The Thrill of the Fight Versus the Peace of the Light: Unraveling Our Entertainment Dichotomy

In the vast expanse of the human experience, where emotions ebb and flow like the tides, there lies a peculiar dichotomy in our tastes for entertainment.

It's a phenomenon as old as time, yet as fresh as the morning dew: our collective inclination towards violence in entertainment and the subdued enthusiasm for narratives steeped in positivity. It's as if our psyches are finely tuned instruments, resonating more intensely with the clash of swords than the harmony of peace. Why, my friend, do we find ourselves drawn to the shadows more than the light? Is it the conditioning of the human mind, or is there more to this tale?

Throughout history, the human experience has been a testament to survival, conflict, and overcoming adversity. Our ancestors faced the harsh realities of life, where survival often meant combat, either with the elements, wild beasts, or fellow humans. These tales of survival and victory have been etched into our collective consciousness, passed down through generations, becoming the epics we celebrate and the stories we tell around campfires and in darkened movie theaters. This legacy of struggle has shaped our perception of what is exciting and engaging, resonating with the primal parts of our brains that thrill to the adrenaline of conflict and resolution.

However, there's a quieter, yet equally profound, narrative that often goes unnoticed – the power of positivity, love, and peace.

These themes, though they may not quicken the pulse in the same way, hold the key to a different kind of engagement: one that soothes, heals, and uplifts. Yet, the branding of such content as "boring" by mainstream narratives is a reflection of our conditioned response to stimuli. It's as if the mind has been trained to crave the rush of adrenaline over the gentle embrace of serenity, equating excitement with action and mistaking tranquility for the absence of engagement.

But why does this preference exist?

Is it merely the echo of our survival instincts, or is there something deeper at play?

Could it be that the modern world, with its constant bombardment of stimuli, has warped our ability to appreciate the subtleties of peace and positivity? In a society where speed and intensity are often markers of worth, the slow burn of a positive message may seem lackluster in comparison. Yet, this is where the true challenge lies – not in seeking thrills for the sake of excitement but in finding joy and engagement in the quiet moments, in the narratives that build us up and bring us together. The transformation begins with awareness. By recognizing our conditioned responses to entertainment, we can start to explore the vast landscapes of stories that nourish rather than deplete. This doesn't mean abandoning the thrill of a good action-packed narrative but rather expanding our horizons to include those that also enrich the soul.

As we journey through this life, seeking to better ourselves and the world around us, let us not forget the power of the stories we consume. Let us champion narratives that inspire, that challenge us to grow, and that remind us of the beauty in the quiet as much as in the chaos. After all, it is in the balance of light and shadow that the full spectrum of human experience is revealed. So, seekers, the next time you choose your entertainment, ask yourself: does this feed my soul as well as my sense of excitement?

In the quest for balance, may we all find that the most thrilling stories are not those of conflict and strife, but those that illuminate the strength of the human spirit, the power of love, and the enduring quest for peace.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

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The Art of Spiritual Introspection: Navigating the Inner Landscape

In the bustling rhythm of our daily lives, it's easy to lose touch with the quiet, introspective space within us.

Spiritual introspection is not merely a practice but an art form that allows us to navigate the vast landscape of our inner selves. It's a journey inward, a pilgrimage to the core of our being, where we confront and embrace our deepest thoughts, emotions, and desires. This journey often includes silence. In silence, we find the space to listen—to truly listen—to the whisperings of our soul. This is where meditation becomes a key tool, serving as the gateway to introspection. By quieting the mind, we can tune into the subtleties of our inner dialogue, observing without judgment.

This path is not without its challenges.

Spiritual introspection requires us to face our shadows—those aspects of ourselves we often avoid. This confrontation is not about self-criticism but about acknowledging our imperfections with compassion and understanding. It's through recognizing our shadows that we can light the way to growth and healing.True introspection is an ongoing practice of self-reflection. It asks us to regularly examine our thoughts, beliefs, and actions, assessing their alignment with our highest values and aspirations. This reflective practice is not an act of narcissism but a courageous act of self-assessment and honesty.

