The Denial of Actions and the Weight of a Lifetime: A Path to Freedom

Discover how a life spent in denial and deceit can lead to fear and anxiety about death. Learn how to break free from karmic patterns and embrace inner peace with the Apex Life in Synergy program created by Boston's multi award winning wellness educator, Helena Collins.

Denial is an insidious force. It lurks in the shadows of our actions, sometimes whispering, other times roaring, but always distorting the truth of what we have done.

Throughout a lifetime, it becomes a habit—a wall we build brick by brick to protect ourselves from the discomfort of facing our mistakes. It may start with a small lie or an evasion of responsibility. But over time, those moments accumulate, leading to a life steeped in self-deception, where the person we project to the world is far from the person we are inside.

Many people spend their lives running from the consequences of their actions, using denial to preserve a false sense of security. But there’s a cost to this. With each ignored truth, with each choice to avoid responsibility, a deeper fear begins to grow—the fear of being found out, of facing the truth, and, ultimately, the fear of death. As we age, the weight of these unacknowledged actions presses down on our spirit. The lies we tell ourselves to avoid uncomfortable truths seem to offer comfort at first, but they harden into something much heavier as the years pass. People who have lived in denial often find themselves gripped with anxiety as they grow older, especially as they contemplate their mortality.

Questions begin to arise:

What happens when I die?

What energy am I leaving behind?

Will I have to face all the lies and deceit I've woven over the years?

How the Apex Life in Synergy Program Can Help You Clean Your Karma

This fear is magnified for those who have spent their life denying their true selves.

The thought of death becomes terrifying because, deep down, they suspect that they may not have escaped the consequences of their actions after all. And worse yet, they fear they’ve lived a life unfulfilled, weighed down by a heavy karmic debt that cannot be outrun forever. In spiritual traditions around the world, the belief in karmic balance—that all actions, both good and bad, come full circle—offers a powerful lesson. Denial doesn’t erase consequences; it delays them. Whether one believes in karma or simply the psychological impact of living inauthentically, the truth is that a life spent in lies leads to a reckoning.

But here's the good news: it’s never too late to change. A lifetime of denial doesn’t have to end in fear and regret. The power to face the truth and free oneself from the shackles of deceit lies in conscious action and self-reflection. It requires courage, yes, but the rewards are immeasurable. This is where Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program offers a pathway to healing. The program is a powerful, transformative tool designed to help you uncover the patterns and actions you’ve buried, to face your truth with compassion, and to begin the process of clearing away the karmic debris that’s been accumulating. Through deep introspection, energy work, and spiritual guidance, Life in Synergy helps you embrace your true self and step into the light of awareness.

Think of it as a “karma cleaner”—a way to wipe the slate clean, so you can live authentically, without fear of what comes next. Whether you are just beginning this journey or find yourself later in life, struggling with the fear of what awaits after death, Life in Synergy provides the tools to navigate through it. By taking the brave step to align with your truth, you can shift the course of your life and welcome peace in your heart, free from the fear that has followed you.

It’s never too late to reclaim your life and walk a path of truth and alignment.

Visit Life in Synergy and discover how the Apex program can guide you to a life of purpose and peace—one that’s ready for whatever lies beyond.

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Entitlement and Ego: The Self-Destructive Duo

Explore the impact of entitlement and ego on personal growth. Learn how to recognize and overcome full of self syndrome for a more fulfilling life.

Entitlement and Ego Energy 101

In our journey of self-discovery and spiritual growth, we often encounter various challenges that test our resilience and character. One of the most dangerous obstacles we face is when peace and honesty meet entitlement and ego. These two forces (entitlement and ego), when left unchecked, can lead to a life dominated by the full of self syndrome—a condition where one's perception of self-worth becomes distorted, leading to harmful energies that can echo out and infect to the entire world.

What is Entitlement?

Entitlement is the belief that one deserves certain privileges or special treatment without necessarily earning them. It's a mindset that prioritizes personal desires over the needs and rights of others. This attitude can be particularly destructive in relationships ( personal and business), leading to a lack of empathy and respect for others.

