The Clouded Mind: Perception, Reality, and the Eternal Cycle of Mistakes

Helena Collins shows you how to open up to the cosmos

In the delicate dance of life, our minds serve as the prism through which we perceive and interpret our reality.

This prism, however, is not always crystal clear. Often, it is clouded by a myriad of factors—emotions, past experiences, societal conditioning, and subconscious patterns. When our perception is clouded, our reality becomes distorted, leading us to recreate the same mistakes over and over, perpetuating a cycle that can span lifetimes and echo through the corridors of history. A clouded mind is like a fogged-up mirror. When we look into it, the reflection is hazy, and our understanding of ourselves and our surroundings becomes skewed. This cloudiness can arise from various sources:

1. Emotional Turbulence: Intense emotions, whether they be fear, anger, or sadness, can cloud our judgment. In the grip of strong emotions, we often react impulsively, making decisions that are not in alignment with our true selves.

2. Past Experiences: Traumas and unresolved issues from the past can linger in our subconscious, influencing our current thoughts and actions. These unresolved issues act as filters through which we view new experiences, often leading us to misinterpret situations and repeat past mistakes.

3. Societal Conditioning: From a young age, we are bombarded with religious beliefs, societal norms and expectations. These external influences shape our beliefs and perceptions, often leading us away from discovering our own beliefs and authentic selves and towards actions that do not serve our highest good.

4. Subconscious Patterns: Our subconscious mind is a powerful force, driving much of our behavior without our conscious awareness. Patterns ingrained in the subconscious, often from early childhood, can lead us to repeat the same mistakes, even when we consciously desire change.

When our minds are clouded, our perception of reality is distorted. We might see threats where there are none, interpret kindness as manipulation, or view opportunities as risks. This distorted perception influences our actions, leading us to make decisions that reinforce the cloudiness of our mind. For instance, someone who has experienced betrayal may develop a distorted view of relationships, seeing potential partners as untrustworthy. This perception can lead them to sabotage relationships, thereby reinforcing their belief in the untrustworthiness of others. The cycle continues, as each new experience is filtered through the same clouded lens, leading to the same outcomes.

Throughout history, this pattern of clouded perception leading to repeated mistakes has played out on both personal and collective levels. Societies have risen and fallen, often making the same errors in judgment that their predecessors did. Wars are fought over the same misunderstandings, and civilizations crumble under the weight of repeated missteps. On a personal level, individuals find themselves trapped in cycles of behavior that they cannot seem to break. Whether it’s choosing the wrong partners, engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors, or perpetuating limiting beliefs, the clouded mind keeps us bound to our mistakes.

Ending the pattern

To break free from this cycle, we must first clear the fog from our minds. This requires a journey inward, towards self-awareness and healing. Here are some steps to begin this journey:

1. Mindfulness and Meditation: By practicing mindfulness and meditation with the Apex Life in Synergy program, we can become more aware of our thoughts and emotions. This awareness allows us to observe our patterns without judgment and begin to understand their roots.

2. Healing Past Wounds: Confronting and healing past traumas is crucial to clearing the cloudiness of the mind. This may involve therapy, energy healing, or other modalities that resonate with us.

3. Challenging Societal Norms: Questioning and redefining the societal norms that have shaped our beliefs can help us align more closely with our true selves.

4. Reprogramming the Subconscious: Techniques such as Apex Life in Synergy can help the subconscious mind, replacing limiting beliefs with new, vibrant empowering ones.

5. Cultivating Emotional Intelligence: Developing emotional intelligence allows us to navigate our emotions more effectively, preventing them from clouding our judgment.

The journey to clear the mind and alter our perception of reality is not an easy one, but it is a path worth walking. As we clear the fog, our true reality begins to emerge—a reality where we are empowered to make choices that serve our highest good. By breaking free from the cycle of repeated mistakes, we can create a life of harmony, growth, and fulfillment. In doing so, we not only transform our own lives but contribute to the collective evolution of humanity, breaking the chains of history and stepping into a future of infinite possibilities.

