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Eternity: Embracing Change and Transcendence

Explore how your thoughts and actions can either trap you in negative cycles or elevate you to spiritual growth. Discover guidance from 2x Best of Boston winner Helena Collins of Apex Life in Synergy.

Eternity often evokes visions of endlessness, a vast expanse of time stretching beyond our comprehension.

In the spiritual journey, eternity isn't merely about the passage of time but the quality of our existence within it. Our thoughts and actions shape our experiences, either entrapping us in negative cycles or elevating us to new, transformative heights.

The Trap of Negative Cycles

Negative cycles can feel like an eternal loop, where our thoughts and actions reinforce patterns of self-doubt, fear, and stagnation. These cycles manifest through:

  • Self-Limiting Beliefs: Holding onto the idea that we are unworthy or incapable of change keeps us in a loop of negativity.

  • Fear of the Unknown: Avoiding change due to fear creates stagnation, preventing growth and new opportunities.

  • Attachment to Past Hurts: Dwelling on past traumas or grudges traps us in emotional pain, hindering our ability to move forward.

When caught in these cycles, our perception of eternity becomes a burden, an endless replay of old patterns.

Ascending to New Heights

Conversely, eternity can be a canvas for continuous growth and transcendence. Embracing change and cultivating positive thoughts and actions can elevate our spiritual journey. Here’s how:

  • Embracing Impermanence: Recognizing that change is the only constant, we learn to flow with life’s ebbs and tides. This acceptance opens us to new possibilities.

  • Cultivating Self-Awareness: Reflecting on our thoughts and behaviors allows us to identify and break free from negative patterns.

  • Practicing Forgiveness: Letting go of past grievances liberates us, making space for healing and growth.

  • Mindful Living: Engaging fully in the present moment, we create a rich tapestry of experiences, each contributing to our spiritual

    evolution.

Helena Collins: Life Transformer

Helena Collins: Your Guide to Transcendence

In navigating the complexities of eternity, a guide can be invaluable. Helena Collins, 2x Best of Boston winner and founder of Apex Life in Synergy, exemplifies this role. With her deep understanding of the mind-body connection, Helena guides individuals toward embracing their highest potential.

Her Apex Life in Synergy approach integrates:

  • SFM Health: Focusing on the interplay between physical, mental, and spiritual well-being, Helena helps you align your energies for holistic growth.

  • Personal Empowerment: Through personalized 1on 1 coaching, she empowers you to overcome limiting beliefs, fostering resilience and self-confidence.

  • Transformative Practices: Incorporating meditation, mindfulness, and movement, she facilitates a profound shift in consciousness, guiding you from negative cycles to ever-changing heights.

Will you wrap it up already?

Eternity is not a fixed destination but a journey shaped by our thoughts and actions. By choosing to break free from negative cycles and embracing change, we ascend to new levels of consciousness and spiritual fulfillment. With guides like Helena Collins, the journey becomes one of self-discovery and transformation, paving the way to a life of synergy and balance. In this eternal dance, every step holds the potential for growth, inviting us to transcend the mundane and embrace the infinite possibilities that lie ahead.

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Ageless Wonders: Experiencing a Life in Synergy through an Open Lens

Explore how to live life unbounded by age with this insightful blog from Helena Collins, Boston’s top wellness and fitness Guru. Discover practical tips and inspirational stories that demonstrate all things can be new at any age, if we stay open and in synergy.

In the grand tapestry of life, our experiences are often viewed through the lens of age, as if certain years carry set expectations and limitations.

However, the essence of truly living—embracing each moment as a new, uncharted adventure—is not confined by the number of candles on our birthday cake. At Life in Synergy®, we believe that all things can be new at any age, provided we remain open and willing to ascend beyond our perceived boundaries. Society often scripts our life stages: youthful years are for exploration, middle years for consolidation, and later years for reflection. Yet, this segmented approach to living can limit the richness of our experiences. When we label activities or dreams as 'too young' or 'too old' for us, we confine our spirit within boundaries that are, in truth, artificial.

Eternal Synergy: A Mindset Shift

The key to breaking free from these age-related confines lies in a mindset shift. Imagine viewing life not as a linear journey with set phases but as a spiral of continual growth and exploration. Each loop of the spiral brings us back to familiar emotions or experiences but from a higher, more enlightened perspective. This model encourages an ever-evolving engagement with life, where nothing is ever truly repeated and everything can be experienced anew. To live this Life in Synergy philosophy, openness and willingness are essential. Openness requires us to see beyond societal norms and personal prejudices. It involves cultivating a mindset that values curiosity over certainty. Willingness, on the other hand, is about the courage to step out of our comfort zones, to embrace the unfamiliar, and to risk the vulnerability that comes with trying new things.