The Role of Ego and the creation of reality

Ego is the part of our psyche that deals with our self-identity and self-esteem. While a healthy ego helps us navigate the world with confidence, an inflated ego can create a false sense of superiority. When combined with entitlement, it can become a toxic mix that blinds individuals to their faults and makes them justify their harmful actions.

A Personal Encounter with Full of Self Syndrome

Some time ago, I had a client/business partner who embodied the very essence of entitlement and ego. This person, whom I trusted and valued, ended up using and lying to me in ways that left deep emotional scars. They took advantage of my kindness and generosity, exploiting my goodwill for their benefit. When the consequences of their (lack of) actions caught up with them and the world in 2019, they then disappeared from my life without a trace, leaving me to pick up the pieces. Years later, out of nowhere, this person reappeared, asking for my help again as if nothing had happened. They seemed oblivious to the global pain they had caused, their sense of entitlement and ego still fully intact. This encounter was a stark reminder of the dangers of full of self syndrome.

The Impact of Full of Self Syndrome

Full of self syndrome manifests in various ways, all detrimental to personal growth and healthy relationships. Individuals afflicted by this syndrome often:

  1. Lack Accountability: They refuse to acknowledge their mistakes and blame others for their problems.

  2. Show Disregard for Others: They prioritize their needs and desires over the well-being of others.

  3. Exhibit Manipulative Behavior: They use others as tools to achieve their personal goals (desires), often through deceit and exploitation.

  4. Experience Superficial Relationships: Their relationships are built on self-interest rather than genuine 1 on 1 connection and mutual respect and care for all.

Healing and Moving Forward. 👍

Encountering someone with full of self syndrome can be a deeply painful experience, but it also offers valuable lessons in self-awareness and boundary-setting. Here are 5 steps to heal and protect yourself:

  1. Acknowledge the Pain: Allow yourself to feel and process the hurt caused by the other person's actions.

  2. Set Boundaries: Clearly define and communicate your limits to protect yourself from further harm.

  3. Practice Forgiveness: Forgiveness is not about excusing the behavior but releasing the glue like thought hold it has on your emotional well-being. If you gave it your all and were screwed over for it by someone, forgive yourself. The negative Karma that comes out of a situation like that it is NOT yours…Simply address a letter in your mind, place the energy of your frustration ( whatever the situation was) into the letter, seal it, put a mental stamp on it and place it into a cosmic return to sender mailbox and mail that sucker!

  4. Focus on Self-Growth: Use the experience as a catalyst for your personal and spiritual growth.

  5. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Seek out relationships and environments that foster mutual respect and understanding.

Wrapping it up already

Entitlement and ego, when left unchecked, can lead to a life FOREVER dominated by self-destructive behaviors and damaged relationships. Recognizing and addressing full of self syndrome within ourselves and others is crucial for fostering a life of empathy, respect, and genuine connection. By setting healthy boundaries and focusing on personal growth, we can navigate these challenges and continue our journey towards a more enlightened and fulfilling existence.

Brian Collins

Life in Synergy Inc.

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The Power of Collective Consciousness

Discover how responsibility can shift the world through collective consciousness, empowerment, ethical leadership, sustainable practices, and social change. Best of Boston winner Helena Collins explores ways to embrace responsibility for personal and global transformation.

Responsibility is more than a burden; it is a gift, a chance to contribute to the tapestry of collective consciousness.

When we take responsibility for our actions and their ripple effects, we engage in a dance of interconnectedness. Each step, each decision, reverberates through the web of life, touching the lives of others in ways we might never fully comprehend.

Imagine a society where every individual is acutely aware of their impact. From the smallest acts of kindness to the grandest gestures of change, each action contributes to a wave of collective upliftment. It’s like adding a drop of color to a canvas; over time, the picture becomes more vibrant, more reflective of our highest ideals.