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“Helena Collins is a true sage! I will always be grateful to her for teaching me and creating the Apex Life in Synergy course. With the precision of a scientist, she guides you layer by layer through your entire being while sharing her own journey along the way. Despite her knowledge, Helena never talks down to you or asks you to accept anything on faith. Through the Apex Life in Synergy adventure, I’ve strengthened aspects of myself I didn’t know existed and created real peace in my life. If you are as lucky as I have been to discover her course, my advice is to take the plunge!”

— P.K Washington D.C

Macro and Micro Consciousness: The Collective Mindsets

Macro consciousness can be likened to a vast, interconnected web of thoughts, emotions, and experiences shared among larger groups – be it communities, societies, or even humanity as a whole.

This concept is not just about shared beliefs and values; it’s an exploration of collective experiences and the communal psyche.

Cultural and Societal Influence: Macro consciousness is shaped by cultural, societal, and historical contexts. For instance, the collective consciousness of a nation is influenced by its history, traditions, and shared experiences, like a national tragedy or a period of significant prosperity.

Global Consciousness: In a broader sense, macro consciousness can extend to a global scale, reflecting the shared experiences and challenges of humanity, such as climate change awareness or global pandemics.

Technological Impact: The advent of the internet and social media has significantly amplified and altered macro consciousness, creating a more interconnected global community.

Micro Consciousness: The Individual Experience

Micro consciousness, in contrast, is the individual's internal experience – their thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and perceptions. It’s the personal lens through which one views the world, shaped by personal experiences, upbringing, and individual traits.

Personal Perception and Reality: Micro consciousness is deeply personal, often subjective, and can vary greatly from one individual to another. It's how we interpret and react to our immediate environment and personal experiences.

Influence of Environment: While unique, micro consciousness is also influenced by the external world – including the macro consciousness of one's community or society.

Spiritual and Psychological Dimensions: Micro consciousness also encompasses the spiritual and psychological journey of an individual, reflecting their inner growth, challenges, and realizations.

Intersection and Interplay

The most fascinating aspect is the interaction between these two forms of consciousness. They are not isolated but deeply interconnected.

• Influence of Macro on Micro: Societal norms, cultural beliefs, and collective experiences significantly shape an individual's perspective and life choices.

• Contribution of Micro to Macro: Conversely, the collective consciousness is a tapestry woven from individual threads. Each personal experience, idea, and belief contributes to the larger picture.

• Evolution and Change: Both forms of consciousness are dynamic and evolve over time. Changes in macro consciousness can lead to significant shifts in individual perspectives, and vice versa.

• Spiritual Perspective: From a spiritual standpoint, this interplay can be seen as a dance between the individual soul and the universal spirit. Both are essential to understanding the complete picture of human existence and experience.

Hmmmmm, macro and micro consciousness are two sides of the same coin, each reflecting and influencing the other.

The study of these concepts not only offers insights into human behavior and societal dynamics but also provides a deeper understanding of the individual's place within the larger scheme of existence. This interplay is crucial for personal growth and collective evolution, embodying the essence of both individual uniqueness and universal interconnectedness. Apex Life in Synergy online study of the self addresses a vast array of knowledge from a person who simply is reguritating information, no repackaging…..you owe it to yourself in your lifetime to discover who you can become.

You may think that Life in Synergy® offers just another “self help” program, but think for one second that when you pass away and you meet ascended beings. These masters of energy ask “ Did you HELP shape reality on earth or did you replay the past?” We have walked the walk for the past 30 years and NEVER deviated from the tasks at hand despite headwinds of Cyclonic proportions…so we are not bullshitting at all, we know that there is MUCH to all of this.

The time is NOW to shift the future, or sit on a tack and complain for the rest of your life…

Helena and Brian

Embracing a New Horizon: A Personal Declaration of Compassionate Detachment

A Life in Synergy® starts within.

As I sit to transpose the whirlwind of thoughts into structured sentences,

a familiar serenity washes over me. It's the calm before the storm of revelation, a moment that always prefaces the pivotal decisions in my life. My love Helena, the only one who has walked with me through countless musings and has stood by my side as I've grappled with the weight of the world, will understand the gravity of what I'm about to share.

The truth is, I've arrived at an understanding, a pivotal shift in my journey.