Ascending Beyond Age

Ascending beyond age is about elevating our spirit to a place where chronological age does not dictate capability or desire. It involves embracing a form of spiritual and mental growth that views age not as a decline but as an accumulation of wisdom and experiences that can propel us into new adventures. Whether it’s learning a new language at 60, starting a venture at 70, or exploring the metaphysical realms at any age, every new endeavor adds depth and dimension to our existence.

Practical Steps to Embrace a Life in Synergy:

Challenge Your Own Stereotypes: Reflect on what you believe is appropriate for your age. Challenge these beliefs by engaging in activities that defy these norms.

  1. Cultivate Curiosity: Develop an insatiable curiosity about the world. Let your interests guide you, regardless of whether they seem age-appropriate.

  2. Connect Across Generations: Learn from people both younger and older than yourself. These interactions can offer fresh perspectives and challenge age-related biases.

  3. Prioritize Growth: Focus on personal growth and learning as lifelong processes. Embrace new technologies, ideas, and ways of thinking that keep you engaged with the changing world.

  4. Meditate on Transience: Use meditation to reflect on the transient nature of life, which can help detach from the ego’s focus on age and instead connect with the eternal.

Remember Age is but a number ( at all stages of life), and life is a canvas of endless possibilities. By remaining open and willing to explore, learn, and grow, we can all find newness in our days, no matter the year we were born. Let’s embrace this journey with the enthusiasm of a child and the wisdom of our years, for in synergy, they create a life rich with unending discovery and joy.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy ® Inc.

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A Hidden Gem (For decades) in the Back Bay of Boston

Read a 100% true story about limitation and how personal imbalances within can ripple outward and affect the entire world.

Once nestled in the bustling Back Bay of Boston, there was a legendary studio named Life in Synergy®. It was a place of transformation, where the tired and weary came to rejuvenate their spirits and bodies. The studio’s magic was palpable; its atmosphere charged with positive energy and the promise of renewal.

Among the studio’s regulars was a woman named Betty ( Name and Profession changed for privacy). Betty was a high-powered lawyer, constantly battling the stress and demands of her career. When she first stumbled into the studio, it was out of sheer desperation—a last-ditch attempt to find some semblance of peace. The results were nothing short of miraculous for her. Within months, Betty felt like a new person. Her stress levels had plummeted, her health had improved dramatically, and her outlook on life had changed for the better.

Word of mouth spread on Life in Synergy®, and the studio’s fame began to grow.

One day, as Betty finished one of her sessions, the studio owner, Helena Collins, approached her with a request. Helena was planning to expand her outreach through a marketing campaign and hoped Betty would share her success story as a testimonial. However, Betty hesitated. “I'd rather not,” she said, a hint of sheepishness in her voice. “I mean, what if you get too popular? I don’t want to lose my spot here.”

Helena was taken aback. She tried to reassure Betty, “There’s room for everyone, and sharing your story could help so many others who are struggling just as you were when you first started.” But Betty shook her head, “I’m sorry, I just don’t want to,” she murmured before leaving. Helena stood there, an odd mix of disappointment and understanding washing over her. She knew fear energy often held people back from seeing the bigger picture. Betty’s reluctance was a clear example of the short-sighted, approach that ripples beyond individual actions and traps minds in loops of repetition.

In the grand scheme, Betty’s choice represented more than just a missed opportunity for publicity—it was a metaphorical dam holding back the waters of potential for the entire world. By choosing secrecy over support, Betty not only limited her own capacity for growth but inadvertently stifled the potential growth of all. Her actions were a microcosm of a broader societal issue where individualism often trumped collective well-being. Months passed, and while the studio continued to do well by winning many awards for excellence, Helena often wondered about the 'what ifs'.

The butterfly effect of Betty’s decision was subtle yet significant. It was a reminder of how interconnected everyone’s lives were, and how each decision, no matter how small or personal it seemed, had the power to influence the larger web of life. So do you want to share this blog? Share this website? www.lifeinsynergy.com or are you content with the direction of the world?