Taking responsibility is an act of empowerment. It is the moment we choose to shift from being passive recipients of life’s circumstances to active participants in our destiny. This shift is not just a personal transformation but a catalyst for global change. When we own our choices, we step into a space of growth and possibility. Challenges become opportunities for learning, failures transform into stepping stones for success. This mindset, when adopted widely, creates a culture of resilience and innovation. It turns obstacles into pathways, leading us towards a world where solutions are born from the fertile ground of responsibility.

The Role of Ethical Leadership

In leadership, responsibility is the cornerstone of trust and integrity. Leaders who are accountable set a precedent, inspiring those around them to follow suit. They cultivate environments where ethical practices flourish, and in doing so, they lay the foundation for sustainable and equitable progress. Imagine a world led by individuals who prioritize responsibility over personal gain. These leaders are not just figures of authority but beacons of hope, guiding us towards a future where justice and fairness are not just ideals but realities. Their actions inspire a domino effect, fostering a culture of accountability that permeates through organizations, communities, and beyond.

Our planet is a testament to the necessity of responsible stewardship. Each decision we make about our consumption, our waste, our relationship with nature, reflects our commitment to the future. Responsibility in this context means living with an awareness of our ecological footprint and making choices that honor the Earth and its inhabitants. Envision a world where every individual takes responsibility for their environmental impact. Small changes, like reducing plastic use or conserving water, accumulate into significant shifts. This collective effort has the power to reverse damage, heal ecosystems, and ensure that future generations inherit a world of abundance and beauty.

Driving Social Change

Responsibility extends to the social realm, where it calls us to recognize and address injustices. It asks us to confront our privileges, challenge systemic inequalities, and work towards a more inclusive society. When we take responsibility for social change, we become active participants in the creation of a fairer world. Picture a society where each person takes responsibility for fostering equity. This could mean standing up against discrimination, advocating for marginalized communities, or simply listening with empathy and understanding. Each act of social responsibility adds a thread to the fabric of change, weaving a tapestry of justice that wraps around our world.

Inner Peace and Harmony

Responsibility is not just an external practice; it is an internal journey. Taking responsibility for our emotions, our reactions, and our growth leads to inner peace and harmony. It shifts our focus from blame and victimhood to empowerment and serenity. Imagine a world full of individuals who are at peace with themselves. This inner harmony radiates outward, creating a ripple effect of calm and understanding. When we take responsibility for our inner state, we contribute to a world where conflicts are resolved with compassion and differences are embraced with respect.

The Catalyst for Transformation

Responsibility is the key to transformation. By embracing our power to effect change, we move from being passive observers to active architects of our world. This transformation is not just personal but collective, paving the way for a world that reflects our highest aspirations. Visualize a world where responsibility is the norm. Each individual, each community, each nation, stepping into their power, creating ripples of positive change that converge into a tidal wave of transformation. This is the world we can build, a world where responsibility is the catalyst for a future brimming with possibility and promise.

Responsibility is not a weight to be carried, but a light to be shared. It is the spark that ignites change, the ripple that shifts worlds. As we embrace this gift, we unlock the power to create a world that is compassionate, sustainable, and just.

Let us step into our responsibility, not as a burden, but as a beacon, guiding us towards a brighter, more harmonious future. The world awaits our collective shift. Let’s make it happen, one responsible choice at a time. 🌟

How are you embracing responsibility in your life? Start your Apex Life in Synergy journey and inspire others to join the shift with you. Together, we can create a world that reflects our highest aspirations.

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The Shadows of Misinformation and Disinformation: Navigating the Illusions

Explore how misinformation and disinformation can overshadow free will, leading individuals and groups to make misguided decisions. Learn strategies to preserve your spiritual sovereignty and navigate through false narratives.

In the vast tapestry of our interconnected world, the flow of information is the lifeblood of our collective consciousness.