There comes a time when the mantle we choose to carry becomes too heavy, not for the lack of strength, but for the enlightenment of the soul. The mantle I speak of is the unspoken vow I took upon myself to step into the arena of every battle, to take on all issues that the Earth presents with open arms and a willing heart. For years, I’ve let the global consciousness guide my actions, feeling the pain of every tree felled, the sorrow in every act of unkindness, the despair in each story of injustice. My days have been a reflection of the world’s chaos, a microcosm of the larger tapestry of human experience. I endeavored to be a healer, a beacon of light, to take on the suffering and transform it within the crucible of my spirit.

But here's the unvarnished truth – one soul cannot and should not bear the brunt of all worldly woes.

This is not an epiphany born out of exhaustion or despair, but out of profound love and respect for the collective journey of humanity and the individual path I walk. I am stepping back, not out of the fight, but into a different stance. I am not abdicating my role as a participant in this global village, nor am I suggesting that I will turn a blind eye to the suffering and challenges that permeate our existence. Instead, I am choosing to engage with these challenges with a renewed perspective — one of compassionate detachment.

Compassionate detachment is not about indifference or passivity; it’s about engaging with the world judiciously, acknowledging that I am but one thread in the intricate tapestry of existence. It's about realizing that I can be of greater service by uplifting my own spirit and in turn, creating ripples of positive energy that have the potential to inspire change in others.

I will continue to stand for what I believe in, to extend a hand where I can make a difference, and to lend my voice to causes that resonate with the truth of my heart. But I will do so with the understanding that I am part of a greater whole, that every individual has their part to play, and that the evolution of our collective consciousness requires each one of us to be whole within ourselves first. In this new chapter, I will focus on empowering myself and others to become agents of change within their own realms. By doing so, I can contribute to a world where the burdens are shared, and the responsibilities are shouldered not by a single individual, but by a community of souls working in synergy.

To my dear companions on this journey, let’s not see this as stepping back, but rather as stepping up — into greater self-awareness, into a more sustainable form of engagement, and into a deeper trust in the flow of life and the collective power we hold when each of us stands strong in our own light. Until next time, let's walk each other home with gentle steps and open hearts, ever committed to the good that we can do, not just the good that we wish we could do.

With a heart full of love and a soul re-ignited by purpose,

Brian Collins

A Divine Perspective: The Almighty's Musings on Free Will and Human Foibles

Representation of positive change and hope

The Power to Change: A Divine Call to Action

Greetings, my beloved children.

It's your old friend, the Almighty, the Alpha and Omega, the Big Kahuna in the Sky.

I thought it was high time we had a little chat. Now, don't worry, this isn't one of those "fire and brimstone" talks. I'm not here to smite anyone. I just want to clear up a few things. You see, I've been watching you all, as I always do, and I've noticed a trend. Things are getting a bit... chaotic down there. And I'm not talking about the fun kind of chaos, like when I decided to give platypuses venomous spurs just for giggles. No, I'm talking about the kind of chaos that makes angels weep and saints facepalm in celestial frustration.

Now, before you start pointing fingers and blaming me for all the mess, let me remind you of a little gift I gave you. It's called free will. Yes, that's right. You're not puppets on a string. You're not pre-programmed robots. You're beings with the ability to make choices, to shape your own destinies. Isn't that wonderful? But here's the thing about gifts: they can be used well, or they can be used poorly. And lately, it seems like you've been using your free will like a toddler uses a permanent marker - with reckless abandon and a complete disregard for the consequences.

Take a look around.

The planet I designed for you, with its beautiful mountains, lush forests, and sparkling oceans, is being treated like a garbage dump. You're chopping down trees faster than I can grow them and pumping out more carbon dioxide than my poor plants can handle. And don't even get me started on the plastic. I mean, I created dinosaurs, and you turned them into shopping bags. Really?

Then there's the way you treat each other. I gave you diverse cultures, languages, and traditions to enrich your experience on Earth, not to be used as reasons for division and conflict. I mean, come on, folks. You're all part of the human family. Can't we all just get along?

And the greed... oh, the greed. I provided enough resources on this planet for everyone, but some of you are hoarding wealth like it's going out of style. Remember that whole "easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God" thing? Yeah, I wasn't kidding about that.