Ultimately, spiritual introspection is about coming home to ourselves.

It's about stripping away the external noise and distractions to reveal our true essence. This journey requires patience, courage, and an open heart, but it rewards us with a deeper understanding of who we are and our place in the universe. As we navigate this inner landscape, we uncover a well of wisdom, peace, and inner strength that guides us through life's myriad challenges. Throughout the varied stages of one’s life, time may shake away “friends” or acquaintances that no longer share a unified frequency and once trusted unions become points of reflection in time where an person will question years spent with “x” individuals that when reflected upon, always seemed to be mismatched but were enveloped in the tsunami experience of life and its is series of worldwind events in the moment.

With each passing heartbeat or tick of a clock, we all grow older and wiser, how we choose to view each beat or tick that passes is the key to our ascension and that is introspection. Life in Synergy® style.

Helena and Brian Collins

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The Spiritual Power of "Oh Well": Embracing Life's Steamroller Moments

Have you ever felt like life was a steamroller, and you were just a piece of old chewing gum stuck on the road, about to be flattened into oblivion?

Congratulations, my friend, you’ve unlocked a level of existence Brian and I like to call "The Oh Well Zone." It’s a special stage of spiritual enlightenment that involves a lot of shrugging, sighing, and the occasional uncontrollable laughter at your own place in the cosmos. Your initiation to this uber-chic club begins the first time you miss your bus because a particularly intriguing pigeon decided to perform an interpretive dance in front of you. Instead of the usual frustration, a chuckle bubbles up from within. That's the universe's way of saying, "Welcome, weary traveler, to the path of Oh Well."

The phrase "Oh Well" isn't just two words; it's a mantra, a mystical incantation that holds the power to dissolve worries, fears, and on particularly good days, parking tickets. When life decides to serve you a sandwich you didn’t order, with ingredients you don’t like, in a restaurant you never wanted to visit, the power of "Oh Well" transforms it into an unexpected picnic. Picture life as a steamroller, not just any steamroller, but one driven by a universe that has a quirky sense of humor and an affinity for plot twists. You're not the victim here; you're the star of a cosmic comedy. The steamroller isn’t out to get you; it’s merely rolling out (flattening) the red carpet for your next adventure.

How to Embrace the Steamroller:

1. Wear Your Best Outfit: Metaphorically speaking, dress your soul in resilience and humor. When life's steamroller comes around, you’ll look fabulous, even in pancake form.

2. Roll With It: When the steamroller of life is about to hit, do a barrel roll. Adaptability is your best friend in these situations. It’s less about avoiding the crush and more about how gracefully you can get back up.

3. Become the Steamroller: In a surprising plot twist, realize you have the power to be your own steamroller. Flatten out the bumps in your path with the sheer force of your "Oh Well" attitude.

The Secret Ingredient in the enlightenment sauce: Laughter

The spiritual journey of embracing life’s steamroller is incomplete without laughter. It’s the secret sauce, the cherry on top, the...well, ya ya ya you get the picture. When you find yourself laughing in the face of adversity, you’ve truly mastered the art of "Oh Well." In the grand tapestry of the universe, we’re all just threads, occasionally getting tangled, sometimes knotted, but always part of a larger, beautiful picture. The next time life feels like it’s steamrolling over you, just whisper "Oh Well," laugh, and remind yourself that this, too, is part of the journey. After all, enlightenment doesn’t always come from meditation and mantras; sometimes, it arrives with a steamroller and a sense of humor. Remember, my friend, in the grand scheme of things, we’re all just learning to dance under the steamroller’s disco ball.

So, let’s keep twirling, laughing, and occasionally, flat-lining, but always getting back up with a smile and a hearty, "Oh Well."