It shapes our perceptions, fuels our beliefs, and steers our actions. However, amidst the rivers of knowledge, there lie treacherous currents of misinformation and disinformation, capable of overshadowing our free will and leading us over the cliff of oblivion. Understanding and countering these shadows is crucial for preserving our individual and collective spiritual integrity. Misinformation refers to false or inaccurate information spread without malicious intent. It can arise from misunderstandings, misinterpretations, or simply a lack of knowledge. Disinformation, on the other hand, is the deliberate dissemination of false information with the intent to deceive or manipulate. Both forms are insidious, but disinformation carries a more sinister weight, as it is crafted to exploit and control.

Human beings are inherently social creatures, deeply influenced by the energies and vibrations of those around them. In a collective group, whether it's a community, a nation, or even a global movement, the shared energy can become a powerful force. This collective energy can be a force for positive change, driving us toward greater unity and understanding. However, it can also become a conduit for spreading misinformation and disinformation, especially when driven by fear, anger, or other lower vibrations.

Overcoming Free Will

When misinformation or disinformation infiltrates a group, it can overshadow individual free will. The collective energy amplifies the false narratives, creating an echo chamber where dissenting voices are drowned out. In such an environment, individuals may find it increasingly difficult to think independently. The fear of social ostracism, the desire to belong, and the overwhelming pressure to conform can lead one to willingly accept and propagate falsehoods. This dynamic is akin to being swept away by a powerful current, unable to break free. The more we align our consciousness with the collective's distorted reality, the further we drift from our own inner guidance and truth. This can lead to a cascade of negative consequences, both spiritually and practically, as we make decisions based on false premises and perpetuate harm.

To navigate these treacherous waters, we must cultivate awareness, discernment, and spiritual resilience. Here are some steps to help maintain our spiritual sovereignty and protect ourselves from the shadows of misinformation and disinformation:

  1. Cultivate Awareness: Stay vigilant and question the information you encounter. Develop a habit of critical thinking and seek out multiple perspectives before forming a conclusion. Awareness is the first step toward breaking free from the grip of false narratives.

  2. Trust Your Inner Guidance: Reconnect with your inner wisdom through meditation, reflection, and spiritual practices. Your higher self can help you discern truth from falsehood, guiding you through the noise of misinformation.

  3. Educate and Empower: Equip yourself and others with the knowledge and tools needed to identify and counter misinformation and disinformation. Education is a powerful antidote to ignorance and manipulation.

  4. Raise Your Vibration: Focus on elevating your personal vibration through love, compassion, and positive energy. A higher vibrational state makes it more difficult for lower vibrational energies of misinformation and disinformation to take root.

In this journey of spiritual ascension and self-betterment, facing the challenge of misinformation and disinformation is a crucial step. By fostering awareness, trusting our inner guidance, engaging in open dialogue, educating ourselves and others, and raising our vibrations, we can navigate the shadows and preserve our spiritual sovereignty. Let us strive to be beacons of light and truth, illuminating the path for ourselves and others, ensuring that our collective energy propels us toward a future of greater awareness, acceptance, and unity.

The power to overcome the illusions lies within each of us, and together, we can create a world where truth and integrity reign supreme.

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy®-Boston

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Why Waiting for the Perfect Moment to Start Your Inward Journey Is Like Waiting for a Unicorn to Win the Kentucky Derby

Discover how to take control of your life by starting your spiritual journey today. Stop waiting for the perfect moment and let go of old energies right now. Dive into practical tips and explore the Apex Life in Synergy program with Boston’s multi award winning wellness teacher, Helena Collins.

Ah, the perfect moment.

That mystical point in time we all wait for, like a bunch of kids on Christmas Eve, hoping that Santa finally brings us the gift of motivation, clarity, and inner peace wrapped neatly under our personal growth tree. If you’re one of the many who think the stars will align and trumpet sounds will herald the start of your spiritual journey, I have some news for you: you’re waiting on a unicorn to win the Kentucky Derby.