Now, I know what you're thinking. "But God, why don't you just fix everything? You're omnipotent, right?" Well, yes, I am. But that's not the point. The point is that you have the power to fix these problems yourselves. You have the intelligence, the creativity, and the capacity for compassion that you need to turn things around. You just need to choose to use them.

So, my dear children, consider this a gentle, divine nudge in the right direction. Remember, I'm not mad, just disappointed. But I have faith in you. After all, you're made in my image, and I'm pretty awesome if I do say so myself. Use your free will wisely. Take care of the Earth and each other. Show a little kindness, a little patience, a little generosity. Trust me, it'll make all the difference. And maybe, just maybe, you'll make this old deity proud.

Until next time, stay blessed and remember: I'm watching. Always watching.

With all my divine love,

God

PS

Who knew? God writes blogs? well how about that?

Helena and Brian

Occupational Wellness: The Key to a Successful Relationship

Occupational wellness is a significant aspect of our overall well-being, which plays a critical role in the formation and maintenance of successful relationships.

With a focus on the balance between work and personal life, occupational wellness addresses job satisfaction, professional development, and the impact of work on our mental and emotional health. This blog will delve into the concept of occupational wellness, its importance in fostering healthy relationships, and practical ways to enhance it in your daily life.

Defining Occupational Wellness:

Occupational wellness is the state of achieving a harmonious balance between your work life and personal life. It encompasses factors such as job satisfaction, professional growth, workplace culture, and the ability to manage work-related stress. When occupational wellness is in balance, it leads to increased productivity, improved mental and emotional health, and enhanced overall well-being.

The Connection Between Occupational Wellness and Successful Relationships:

Occupational wellness is crucial for building and sustaining successful relationships, both romantic and platonic. Here are some ways in which occupational wellness contributes to a healthy relationship:

1. Reduced stress: A balanced work-life reduces stress levels, which positively impacts your relationships. High stress levels can lead to irritability, fatigue, and emotional outbursts, affecting the quality of your interactions with your partner or friends.

2. Enhanced communication: Achieving occupational wellness allows you to develop better communication skills in the workplace, which can translate to improved communication with your partner. Open and honest communication is the backbone of any successful relationship.

3. Personal growth: When you are content and fulfilled in your professional life, you are more likely to focus on personal growth and self-improvement, which benefits your relationships. It allows you to grow together with your partner, as you both work towards becoming better individuals.

4. Shared values: A satisfying career often aligns with your values and passions. When you share these values with your partner, it can strengthen the bond between you, as you are more likely to support and understand each other's aspirations.

5. Time management: Occupational wellness entails effective time management, which enables you to allocate quality time for your relationships. Spending time together is essential for building a strong connection with your partner or friends.

How to Enhance Occupational Wellness:

1. Set boundaries: Clearly define your professional and personal life boundaries. Communicate your work schedule and availability with your partner, and stick to it as much as possible.

2. Prioritize self-care: Make time for self-care activities, such as SFM, meditation, and hobbies, which can help you manage work-related stress and maintain a balanced mental state.

3. Seek professional growth: Pursue opportunities for professional development to stay engaged and motivated in your career. This will contribute to your sense of fulfillment and positively impact your relationships.

4. Cultivate a healthy workplace environment: Surround yourself with supportive and positive colleagues, and contribute to building a healthy work culture. A positive work environment leads to increased job satisfaction, which reflects in your personal life.

5. Develop time management skills: Learn effective time management techniques to balance your work and personal life. Prioritize your tasks, set achievable goals, and allocate time for both work and relationships.

Occupational wellness is an integral component of a successful relationship.

By fostering a healthy work-life balance, you not only improve your overall well-being, but also create a strong foundation for long-lasting, fulfilling connections. So, invest time and effort in nurturing your occupational wellness, and watch your relationships thrive.

Helena and Brian

You add or subtract

So , what exactly is all this “inner peace” shit all about and how can the world be changed by someone who decides to look within with Life in Synergy® wellness programs you say?