PS

Is this a true story? 100% #nocap

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy®

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Why Waiting for the Perfect Moment to Start Your Inward Journey Is Like Waiting for a Unicorn to Win the Kentucky Derby

Discover how to take control of your life by starting your spiritual journey today. Stop waiting for the perfect moment and let go of old energies right now. Dive into practical tips and explore the Apex Life in Synergy program with Boston’s multi award winning wellness teacher, Helena Collins.

Ah, the perfect moment.

That mystical point in time we all wait for, like a bunch of kids on Christmas Eve, hoping that Santa finally brings us the gift of motivation, clarity, and inner peace wrapped neatly under our personal growth tree. If you’re one of the many who think the stars will align and trumpet sounds will herald the start of your spiritual journey, I have some news for you: you’re waiting on a unicorn to win the Kentucky Derby.

The Myth of the "Right Time"

Every day you put off beginning your inward journey is another day where old energies inside—yes, those pesky, stale vibes—rule your thoughts and actions. You know, the ones that have you binge-watching shows you don’t even like, or scrolling endlessly through social media comparing your blooper reel to everyone else's highlight clips. If you're waiting for tomorrow to be filled with possibilities, you might want to check who's writing your life script. Spoiler alert: if you don’t take the pen, those old energies will continue to be the ghostwriters of your life.

Seize the Day, Literally

Tomorrow isn’t magically full of possibility unless you make it so. Consider this: each day you don't step up to rewrite your personal life story, the old patterns, habits, and energies will not only write your script but also edit and publish it. And let's be honest, they're terrible writers. Full of clichés, and they never get to the good part!

So, what’s stopping you?

•Is it fear?

•Procrastination?

•The belief that you need one more self-help book or a sign from the universe?

Let this blog be that sign for you: It’s time to grab that pen.

Take Action with the Apex Life in Synergy® Program

Instead of letting another déjà vu day control your life, why not join the Apex Life in Synergy program? This isn’t your garden-variety self-help fluff. It’s a life-changing approach that not only empowers you to take charge of your own narrative but also provides practical tools to clear out those outdated energies hogging up all the good mental space. Helena Collins, the visionary behind the program, offers strategies that aren't just about facing the music; they're about rewriting the score of your life. Interested in kicking those old energies to the curb and actually enjoying the music of your life? Check out Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy program and start tuning into your true potential.

Remember, the perfect moment is a myth.

Your spiritual journey begins the moment you decide to take control. Stop outsourcing your narrative to energies that don’t have your best interests at heart. Grab the pen (The Apex Life in Synergy program), write your own story, and maybe, just maybe, you'll find that unicorns don’t need to win derbies when you’re busy winning at life.

Explore the Apex Life in Synergy Program - Because tomorrow’s possibilities are crafted by today’s decisions.

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Title: Cleansing and Negative Energy the Life in Synergy Way: A 8 step No Bullshit Guide

Cleansing and Clearing Negative Energy the Life in Synergy Way: A 8 Step No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Inner Peace in a world of turmoil

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Hey there seeker!

Feeling like the world’s spiraling a bit out of control? Yup...You're not alone. With all the chaos buzzing around, it's essential to clear out that heavy, negative energy and bring in some peace and clarity. Here’s your no-nonsense guide to cleansing your space and spirit, the Life in Synergy way, so you can stay balanced even when the world seems to be tipping off the edge.

1. Acknowledge the Chaos around:

First up, let’s not pretend everything is fine.

Recognizing that things feel off is the first step to addressing the turmoil. Whether it’s world news, personal drama, or that overwhelming to-do list—acknowledge it. By facing what's disturbing your peace, you can begin to cleanse it effectively.

2. Create Your Sacred Space:

Find a spot where you can be undisturbed. This doesn’t have to be an entire room; a small corner can work just as well. Fill it with objects that uplift you: maybe some positive memory inducing mementos, a few plants, comfortable cushions, or inspiring images. This space is your retreat, your mini-sanctuary from the world’s craziness.

3. Incorporate Natural Elements:

Incorporating elements like fire, water, earth, and air can dramatically enhance your energy cleansing. Light a natural candle or some incense to introduce fire and air. A small bowl of salt can represent earth, and a glass of water adds the water element. These elements help to balance the energy around you and within you. It doesn’t need to be “All tree huggy”, step out your dominant energies for a brief moment and simply give new things a try.