The Myth of the "Right Time"

Every day you put off beginning your inward journey is another day where old energies inside—yes, those pesky, stale vibes—rule your thoughts and actions. You know, the ones that have you binge-watching shows you don’t even like, or scrolling endlessly through social media comparing your blooper reel to everyone else's highlight clips. If you're waiting for tomorrow to be filled with possibilities, you might want to check who's writing your life script. Spoiler alert: if you don’t take the pen, those old energies will continue to be the ghostwriters of your life.

Seize the Day, Literally

Tomorrow isn’t magically full of possibility unless you make it so. Consider this: each day you don't step up to rewrite your personal life story, the old patterns, habits, and energies will not only write your script but also edit and publish it. And let's be honest, they're terrible writers. Full of clichés, and they never get to the good part!

So, what’s stopping you?

•Is it fear?

•Procrastination?

•The belief that you need one more self-help book or a sign from the universe?

Let this blog be that sign for you: It’s time to grab that pen.

Take Action with the Apex Life in Synergy® Program

Instead of letting another déjà vu day control your life, why not join the Apex Life in Synergy program? This isn’t your garden-variety self-help fluff. It’s a life-changing approach that not only empowers you to take charge of your own narrative but also provides practical tools to clear out those outdated energies hogging up all the good mental space. Helena Collins, the visionary behind the program, offers strategies that aren't just about facing the music; they're about rewriting the score of your life. Interested in kicking those old energies to the curb and actually enjoying the music of your life? Check out Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy program and start tuning into your true potential.

Remember, the perfect moment is a myth.

Your spiritual journey begins the moment you decide to take control. Stop outsourcing your narrative to energies that don’t have your best interests at heart. Grab the pen (The Apex Life in Synergy program), write your own story, and maybe, just maybe, you'll find that unicorns don’t need to win derbies when you’re busy winning at life.

Explore the Apex Life in Synergy Program - Because tomorrow’s possibilities are crafted by today’s decisions.

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The Human Energy Field: Attracting and Repelling Life's Energies

Explore how the human energy field influences your life by attracting or repelling energies. Balance your aura and draw positivity. Discover the power of energy fields to transform your life today with Helena Collins.

Our existence is a dance of energy, a constant exchange with the universe's dynamic forces.

The human energy field, or aura, is the invisible electromagnetic field that surrounds us, reflecting our inner state and influencing how we interact with the world around us. The concept of the human energy field is rooted in ancient spiritual traditions, recognized by many cultures as the vital force, Mana, Prana, Ki or Qi. This energy is not static; it fluctuates based on our thoughts, emotions, and overall well-being. It's this energetic vibration that attracts or repels life's energies, shaping our experiences and interactions.

At the heart of this energetic exchange is the often mass marketed law of attraction, which declares that like energy attracts like energy. Our thoughts and feelings emit a specific frequency that attracts circumstances and people of similar vibrations. This means that by cultivating positive, high-frequency energies through love, gratitude, and joy, we can attract more positive experiences into our lives. However, our energy fields can become blocked or imbalanced due to stress, negative thinking, unresolved emotions and subconscious influences full of desires. These blockages can repel positive energies and attract negativity, creating cycles of hardship and struggle. Energy healing practices such as The Apex Life in Synergy program can help clear these blockages, restoring balance and flow to our energy field.

The key to a vibrant energy field lies in mindfulness and emotional regulation.

By becoming aware of our thoughts and feelings we can influence our energy field to unlock what we desire and what is correct for us in life. It's a process of internal alchemy, transforming lower vibrations into higher ones, leading to a state of harmony, health, and happiness. A wonderful goal, but you also want a synergy in your energetic flow as the last thing you want is to do years of introspective work only to have misunderstood desire energies lead you into a situation(s) that could have you in events or surroundings less than ideal for your growth.

By training to understand the levels of energy within, you can get a clearer view of what you really want, what is really purposeful for you and how to acquire an Apex Life in Synergy®.

❤️Helena Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy®

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The Multiverse Within: Exploring the Synergy of Life

Uncover the vast multiverse within our consciousness and how achieving a state of synergy can unlock new dimensions of being. Learn through the Programs of Brian and Helena Collins' teachings and help shape the tomorrows for the next generations to come.