Well, lets start off with the concept of waking up to see that all this mumbo jumbo spiritual stuff is indeed real and not the bill of goods that has been tainted by countless years of abuse by religion, false gurus, online “spiritual teacher” marketers, cult like practices and for some reason, anyone who wears yoga pants 24/7and calls themselves “ a spiritual teacher” because they are flexible.

Now if I sound like a bitter old bastard, I am not.

What I am saying is from a lifetime of professional experience and co owning 2 highly successful wellness studios in Boston for decades. If you have cured the blind, changed the energy of infertile women to allow them to have children, ended lifelong migraines in a single session, cured life long chronic back pain in a single setting, altered the course of countless lives by only using my connection to the cosmic mind and energy field, then you can tell me to clam up, if not, then clam up and read on because I am speaking the absolute frigging truth to you.

You are a broadcast tower that sends out the signal of who you are and affects the zone you are in. To coin a phrase I said to a very well know musician client that I helped years ago with a variety of issues, whom later used my teachings in a song that he wrote “ You are one with everything, theres no where to run”.

My wife and I live in Massachusetts and as I write this blog , a story was just released saying that Massachusetts is the best place to live. In fact, Massachusetts was named the best state in the U.S. to raise a family, read here. The town we live in was also voted the safest town to live in the entire country 2x. Now is this because of us and our practices? Ab-so-friggin-lutely.

Imagine states ( or countries) where there is ongoing turmoil like earthquakes, destruction, violence, racism, deception, sexism, jealousy, greed, lies, theft, etc? Well that is because the vibe needs to be ascended in areas like that and that in many ways they are stuck in a vortex of timeless repetition by the blind leading the blind. We are energy contained in a human form and leave an imprint wherever we go and if a person is full of shit, a liar, thief, etc…then that energy will stack up upon the layers of the like and well, turmoil will be the outcome. If however, you work on yourself and your deeper understanding of “it” all, then your vibe alters ALL that is around you and yup, you then live in the best state in the country and the safest town in the country. But if you are a liar you have a liar vibe, thief? thief vibe, good person? good vibe, truth bringer? truth vibe….get it ?

Do I sound pompous?

Why?

Because I am telling you the truth?

Should I deny all that my wife and I have done as a team to change lives and the world? Fuck that!…we are awesome and you should be learning from us vs being led off a universal cliff. Remember: “You are one with everything, theres no where to run” So study with us and discover secrets NOW….as life is short.

Brian Collins THE one and only Rabid Monk

Never again, again ( and again and again)

“Linda’s performance was unexpectedly sultry and funky, which might have been why the panel hadn’t guessed that t

his was the 63-year-old artist formerly known as Regan MacNeil.”

Now unless you are Dorian Gray,

you are aging at this very moment.

Society allows replays of old energies ( which include accepted judgments) and deems certain topics bad and others usable in conversations. Now we do not watch regularly television and haven't done so for years, but we do know of many shows that the public watches. The Masked Singer is one of them. Re-read the above critic quote from a recent episode with Linda Blair and ask yourself if it doesn’t exude agism and judgments.

Why can't a 63-year-old be sultry and funky? Is Chaka Khan either? How about Gladys Night? They seem to cover both categories quite well...

Is Cher sultry?

Angelica Huston?

Helen Mirren?

Angela Basset?

Society imprints categorical controls on the psyche and places a stamp of relevance on the said topic based on what exactly?

What group of people decides when a person is no longer a valid part of the world based on age or a younger person’s perceived attraction? Racism, sexism, ageism, baldism, heightism, fashionism....the list can go on and on and will until statements like the one above that are accepted are things of the past. You cannot have a balance on earth if the scales are tipped by "accepted" outdated schools of thought. Time ticks daily and we are all getting older despite creams, surgery, drugs ( medical or recreational), and denial.

Do you know what sultry is?

An “old person” who has lived a life of passion and discovery is one that can teach you about the triumphs of ascension and missteps of aging and how to live a long life...hopefully a sultry and funky one.

Do you want to know yourself and help diffuse collective judgments and help to diffuse collective thought stagnations?

Then take action! Study with us ( Hey we are old and getting older by the minute so we must know our stuff!)

and discover some amazing secrets, the more the merrier(world)!

Helena and Brian

www.lifeinsynergy.com