Mentors are not sponges

In the intricate journey towards enlightenment, the path is seldom linear or clear-cut.

It's a journey marked not just by moments of profound insight and transformation but also, quite paradoxically, by forgetfulness—especially of those pivotal encounters and guidance that propel us forward. In a narrative reminiscent of the soulful and insightful musings found on lifeinsynergy.com, we delve into the nuanced relationship between a mentor and their student, exploring the bittersweet symphony of growth, gratitude, and the often overlooked human aspects of spiritual evolution.

Our age old tale begins with a seeker, someone deeply entrenched in their quest for understanding, yearning for a connection to something greater than themselves. This seeker, like many of us, is burdened with many energetic blocks—those invisible barriers that stem from past traumas, societal conditioning, and personal fears. These blocks are the chains that tether us to our lowest vibrations, preventing us from soaring to our highest potential. In their search, the seeker finds a mentor, a beacon of light and wisdom in the vast darkness of confusion and despair. This mentor is not just a teacher but a guide, someone who has traversed the rugged terrains of self-discovery and emerged with the knowledge to navigate these treacherous waters. The mentor listens with a heart wide open, understanding deeply the pains and shadows that the seeker carries.

As the mentor and seeker journey together, a profound transformation occurs. The mentor, with their intuitive grasp of the energetic realms, aids the seeker in identifying and releasing those blocks. It's a process that requires immense trust, vulnerability, and surrender on the part of the seeker. Gradually, the heavy veils of past wounds and fears begin to lift, revealing the luminous essence that resides within.

This transformation is not without its challenges.

The process of confronting and releasing deep-seated traumas can be both terrifying and liberating. The mentor stands steadfast beside the seeker, offering support and guidance, yet allowing the seeker the space to navigate their own inner landscape. It's a delicate balance between providing light for the path and not overshadowing the seeker's own light. Forgetfulness and the Ego's Emergence often create speedbumps….As the seeker begins to step into their power, a strange forgetfulness can set in. The origins of their transformation, the mentor who stood by them through their darkest nights, can become a distant memory. This forgetfulness is often a manifestation of the ego reasserting itself. The ego, fearful of its own dissolution, clings to narratives of self-made success and individual triumph. In this phase, the seeker may begin to view the mentor through a lens tainted by ego. The humility and gratitude that once marked their relationship can give way to arrogance and entitlement. The mentor, who has poured their heart and soul into aiding another, may find themselves marginalized, their contributions forgotten or minimized.

The Mentor's Plight:

For the mentor, this can be a deeply painful experience. To give so freely of oneself, to stand in the role of a healer and guide, only to be cast aside or treated with disdain, is a harsh reality that many spiritual guides face. It's a test of their own evolution, a call to practice unconditional love and detachment even in the face of ingratitude. The mentor's journey is one of quiet strength and profound resilience. They understand that their role is not to be forever remembered or lauded but to serve as a catalyst for change. The true reward lies not in recognition but in witnessing the transformation of another soul, even if that soul forgets the hands that helped mold it. The tough part for the Mentor? That sometimes they have to allow the student to implode and journey out on their own, trusting that the energetic field they ( the Mentor) have developed will be strong enough to guide the student from the unwanted lower frequencies to the constantly improving vibratory channels from afar without the students knowledge via the astral plane.

Conclusion: The Cycle Continues

This tale of forgetfulness along the journey to enlightenment is not just a story of a mentor and their student; it's a reflection of the human condition. We are all, at various points in our lives, seekers, mentors, and forgetful beings, caught up in the ego's dance. The path to enlightenment is fraught with challenges, not least of which is maintaining humility, gratitude, and compassion in the face of forgetfulness and ego. Yet, it's this very journey—with all its trials and triumphs—that holds the potential for our greatest growth. As we navigate our paths, let us strive to remember those who light our way and to honor the sacredness of the mentor-student relationship. For in the end, we are all walking each other home, guided by the invisible threads of connection that weave through our lives, reminding us that we are never truly alone in our quest for enlightenment.

Brian ☯️

The Circle of Karma: Understanding the Personal Consequences of Treating People Badly

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Karma, a concept rooted in various Eastern philosophies,

is the belief that our actions have consequences that ripple through time and space. It suggests that both good and bad deeds will eventually return to the individual, shaping their lives in meaningful ways. In this blog post, we will delve into the concept of karma and explore the implications of treating people badly. We'll discuss the science behind karma, the role of empathy, and ways to break the cycle of negativity. So, let's embark on this journey of understanding and self-reflection.