Helena Collins- Boston

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21st Century Sages Helena and Brian Collins: Voices Echoing in the Wilderness of Modern Distraction

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In the fast-paced whirlwind of the 21st century, amidst the constant hum of digital notifications and the relentless pursuit of material success,

a couple of enlightened individuals— modern-day sages—are striving to impart ancient wisdom and guide humanity toward a more spiritually fulfilling existence. Yet, it often feels as though these voices of reason and depth are screaming into a void, attempting to reach a world that seems collectively to have its fingers in its ears, listening to music, with eyes firmly shut, while driving headlong into the future.

These contemporary sages walk among us, often unnoticed, their messages of peace, interconnectedness, and personal growth mingling with the cacophony of daily life yet seldom taking root. They speak of the importance of mindfulness, of living in the moment, of understanding our place in the universe and the interconnectedness of all beings. They urge us to look within, to confront our shadows, and to embark on the journey of self-improvement and spiritual awakening. Their words, steeped in centuries of metaphysical thought and spiritual practice, offer a beacon of light in what often feels like an increasingly dark world.

But why does it seem like their messages fall on deaf ears?

The answer, perhaps, lies in the very nature of our contemporary lifestyle. Our society prizes distraction over reflection, immediate gratification over long-term fulfillment, and noise over silence. We are conditioned to keep moving, to keep consuming, to keep seeking external validation, leaving little room for introspection or the cultivation of a rich inner life. In such an environment, Helena and Brian Collins call to slow down, to listen, and to connect with something greater than ourselves can seem not just counterintuitive but downright alien. Furthermore, the digital age, for all its wonders, has fragmented our attention spans and altered the way we consume information. Wisdom that requires contemplation and personal effort to unravel does not easily fit into tweet-sized nuggets or the instant gratification model of social media. The profound, transformative messages of sages like Helena and Brian Collins require time and patience to digest, a stark contrast to the fast-food information diet to which so many of us have grown accustomed.

Yet, it is precisely in these challenging conditions that Helena and Brian Collins’ messages become even more vital. The very act of striving to hear, understand, and implement their teachings is itself a form of rebellion against the shallowness of modern life. It is an affirmation that we are more than our productivity, more than our social media profiles, and more than just consumers in an endless cycle of consumption. By seeking to connect with their timeless teachings, we acknowledge our potential for growth, our yearning for meaning, and our part in the vast, intricate tapestry of existence.

The road to hearing and heeding the sages' call can be an easy one however.

It simply requires us to focus our devices on their teachings for a bit, silence the external noise, and to venture inward, where the real work of personal transformation begins. It asks us to be brave, to face our inner demons, and to commit to a path of growth that can be as demanding as it is rewarding. Yet, those who choose to embark on this journey often find themselves richly rewarded with a sense of peace, purpose, and a deep connection to the world around them.

In the end, Helena and Brian Collins the 21st-century sages of Life in Synergy® do not scream into the void without hope. For every person who chooses to listen, to open their eyes, and to engage with their teachings, the void becomes a little less empty. Each individual awakening sparks a potential chain reaction, a spreading of light that can, in time, illuminate the darkness. Our modern sages know this, and so they continue to speak, to guide, and to inspire, trusting that their words will find fertile ground in the hearts of those ready to listen.

In a world teetering on the brink of ecological, social, and spiritual crises, the voices of these sages are more important than ever. It is up to us, the listeners, to choose whether we will heed their call. Will we continue to race blindly into the future, or will we pause, reflect, and choose a path that leads not just to personal fulfillment but to the healing of our world? The answer lies within each of us, waiting to be discovered in the silence that follows the Helena and Brian Collins echo.

The Cosmic Comedy: How We Excel at Complaining More Than Creating

Hello, our cosmic companions on this wildly spinning globe we call Earth!

You know, we have been pondering (in between bouts of laughter and facepalming, of course) about an interesting phenomenon that seems as common as the cold but far more entertaining. It's about our fantastic human capacity to whine, moan, and excel in the fine art of complaining about the world's problems while sitting on our celestial behinds doing, well, absolutely nothing about it.