Create a Life in Synergy® for future generations by starting Apex Life in Synergy® TODAY!

The concept of the multiverse proposes the existence of parallel universes, each distinct yet intertwined with the fabric of reality.

But what if the true multiverse lies not in the cosmos but within us?

This idea isn't just a foray into speculative fiction; it's a profound exploration of the human spirit and the potentialities that reside within our consciousness. Within each of us is a universe of thoughts, emotions, and spiritual energy, teeming with possibilities and realities that defy the constraints of our physical world. The key to unlocking these inner dimensions lies in achieving a state of synergy—a harmonious balance that resonates with the universe's fundamental energies.

Achieving this inner synergy isn't a solitary journey. It involves connecting with the world around us, understanding the nature of our internal energies, and harnessing the wisdom of those who have navigated this path before us. The Programs and the teachings of Helena Collins offer a roadmap to this inner multiverse. Through her guidance, we learn to align our thoughts, emotions, and spirit in a way that transcends the ordinary, opening doorways to new realities within ourselves.

This exploration of the inner multiverse is not just an exercise in self-improvement; it's a transformative journey that can lead to profound insights into the nature of existence. As we delve deeper into our inner selves, we discover that the boundaries between us and the universe blur, revealing a symphony of life where everything is connected in a delicate dance of energy and consciousness.

By embracing the possibility of the multiverse within, we unlock the potential to live in harmony with the cosmos, creating a synergy that elevates our existence to new dimensions of being. It's a journey that challenges us to rethink our place in the universe, not as mere observers but as integral components of a grand, interconnected tapestry of life. These Life in Synergy blogs aim to weave the rich tapestry of metaphysical exploration with practical no BS tools for self-improvement that have actually changed countless lives for decades, offering a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of existence.

Through the synergy of ideas and the guidance of Helena Collins innovative programs, we embark on a journey of inner discovery that not only transforms ourselves but also the world around us. No big deal right? It is time to ascend and become ascension….the world is counting on like minded individuals to get of the hamster wheel and take charge of the course of our world.





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The Echoes of Our Inner Selves: Nature's Reflection of Internal Energy

Explore how nature acts as a mirror to our internal energy, reflecting our deepest emotions and thoughts. Discover self-improvement pathways with the Apex Life in Synergy® Program and insights from Helena Collins.

Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy.

In the tapestry of life, each thread weaves through patterns of chaos and harmony, creating a picture that's both complex and beautifully simple.

At the heart of this paradox lies a profound truth: the world around us, in all its natural splendor, mirrors the tumultuous and serene energies that swirl within us. This concept isn't just poetic musings; it's a perspective that offers insights into how we interact with the universe and, more importantly, with ourselves.

Nature, in its infinite wisdom, acts as a mirror to our soul's energy. The calm before a storm may reflect our internal peace before an upheaval, while the wild, untamed rivers mirror our own passions and desires running their course. This is not to say that we control the weather or the tides, but rather, our interaction with these elements can resonate with the vibrations of our inner selves. It's a symbiotic relationship where nature responds to the frequencies we emit, and we, in turn, find our reflections in its reactions. It takes a deep understanding of self to see the actualization of the concept “we are one with everything” in real time and only through dedication to the self ( and a gifted teacher) can a person break free from the chains that bind them to discover untapped levels of self and become the energy of change the world seeks.

Understanding this connection encourages us to delve deeper into self-exploration and mindfulness.

As we navigate our journey, mind based tools developed by thought leaders in the realm of self-improvement, offer pathways to better understand and harness our internal energies. These programs, alongside insights from wellness luminaries like Helena Collins, provide a framework for aligning our inner vibrations with the natural world, fostering a sense of harmony and balance.