The Science Behind Karma

While the idea of karma can be seen as a spiritual or philosophical concept, it also finds support in the field of psychology. Research has shown that our actions can create a ripple effect, influencing not just the person we interact with, but also their social network. This phenomenon, known as 'emotional contagion,' demonstrates that both positive and negative emotions can spread like a virus.

Treating someone poorly can lead to increased stress and anxiety, which can, in turn, affect their interactions with others. This chain reaction perpetuates negative energy, eventually returning to the person who initiated the harmful behavior. This cycle of negativity is not only detrimental to our emotional well-being but can also manifest in physical ailments and reduced life satisfaction.

Empathy: The Key to Breaking the Cycle

Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, is crucial in breaking the cycle of negativity. By putting ourselves in another person's shoes, we can recognize the consequences of our actions and better understand the impact of our behavior.

Empathy helps us to connect with others on a deeper level, fostering positive relationships and promoting a sense of belonging. As we become more empathetic, we are more likely to treat others with kindness and compassion, further spreading positive energy and contributing to the collective well-being of our communities.

How to Cultivate Empathy and Positive Karma

1. Practice active listening: Give your undivided attention to the person speaking, allowing them to express their thoughts and feelings without interruption. This simple act can create a strong connection and encourage an open, honest conversation.

2. Develop emotional intelligence: Work on understanding and managing your own emotions to better navigate interpersonal relationships. Emotional intelligence plays a significant role in building empathy and fostering healthy communication.

3. Engage in acts of kindness: Small acts of kindness can have a profound impact on others and contribute to a positive, supportive environment. Simple gestures like offering a helping hand, lending an ear, or sharing a smile can create a ripple effect of positivity.

4. Reflect on your actions: Regularly take the time to evaluate your behavior and its impact on others. This self-reflection can help you identify areas for improvement and encourage personal growth.

5. Learn from your mistakes: Acknowledge your shortcomings and view them as opportunities for growth. By learning from our mistakes, we can make conscious efforts to change our behavior and create positive outcomes in the future.

The concept of karma serves as a reminder that our actions have far-reaching consequences.

Treating people badly not only harms the individuals directly involved but can also create a domino effect of negativity that permeates our social networks. By cultivating empathy and actively working towards personal growth, we can break the cycle of negativity and contribute to a more harmonious, compassionate world.

Ultimately, the circle of karma encourages us to take responsibility for our actions and strive to be the best version of ourselves.

Clean it up here

Helena and Brian

Patterns: the Building Blocks of the World Around Us

Patterns are everywhere in the world around us, from the stripes on a zebra to the stars in the sky.

They are an essential aspect of human perception and understanding, providing a way to organize and make sense of the complexity of the world. In this article, we will explore what patterns are, why they matter, and how they can be used in various fields.

What are patterns?

A pattern can be defined as a repeated design or sequence that is recognizable or predictable. Patterns can be found in many forms, such as visual patterns, sound patterns, behavioral patterns, or mathematical patterns. They are often used in art, design, mathematics, science, and many other fields to create order and meaning.

One of the most common forms of patterns is visual patterns, which can be found in nature, art, and many other aspects of human life. For example, the spirals in a seashell or the veins in a leaf are visual patterns that occur in the natural world. In art, patterns are often used to create visual interest and can be found in a wide range of media, such as textiles, ceramics, and painting.

Why do patterns matter?

Patterns are important because they help us make sense of the world around us. They allow us to organize and categorize information, which can help us identify and understand complex relationships. For example, patterns in mathematical sequences or equations can help scientists and mathematicians understand and predict the behavior of physical phenomena.

In addition, patterns can be used as a powerful tool for communication. Visual patterns, for example, can convey information and meaning without the use of words. In some cultures, patterns are used to represent ideas, beliefs, or cultural traditions. For example, traditional patterns in African textiles often have specific meanings and represent important cultural values.

How are patterns used in various fields?

Patterns are used in many different fields, from mathematics and science to art and design. In mathematics, patterns are used to identify and understand relationships between numbers or other mathematical concepts. In science, patterns are often used to identify trends in data or to predict the behavior of complex systems.

In art and design, patterns are often used as a way to create visual interest and to convey meaning. Patterns can be found in many different media, from textiles and ceramics to painting and graphic design. In architecture, patterns are used to create visual interest and to enhance the aesthetic appeal of buildings.

Conclusion

Patterns are an essential aspect of human perception and understanding, providing a way to organize and make sense of the complexity of the world. They can be found in many forms, such as visual patterns, sound patterns, behavioral patterns, or mathematical patterns, and are used in various fields, such as mathematics, science, art, and design. By understanding patterns, we can gain a deeper understanding of the world around us and appreciate the beauty and complexity of the universe.