Imagine this: A typical Monday morning in the universe.

The sun peeks out, radiating optimism and the promise of a new day. Meanwhile, on Earth, Mr. and Mrs. Couch Potato are nestled in their favorite crater-like indentations on the sofa, sipping on what could only be described as the tears of forgotten dreams (or maybe just slightly burnt coffee or flat diet soda). Mr. Couch Potato sighs deeply, a sound that echoes the collective despair of humanity, "The world's just going to the dogs, isn't it? Pollution, poverty, politics... it's all just a mess."Mrs. Couch Potato nods solemnly, adding, "Yes, and don't forget about the aliens. I haven't seen a single one help with one thing yet. You'd think with all that advanced technology, they'd at least invent an AI rep or something."They both nod in agreement, the weight of the world's problems resting on their shoulders as heavily as their reluctance to get up and actually do something about it.

Now, don't get us wrong. I'm not saying we need to don superhero capes and single-handedly save the world before breakfast (though if you're into that, who am I to stop you?). But isn't it hilariously ironic how we humans have the audacity to complain about the state of the planet while contributing to the very essence of couch-potato-ism?

It's as if we're waiting for a sign, perhaps a billboard from the cosmos, saying: "Dear Earthlings, please start caring. Love, The Universe (P.S. This message was sponsored by the Intergalactic Council for Planetary Improvement)." But here's the kicker, my dear friends: the universe is constantly giving us signs. Every sunrise is a reminder that we have a new day to make a difference. Every breath is a nudge to appreciate life and contribute positively to our world. And yet, here we are, mastering the art of apathy with the dedication of a monk in deep meditation.

So, what's the solution?

Well, for starters, we could try to find a balance between being informed about the world's issues and not letting them overwhelm us into inaction. Perhaps, instead of binge-watching the latest series about dystopian futures, we could spend a fraction of that time learning a new skill, volunteering, or simply being kind to those around us. Imagine if, instead of lamenting about the lack of change, we become the change. The thought is as exhilarating as discovering that your phone has been on airplane mode after wondering for hours why no one's texting you.

So seeker of all things peace, chicken grease and ambient cosmic coolness: let's not forget to laugh at ourselves, especially at our quirks and contradictions. After all, life on Earth is too short and too precious to spend it in a state of passive complaint. So, here's to us, the wonderfully weird inhabitants of this planet, embarking on a journey of less moaning and more doing or we can all just binge, complain and wait for the next world changing global flood to see if those YMCA swimming lessons in our youth were worth it.

Helena ( National swimming champ) and Brian (Whose parents filled up trashcan with water from a hose and had him sit in it in the hot inner city summers for a swimming pool in his youth) Collins-Boston

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The Multiverse Within: Exploring the Synergy of Life

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The concept of the multiverse proposes the existence of parallel universes, each distinct yet intertwined with the fabric of reality.

But what if the true multiverse lies not in the cosmos but within us?

This idea isn't just a foray into speculative fiction; it's a profound exploration of the human spirit and the potentialities that reside within our consciousness. Within each of us is a universe of thoughts, emotions, and spiritual energy, teeming with possibilities and realities that defy the constraints of our physical world. The key to unlocking these inner dimensions lies in achieving a state of synergy—a harmonious balance that resonates with the universe's fundamental energies.

Achieving this inner synergy isn't a solitary journey. It involves connecting with the world around us, understanding the nature of our internal energies, and harnessing the wisdom of those who have navigated this path before us. The Programs and the teachings of Helena Collins offer a roadmap to this inner multiverse. Through her guidance, we learn to align our thoughts, emotions, and spirit in a way that transcends the ordinary, opening doorways to new realities within ourselves.

This exploration of the inner multiverse is not just an exercise in self-improvement; it's a transformative journey that can lead to profound insights into the nature of existence. As we delve deeper into our inner selves, we discover that the boundaries between us and the universe blur, revealing a symphony of life where everything is connected in a delicate dance of energy and consciousness.