4. Practice Grounding :

When things feel too hectic, grounding is crucial. Simple techniques can make a big difference. Try walking barefoot on the grass, meditating for a few minutes outside on the earth, or practicing deep breathing exercises in nature. Visualize yourself drawing energy up from the earth and let it stabilize and refresh your spirit.

5. Use Sound to Dispel Negativity:

Sounds can literally shake up and clear out negative energy. Vibrations help reset the atmosphere and bring in a lighter, clearer vibe. Try your favorite ambient music for a session ( Don’t put on lyric based music, as words will lead to an emotional connection to the suggested lyric structure vs simply having a neutral background pallet of sound).

6. Declutter Physically and Emotionally:

Clearing out physical clutter can significantly impact your mental clarity and emotional stability. Start by decluttering your living space—donate what you don’t need, organize your surroundings, and feel the freshness it brings. Similarly, let go of old grudges and toxic thoughts that might be cluttering your mind as you do so. When you clean up, clean up not just external but internal clutter.

7. Affirmations and Intentions Catch 22 :

Words have power. Affirmations to reinforce the positivity you wish to cultivate can work, but you need to have clarity before simply going after what you desire. Why? Because there are so many levels to reality and you don’t want base surface desires to lead you into situations where you wish for money, get it through your affirmations, then go on a super fancy trip on a private plane with hand fulls of your new money and yup, then crash into the sea. You want to obtain a LIFE in Synergy which works on all aspects of energies, so that when you are in the flow, you are actually in the Divine flow, not the flow of ego or greed that may lead you down roads you don’t want to travel on.

8. Reflect and Journal with The Apex Life in Synergy online program:

Spend some time reflecting on your day and jotting down your thoughts in a journal. This practice can help you process what's happening around and within you, offering insights into how to maintain your balance. It’s also a great way to track your progress and growth on your Apex Life in Synergy online journey through these challenging times.

Remember, maintaining a balanced and cleansed energy field is an ongoing process.

It’s about making small adjustments every day, staying true to your path, and allowing yourself space to breathe and be. The world might indeed feel like it’s heading off a cliff, but with these practices, you can keep your energy aligned and clear.

You’ve got this—step by step, day by day one more step towards a Life in Synergy®.

xo Helena Collins- Best of Boston winner

Life in Synergy®

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The Cosmic Comedy: How We Excel at Complaining More Than Creating

Dive into "The Cosmic Comedy," a light-hearted blog exploring the humorous side of humanity's tendency to complain about world issues while lounging in inaction. Join Helena and Brian Collins Boston’s Wellness and Spiritual Sages on a journey of laughter, self-reflection, and a gentle nudge towards becoming the change we wish to see.


Hello, our cosmic companions on this wildly spinning globe we call Earth!

You know, we have been pondering (in between bouts of laughter and facepalming, of course) about an interesting phenomenon that seems as common as the cold but far more entertaining. It's about our fantastic human capacity to whine, moan, and excel in the fine art of complaining about the world's problems while sitting on our celestial behinds doing, well, absolutely nothing about it.

Imagine this: A typical Monday morning in the universe.

The sun peeks out, radiating optimism and the promise of a new day. Meanwhile, on Earth, Mr. and Mrs. Couch Potato are nestled in their favorite crater-like indentations on the sofa, sipping on what could only be described as the tears of forgotten dreams (or maybe just slightly burnt coffee or flat diet soda). Mr. Couch Potato sighs deeply, a sound that echoes the collective despair of humanity, "The world's just going to the dogs, isn't it? Pollution, poverty, politics... it's all just a mess."Mrs. Couch Potato nods solemnly, adding, "Yes, and don't forget about the aliens. I haven't seen a single one help with one thing yet. You'd think with all that advanced technology, they'd at least invent an AI rep or something."They both nod in agreement, the weight of the world's problems resting on their shoulders as heavily as their reluctance to get up and actually do something about it.

Now, don't get us wrong. I'm not saying we need to don superhero capes and single-handedly save the world before breakfast (though if you're into that, who am I to stop you?). But isn't it hilariously ironic how we humans have the audacity to complain about the state of the planet while contributing to the very essence of couch-potato-ism?