Helena and Brian

You add or subtract

So , what exactly is all this “inner peace” shit all about and how can the world be changed by someone who decides to look within with Life in Synergy® wellness programs you say?

Well, lets start off with the concept of waking up to see that all this mumbo jumbo spiritual stuff is indeed real and not the bill of goods that has been tainted by countless years of abuse by religion, false gurus, online “spiritual teacher” marketers, cult like practices and for some reason, anyone who wears yoga pants 24/7and calls themselves “ a spiritual teacher” because they are flexible.

Now if I sound like a bitter old bastard, I am not.

What I am saying is from a lifetime of professional experience and co owning 2 highly successful wellness studios in Boston for decades. If you have cured the blind, changed the energy of infertile women to allow them to have children, ended lifelong migraines in a single session, cured life long chronic back pain in a single setting, altered the course of countless lives by only using my connection to the cosmic mind and energy field, then you can tell me to clam up, if not, then clam up and read on because I am speaking the absolute frigging truth to you.

You are a broadcast tower that sends out the signal of who you are and affects the zone you are in. To coin a phrase I said to a very well know musician client that I helped years ago with a variety of issues, whom later used my teachings in a song that he wrote “ You are one with everything, theres no where to run”.

My wife and I live in Massachusetts and as I write this blog , a story was just released saying that Massachusetts is the best place to live. In fact, Massachusetts was named the best state in the U.S. to raise a family, read here. The town we live in was also voted the safest town to live in the entire country 2x. Now is this because of us and our practices? Ab-so-friggin-lutely.

Imagine states ( or countries) where there is ongoing turmoil like earthquakes, destruction, violence, racism, deception, sexism, jealousy, greed, lies, theft, etc? Well that is because the vibe needs to be ascended in areas like that and that in many ways they are stuck in a vortex of timeless repetition by the blind leading the blind. We are energy contained in a human form and leave an imprint wherever we go and if a person is full of shit, a liar, thief, etc…then that energy will stack up upon the layers of the like and well, turmoil will be the outcome. If however, you work on yourself and your deeper understanding of “it” all, then your vibe alters ALL that is around you and yup, you then live in the best state in the country and the safest town in the country. But if you are a liar you have a liar vibe, thief? thief vibe, good person? good vibe, truth bringer? truth vibe….get it ?

Do I sound pompous?

Why?

Because I am telling you the truth?

Should I deny all that my wife and I have done as a team to change lives and the world? Fuck that!…we are awesome and you should be learning from us vs being led off a universal cliff. Remember: “You are one with everything, theres no where to run” So study with us and discover secrets NOW….as life is short.

Brian Collins THE one and only Rabid Monk

Never again, again ( and again and again)

“Linda’s performance was unexpectedly sultry and funky, which might have been why the panel hadn’t guessed that t

his was the 63-year-old artist formerly known as Regan MacNeil.”

Now unless you are Dorian Gray,

you are aging at this very moment.

Society allows replays of old energies ( which include accepted judgments) and deems certain topics bad and others usable in conversations. Now we do not watch regularly television and haven't done so for years, but we do know of many shows that the public watches. The Masked Singer is one of them. Re-read the above critic quote from a recent episode with Linda Blair and ask yourself if it doesn’t exude agism and judgments.

Why can't a 63-year-old be sultry and funky? Is Chaka Khan either? How about Gladys Night? They seem to cover both categories quite well...

Is Cher sultry?

Angelica Huston?

Helen Mirren?

Angela Basset?

Society imprints categorical controls on the psyche and places a stamp of relevance on the said topic based on what exactly?

What group of people decides when a person is no longer a valid part of the world based on age or a younger person’s perceived attraction? Racism, sexism, ageism, baldism, heightism, fashionism....the list can go on and on and will until statements like the one above that are accepted are things of the past. You cannot have a balance on earth if the scales are tipped by "accepted" outdated schools of thought. Time ticks daily and we are all getting older despite creams, surgery, drugs ( medical or recreational), and denial.

Do you know what sultry is?

An “old person” who has lived a life of passion and discovery is one that can teach you about the triumphs of ascension and missteps of aging and how to live a long life...hopefully a sultry and funky one.

Do you want to know yourself and help diffuse collective judgments and help to diffuse collective thought stagnations?

Then take action! Study with us ( Hey we are old and getting older by the minute so we must know our stuff!)

and discover some amazing secrets, the more the merrier(world)!

Helena and Brian

www.lifeinsynergy.com