand that your financial journey is unique and cannot be directly compared to anyone else’s. Embrace that everyone has different goals, challenges, and starting points.

2. Set Personal Goals: Instead of looking outward, look inward. What do you want to achieve financially? Setting personal goals gives you a roadmap to follow, focusing your energy on productive activities that lead to real, tangible outcomes.

3. Develop Financial Literacy: Knowledge is power. Educate yourself about financial management, investment strategies, and economic principles. The more you know, the more empowered you will be to make wise decisions that reflect your personal values and goals.

4. Seek Spiritual Alignment with Apex Life in Synergy program: Money should not be a source of stress but just a tool for achieving your life's purposes. Seek ways to align your financial actions with your spiritual values and never allow the latest shiny object to govern your energies.

At Life in Synergy®, we encourage you to view money as a form of energy that flows into and out of our lives. By managing this energy wisely and aligning it with our inner values, we not only enhance our financial well-being but also our spiritual health. Remember, when you stop comparing and start focusing on your personal and spiritual growth, money becomes a tool to enhance your journey, not the journey itself. Let's strive to transform our relationship with money from one of stress and comparison to one of harmony and purpose. Remember, you are the architect of your own financial destiny and the creator of your spiritual path.

Focus on the inner part of you that manifests YOU….never compare yourself to anyone else, you are unique and powerful and can do wonders once you get out your own way.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy Inc.

Finding "The One": How Self-Improvement Clears the Path to Your Soulmate

The magic of a Boston Willow tree bench.

In the quest for love, many of us have stumbled, retraced our steps, and occasionally wondered if we're destined to settle rather than find our true "soulmate."

At Life in Synergy, we believe that the journey to finding "The One" is deeply intertwined with the journey within oneself. It’s about more than just waiting for the right person to appear; it’s about becoming the right person who attracts the love and connection that resonate with our deepest self.

Before we can truly connect with another, we must first understand and nurture our own selves. This is not a process of changing who we are to fit an ideal, but rather, refining our own energies to be in harmony with our true nature. Old, outdated energies—be it past hurts, unresolved conflicts, or limiting beliefs—act as barriers. They cloud our judgment and influence our interactions, often leading us to "settlemates" rather than soulmates.👎

Cleansing these clinging energies requires honest self-reflection and a commitment to personal growth. Techniques such as the Apex Life in Synergy® Journey can facilitate this cleansing process. By addressing and healing these stagnant parts of our selves, we not only improve our own lives but also enhance our relationships as a result. As we shed these layers of old energy, we become more authentic and, consequently, more magnetically aligned with people who match this authenticity.

The path to discovering a soulmate is fundamentally a journey to authenticity. When we are true to ourselves, we emit a frequency that attracts similar energies. This doesn’t mean that the journey will be easy or devoid of loneliness at times, but it is essential. The work you do on yourself is not just about making you a better person—it's about making you your person. As we cleanse away the past and embrace our true selves, our capacity for deeper connections improves. We begin to see beyond superficial traits and connect with others on the level of soul values in synergy and true compatibility. This connection is what distinguishes a soulmate from a settle mate. A soulmate resonates deeply within your true self, not just the surface self that the world often sees.

👩‍❤️‍👨 👩‍❤️‍👩 👨‍❤️‍👨 ‘Finding the One" is not a destination but a continuous process of becoming and attracting.

It's about creating a life that feels fulfilled independently, which paradoxically, makes you more likely to find that person who complements your vibrancy rather than completes it. Embrace your personal development journey with patience and persistence, knowing that each step forward is a step closer to the love that truly fulfills you.

At Life in Synergy, we understand that the journey to love is as much about finding yourself as it is about finding another. By working on ourselves and cleansing the outdated energies that held us back in the past, we open new doors to possibilities of love, connection, and discovery. When Brian and I began dating back in the Jurassic era, it was something wild to us both as we were just friends for years and never would have thought that we would wind up dating or being married to each other. Then one night after walking in the South End of Boston, life decided differently and the Universe said one night “Now” and one fateful night in November many, many, many (gasp) many years ago, the cosmos shifted and I found my soulmate was right in front of me for years and let him know right then and there.

The entire world then opened with possibility energy and as a result of our Divine union and love, we traveled the entire globe, studied with a variety of Masters and Kahunas in a variety of spiritual and energetic modalities, opened 2 multi award winning life changing businesses that shaped the lives of countless people in Boston’s Back Bay for decades.

So, remember, in the quest for your soulmate, the most profound relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself first. Let this relationship flourish and watch as it leads you to the love you've always hoped to find….but you have to put the work in.

Helena and Brian-Boston

Life in Synergy Inc

ps

Hey it’s been 31 years and counting so, we must be doing something right.