It's as if we're waiting for a sign, perhaps a billboard from the cosmos, saying: "Dear Earthlings, please start caring. Love, The Universe (P.S. This message was sponsored by the Intergalactic Council for Planetary Improvement)." But here's the kicker, my dear friends: the universe is constantly giving us signs. Every sunrise is a reminder that we have a new day to make a difference. Every breath is a nudge to appreciate life and contribute positively to our world. And yet, here we are, mastering the art of apathy with the dedication of a monk in deep meditation.

So, what's the solution?

Well, for starters, we could try to find a balance between being informed about the world's issues and not letting them overwhelm us into inaction. Perhaps, instead of binge-watching the latest series about dystopian futures, we could spend a fraction of that time learning a new skill, volunteering, or simply being kind to those around us. Imagine if, instead of lamenting about the lack of change, we become the change. The thought is as exhilarating as discovering that your phone has been on airplane mode after wondering for hours why no one's texting you.

So seeker of all things peace, chicken grease and ambient cosmic coolness: let's not forget to laugh at ourselves, especially at our quirks and contradictions. After all, life on Earth is too short and too precious to spend it in a state of passive complaint. So, here's to us, the wonderfully weird inhabitants of this planet, embarking on a journey of less moaning and more doing or we can all just binge, complain and wait for the next world changing global flood to see if those YMCA swimming lessons in our youth were worth it.

Helena ( National swimming champ) and Brian (Whose parents filled up trashcan with water from a hose and had him sit in it in the hot inner city summers for a swimming pool in his youth) Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy®

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Navigating the Unseen: A Journey Through Spiritual Enlightenment and Invisibility

Explore the fascinating parallels between spiritual enlightenment and the concept of invisibility in quantum physics. Dive into how unseen energies and dimensions influence our daily lives and discover the pathway to ascension through openness and awareness with Boston’s spiritual sages Helena and Brian Collins.

Life in Synergy® provides time tested sage advise that truly shapes your understanding of your inner self and it’s endless potential.

In the realm of the unseen, where the mysteries of quantum physics intertwine with the spiritual dimensions we traverse daily, lies a profound comparison: the concept of invisibility in both the scientific and spiritual worlds.

As we delve into this exploration with Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy® online wellness program, it becomes clear that at the quantum level, nothing is truly invisible, and this parallels the invisible levels of spiritual dimensions that envelop our daily experiences. This journey through the unseen realms invites us to consider how closed-off thoughts can create barriers to openness and ascension, shaping our path to spiritual enlightenment. At the heart of quantum physics lies a fascinating reality: particles exist in states of potential until observed, challenging our conventional understanding of visibility. This quantum behavior mirrors the essence of spiritual invisibility, where unseen forces and energies influence our lives in profound ways. Just as quantum particles are not invisible but exist in a state beyond our direct perception, the spiritual dimensions encompass energies and entities that, while not visible to the physical eye, are very much present and impactful.

Our daily journey through spiritual dimensions is an invisible voyage, where our awareness of these realms dictates the depth of our experience. These dimensions are not separate from us; rather, they are layers of reality that we interact with, often without conscious recognition. The spiritual practice of awakening is akin to enhancing our quantum perception, enabling us to sense, interact with, and understand these dimensions in more meaningful ways. It’s an invitation to recognize that just as in the quantum world, the spiritual realms are not hidden; they require a different mode of perception.

One of the most significant challenges on this journey is the barrier created by closed-off thoughts.

Just as certain scientific paradigms initially rejected the counterintuitive realities of quantum physics, our personal paradigms can block us from experiencing the full spectrum of spiritual dimensions. Closed-off thoughts and rigid beliefs act as filters, limiting our perception and experience of the unseen energies and endless possibilities that surround us. Overcoming these barriers requires openness, curiosity, and a willingness to explore beyond the confines of our current understanding. The path to spiritual enlightenment is marked by an ever-expanding openness to the unseen. It’s about allowing ourselves to explore the invisible dimensions, to question our beliefs, and to embrace the mysteries that lie beyond the visible. This journey of ascension is not about becoming something other than ourselves, but about realizing the full potential of our existence, intertwined with the quantum and spiritual realms. As we open our minds and hearts, we dissolve the barriers that separate us from the deeper truths of our universe, moving closer to a state of unity and enlightenment.

Blah Blah Blah Jeez wrap it up already: The Interconnectedness of All

The comparison of spiritual enlightenment and invisibility, both in the quantum realm and in our spiritual journeys, reveals a profound interconnectedness. It reminds us that our perception of reality is limited not by the nature of the universe but by the breadth of our openness and understanding. As we navigate the invisible dimensions, both scientifically and spiritually, we uncover the limitless potential within us to transcend the visible and embrace the profound depths of existence. In this journey, let us remember that nothing is truly invisible; it is merely waiting to be perceived with an open heart and an enlightened mind.