The reflection of our inner selves in nature's canvas teaches us the importance of being in tune with our emotions and thoughts. Just as a calm lake mirrors the sky above, a tranquil mind reflects a clear perspective on life. By embracing the wisdom of nature and the guidance of groundbreaking self-improvement methodologies, we embark on a transformative journey towards self-awareness and enlightenment.

While today’s blog may be short and sweet so you may want to re-read it and ponder some of the deep knowledge hidden within the words then take action…..



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The Curious Power of Blame and the Oxymoron Behavior It Unleashes

No, not scrolling through social media for hours on end or trying to decipher the latest TikTok dance craze. I'm talking about the grand old sport of blame. Ah, blame – it’s like the glitter of emotions; once you open it up, good luck getting it out of... well, anything. But here's the kicker: blame, in its essence, is a fascinating display of oxymoron behavior.

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Let's talk about the world's favorite pastime.

No, not scrolling through social media for hours on end or trying to decipher the latest TikTok dance craze. I'm talking about the grand old sport of blame. Ah, blame – it’s like the glitter of emotions; once you open it up, good luck getting it out of... well, anything. But here's the kicker: blame, in its essence, is a fascinating display of oxymoron behavior. It's the yoga class of the psyche, bending us into emotional pretzels as we navigate the hilarious irony it often presents. First off, have you ever noticed how blame is the only game where everyone's playing, but somehow, nobody wins? It's like a perpetual game of hot potato, but instead of a potato, it's a flaming ball of "Not It!" The rules are simple: pass the blame as quickly as possible, and whatever you do, don’t get caught holding it when the music stops.

Why? Because accountability, my friends, is apparently lava.

The “It’s Not Me, It’s You” Phenomenon

Blame is the ultimate relationship tester, bringing out the oxymoron behavior in all of us. Picture this: two people arguing, each convinced of their righteousness, in a dazzling display of "It's not me, it's you." It’s the adult version of pointing fingers, but with more sophisticated vocabulary and, sometimes, passive aggression so thick you could cut it with a knife. And let's not forget the irony. Oh, the irony of shouting, “I’m not yelling!” at the top of your lungs, or the classic, “I’m calm! Can’t you see how calm I am?!” while resembling a teakettle about to whistle. It's the emotional equivalent of saying you're on a diet as you inhale the third slice of cake – delightful in its contradiction.

The Superpower of selective amnesia

Blame has this miraculous ability to grant us selective amnesia, particularly when it comes to our own faults. It’s a bit like those diet ads that promise you can eat anything you want and still lose weight. In the heat of a blame battle, our memories become as selective as a toddler choosing vegetables. “I never said that!” we proclaim, with the confidence of someone who has forgotten the existence of screenshots. It’s a superpower, really, the ability to edit our memories in real time to suit our narrative. Take note, Superhero flicks.

The big deep Moral of the Story

But here's the beauty of it all: in the absurdity of blame and the oxymoron behavior it inspires, there's a lesson to be learned. It's about taking a step back, laughing at ourselves, and realizing that maybe, just maybe, we're not always the hero of our own story. Sometimes, we're the comic relief, and that's perfectly okay. So, next time you find yourself in the blame game energy loop, take a moment. Laugh at the absurdity of it all. Because at the end of the day, life's too short to spend it in a game where the only prize is a bitter taste of self-righteousness. Let's choose joy, accountability, and a bit of self-deprecation instead. After all, a good laugh at our own expense is the best way to keep our egos in check and our hearts light. In the grand comedy of life, blame is just another scene. Play it well, play it with humor, and when in doubt, remember the wise words of the age-old saying: "If you can’t be a good example, then you’ll just have to be a hilarious warning."

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy®

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Helena Collins: A Journey Through Time in Wellness and Physical Fitness

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Helena Collins at the Apex. #bestofbostonwinner


In the heart of Boston, amidst the hustle and bustle of city life, a beacon of wellness and physical fitness shone bright and stood the test of time. Helena Collins, a name synonymous with health, consciousness, and the pursuit of personal betterment, carved a niche that transcends mere physical fitness.