May all of our focused exploration of these unseen realms with Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy or Brian Collins E.F.V Keys online programs inspire us to live with greater awareness, compassion, and openness, transcending the barriers that limit our ascension and embracing the infinite possibilities that await us all if we become responsible for all that we see.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy®



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The Multiverse Within: Exploring the Synergy of Life

Uncover the vast multiverse within our consciousness and how achieving a state of synergy can unlock new dimensions of being. Learn through the Programs of Brian and Helena Collins' teachings and help shape the tomorrows for the next generations to come.

Create a Life in Synergy® for future generations by starting Apex Life in Synergy® TODAY!

The concept of the multiverse proposes the existence of parallel universes, each distinct yet intertwined with the fabric of reality.

But what if the true multiverse lies not in the cosmos but within us?

This idea isn't just a foray into speculative fiction; it's a profound exploration of the human spirit and the potentialities that reside within our consciousness. Within each of us is a universe of thoughts, emotions, and spiritual energy, teeming with possibilities and realities that defy the constraints of our physical world. The key to unlocking these inner dimensions lies in achieving a state of synergy—a harmonious balance that resonates with the universe's fundamental energies.

Achieving this inner synergy isn't a solitary journey. It involves connecting with the world around us, understanding the nature of our internal energies, and harnessing the wisdom of those who have navigated this path before us. The Programs and the teachings of Helena Collins offer a roadmap to this inner multiverse. Through her guidance, we learn to align our thoughts, emotions, and spirit in a way that transcends the ordinary, opening doorways to new realities within ourselves.

This exploration of the inner multiverse is not just an exercise in self-improvement; it's a transformative journey that can lead to profound insights into the nature of existence. As we delve deeper into our inner selves, we discover that the boundaries between us and the universe blur, revealing a symphony of life where everything is connected in a delicate dance of energy and consciousness.

By embracing the possibility of the multiverse within, we unlock the potential to live in harmony with the cosmos, creating a synergy that elevates our existence to new dimensions of being. It's a journey that challenges us to rethink our place in the universe, not as mere observers but as integral components of a grand, interconnected tapestry of life. These Life in Synergy blogs aim to weave the rich tapestry of metaphysical exploration with practical no BS tools for self-improvement that have actually changed countless lives for decades, offering a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of existence.

Through the synergy of ideas and the guidance of Helena Collins innovative programs, we embark on a journey of inner discovery that not only transforms ourselves but also the world around us. No big deal right? It is time to ascend and become ascension….the world is counting on like minded individuals to get of the hamster wheel and take charge of the course of our world.





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The Curious Power of Blame and the Oxymoron Behavior It Unleashes

No, not scrolling through social media for hours on end or trying to decipher the latest TikTok dance craze. I'm talking about the grand old sport of blame. Ah, blame – it’s like the glitter of emotions; once you open it up, good luck getting it out of... well, anything. But here's the kicker: blame, in its essence, is a fascinating display of oxymoron behavior.

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Let's talk about the world's favorite pastime.

No, not scrolling through social media for hours on end or trying to decipher the latest TikTok dance craze. I'm talking about the grand old sport of blame. Ah, blame – it’s like the glitter of emotions; once you open it up, good luck getting it out of... well, anything. But here's the kicker: blame, in its essence, is a fascinating display of oxymoron behavior. It's the yoga class of the psyche, bending us into emotional pretzels as we navigate the hilarious irony it often presents. First off, have you ever noticed how blame is the only game where everyone's playing, but somehow, nobody wins? It's like a perpetual game of hot potato, but instead of a potato, it's a flaming ball of "Not It!" The rules are simple: pass the blame as quickly as possible, and whatever you do, don’t get caught holding it when the music stops.

Why? Because accountability, my friends, is apparently lava.

The “It’s Not Me, It’s You” Phenomenon

Blame is the ultimate relationship tester, bringing out the oxymoron behavior in all of us. Picture this: two people arguing, each convinced of their righteousness, in a dazzling display of "It's not me, it's you." It’s the adult version of pointing fingers, but with more sophisticated vocabulary and, sometimes, passive aggression so thick you could cut it with a knife. And let's not forget the irony. Oh, the irony of shouting, “I’m not yelling!” at the top of your lungs, or the classic, “I’m calm! Can’t you see how calm I am?!” while resembling a teakettle about to whistle. It's the emotional equivalent of saying you're on a diet as you inhale the third slice of cake – delightful in its contradiction.

The Superpower of selective amnesia

Blame has this miraculous ability to grant us selective amnesia, particularly when it comes to our own faults. It’s a bit like those diet ads that promise you can eat anything you want and still lose weight. In the heat of a blame battle, our memories become as selective as a toddler choosing vegetables. “I never said that!” we proclaim, with the confidence of someone who has forgotten the existence of screenshots. It’s a superpower, really, the ability to edit our memories in real time to suit our narrative. Take note, Superhero flicks.

The big deep Moral of the Story

But here's the beauty of it all: in the absurdity of blame and the oxymoron behavior it inspires, there's a lesson to be learned. It's about taking a step back, laughing at ourselves, and realizing that maybe, just maybe, we're not always the hero of our own story. Sometimes, we're the comic relief, and that's perfectly okay. So, next time you find yourself in the blame game energy loop, take a moment. Laugh at the absurdity of it all. Because at the end of the day, life's too short to spend it in a game where the only prize is a bitter taste of self-righteousness. Let's choose joy, accountability, and a bit of self-deprecation instead. After all, a good laugh at our own expense is the best way to keep our egos in check and our hearts light. In the grand comedy of life, blame is just another scene. Play it well, play it with humor, and when in doubt, remember the wise words of the age-old saying: "If you can’t be a good example, then you’ll just have to be a hilarious warning."

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy®

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Navigating the Years with Spiritual Enlightenment: A Journey with Helena and Brian Collins

Explore the path to spiritual enlightenment with Helena and Brian Collins, award-winning teachers in Boston's Back Bay. Discover the Apex Life in Synergy Program, tailored for anyone at any age or belief seeking a better understanding of one’s life purpose and optimum wellness.



Brian and Helena Collins vibe…..Kamnik Alps, Slovenia. #lifeinsynergy

In the heart of Boston's Back Bay, a sanctuary existed for those in the golden years of life seeking to deepen their spiritual journey and find greater purpose.

Helena and Brian Collins, renowned wellness and spiritual enlightenment teachers, have been guiding individuals towards inner peace and understanding for decades. Their dedication and expertise have not only garnered them awards but also the respect and admiration of countless individuals who have walked through their doors.

Helena and Brian were the proud owners of two highly successful brick and mortar multi award-winning businesses that became pillars of the community, offering a refuge for those on the path of self-discovery and enlightenment. Their tireless work is a testament to the belief that it's never too late to explore the depths of one's soul and to seek a deeper understanding of the universe and our place within it. One of the crown jewels of their new offerings is Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy Online Program. This innovative program is specifically designed for individuals who are looking to harmonize their physical well-being with their spiritual growth. The program recognizes that true wellness encompasses both the body and the spirit, and it offers tools and teachings to help participants achieve balance and harmony.

The Apex Life in Synergy Program stands out for its comprehensive approach to wellness, combining ancient spiritual wisdom with modern health practices. Participants are guided through a series of introspective concepts, meditation sessions, and physical activities that are synergistically tailored to their individual needs and abilities. The goal is not just to improve physical health, but to foster a deep sense of inner peace, purpose, and connection to the Divine with each program level you Master. For those interested in embarking on this transformative journey, more information can be found on their website Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy Program. This program is more than just a course; it's an invitation to join a community of like-minded individuals who are committed to supporting each other in their spiritual and wellness goals.

Helena and Brian Collins have dedicated their lives to helping others find light, purpose, and joy in their later years. Their businesses in Boston's Back Bay were not just locations, but sanctuaries where individuals can come to grow, heal, and transform. If you seek a deeper connection to yourself and the world around you, Helena and Brian invite you to explore what the Apex Life in Synergy Program can offer. It may just be the first step towards a more enlightened and fulfilling phase of your life. Remember, the journey towards spiritual enlightenment and purpose is unique for everyone, and it's never too late to start.

With the time tested, multi award winning guidance of Helena and Brian Collins, you can explore new horizons of fitness, wellness and spirituality, finding peace and joy in every moment online with them, as their brick and mortar business is now 0’s and 1’s…..(online) and available to the whole world.



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