From her spandex-clad days where her fitness classes were sold out in advance in the vibrant 1980s to her current status as a master educator of consciousness-related mind-body synergy, Helena's journey is nothing short of inspirational. The 1980s were a time of bold fashion, dynamic music, and the birth of widespread fitness consciousness. It was during this electric era that Helena Collins stepped onto the scene, donning her spandex with pride and a vision to transform lives through physical fitness. Her energy was (and still is) infectious, her methods innovative, and her dedication unmatched. She wasn't just teaching fitness; she was pioneering a movement that emphasized the joy and power of physical well-being. From designing fitness training manuals, to club management and scheduling, the 80s were a whirlwind for Helena Collins.

As the world entered the 1990s and early 2000s, so too did Helena evolve her approach and offerings.

This period marked a significant expansion in her career as she traveled the world in search of sacred knowledge of internal energy and spirituality with deep studies in Chi Gong and TCM in China, sacred Hawaiian Spiritual meditation practices, Filipino Martial Arts, Tai Chi Chuan and more. These studies help her delve deeper into the intricacies of the human mind and body connection with her award winning Synergistics Fitness Method® (SFM). Helena recognized early on that true wellness goes beyond physical fitness; it encompasses mental, emotional, and spiritual health. Her programs began to integrate these elements, offering a more holistic approach to fitness/wellness that was far ahead of its time. She opened her 1st fitness studio on Boston’s uber-chic trendy Newbury Street in 1997 and Helena Collins quickly it won awards such as Best of Boston from Boston Magazine and her personal training studio packed with clients from all over the world, all seeking the benefits of her expertise. The 21st century has seen Helena Collins not just adapt to the changing landscape of wellness but actively shape it. Her role as a master educator of consciousness-related mind-body synergy is a testament to her lifelong commitment to learning, teaching, and evolving. Helena's work now with her Apex Life in Synergy program encompasses a broader spectrum of wellness, touching on aspects of mindfulness, consciousness, and the deep synergy between mind and body. Her approach is both scientifically grounded and spiritually uplifted, making her a sought-after guru in the wellness community.

What sets Helena apart is her ability to seamlessly integrate decades of knowledge and experience with contemporary practices and insights. She has witnessed firsthand the evolution of the wellness industry and has played a pivotal role in its transformation. Her dedication to helping others achieve a state of synergy between mind, body, and spirit has earned her numerous awards and accolades. Yet, it is the countless lives she has touched, the personal transformations she has facilitated, and the community she has built that stand as her true legacy. Helena will never speak of the breast cancer battle she fought years ago or the way she was treated during that time when she needed a helping hand, she never will speak of being a survivor of rape in her youth, or coming from a highly violent abusive upbringing, she will however spread the joy that always remained in her heart, the power of her vision for a better world and the willingness to constantly improve ( a kanji of the term “constant improvement” hung on the wall to greet all at her Newbury Street studio for decades). The only reason I mention the rough patches in her life is because my wife, Helena Collins is a true warrior, one who has seen the bad energy of life and chose to always do good, despite a negative headwind that tried to hold her in place and pull her down. As we look to the future, Helena Collins continues to inspire, educate, and transform clients online now after deciding to take her practices to the web and reach the entire world vs just a small section of the public in Boston. Her journey from the energetic days of the 1980s to her current status as a beacon of living a Apex Life in Synergy® and physical fitness is a powerful reminder of the impact one individual can have on the world. Helena's story is not just about fitness; it's about the relentless pursuit of betterment, the courage to evolve, and the unwavering belief in the potential of every individual to achieve mind-body synergy.

In a world that often feels fragmented, Helena Collins work is a beacon of unity and wellness. Her journey is a compelling narrative of resilience, innovation, and the enduring power of holistic health. Helena Collins remains, as ever, Boston's multi-award-winning wellness and physical fitness guru, guiding us all toward a brighter, healthier future.

Brian Collins- Hand holder and partner in life with the Amazing Helena Collins for the past 32 years

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