By embracing the possibility of the multiverse within, we unlock the potential to live in harmony with the cosmos, creating a synergy that elevates our existence to new dimensions of being. It's a journey that challenges us to rethink our place in the universe, not as mere observers but as integral components of a grand, interconnected tapestry of life. These Life in Synergy blogs aim to weave the rich tapestry of metaphysical exploration with practical no BS tools for self-improvement that have actually changed countless lives for decades, offering a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of existence.

Through the synergy of ideas and the guidance of Helena Collins innovative programs, we embark on a journey of inner discovery that not only transforms ourselves but also the world around us. No big deal right? It is time to ascend and become ascension….the world is counting on like minded individuals to get of the hamster wheel and take charge of the course of our world.

The Echoes of Our Inner Selves: Nature's Reflection of Internal Energy

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In the tapestry of life, each thread weaves through patterns of chaos and harmony, creating a picture that's both complex and beautifully simple.

At the heart of this paradox lies a profound truth: the world around us, in all its natural splendor, mirrors the tumultuous and serene energies that swirl within us. This concept isn't just poetic musings; it's a perspective that offers insights into how we interact with the universe and, more importantly, with ourselves.

Nature, in its infinite wisdom, acts as a mirror to our soul's energy. The calm before a storm may reflect our internal peace before an upheaval, while the wild, untamed rivers mirror our own passions and desires running their course. This is not to say that we control the weather or the tides, but rather, our interaction with these elements can resonate with the vibrations of our inner selves. It's a symbiotic relationship where nature responds to the frequencies we emit, and we, in turn, find our reflections in its reactions. It takes a deep understanding of self to see the actualization of the concept “we are one with everything” in real time and only through dedication to the self ( and a gifted teacher) can a person break free from the chains that bind them to discover untapped levels of self and become the energy of change the world seeks.

Understanding this connection encourages us to delve deeper into self-exploration and mindfulness.

As we navigate our journey, mind based tools developed by thought leaders in the realm of self-improvement, offer pathways to better understand and harness our internal energies. These programs, alongside insights from wellness luminaries like Helena Collins, provide a framework for aligning our inner vibrations with the natural world, fostering a sense of harmony and balance.

The reflection of our inner selves in nature's canvas teaches us the importance of being in tune with our emotions and thoughts. Just as a calm lake mirrors the sky above, a tranquil mind reflects a clear perspective on life. By embracing the wisdom of nature and the guidance of groundbreaking self-improvement methodologies, we embark on a transformative journey towards self-awareness and enlightenment.

While today’s blog may be short and sweet so you may want to re-read it and ponder some of the deep knowledge hidden within the words then take action…..

Embracing the Emperor’s New Clothes: A Synergistic Journey Through Spiritual Practices

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In the heart of every spiritual seeker lies the unwavering quest for understanding and enlightenment.

 Like the tale of the Emperor's New Clothes, where the truth was masked by the collective denial of the obvious, our spiritual journeys can sometimes be clouded by our deep-seated beliefs and practices. It’s easy to become so entangled in the intricacies of our chosen paths that we might miss the forest for the trees. But what if taking a step back, and perhaps veering off the beaten path, could illuminate our understanding and deepen our connection to the universe?

The Emperor's New Clothes: A Modern Spiritual Parable

The story of the Emperor's New Clothes, in its essence, is a call to see things as they truly are.

In our spiritual journeys, this translates to the courage to question and the openness to see beyond the conventional. Sometimes, the very concepts and practices we cling to, thinking they clothe us in spiritual wisdom, might actually be invisible threads woven from our reluctance to explore beyond the familiar. Just as the child in the tale bravely points out the Emperor's oversight, taking a step back to explore new spiritual concepts can be an act of bravery. It involves questioning what we believe to be irrefutably true about our spiritual practices. By daring to explore, we’re not discarding our beliefs but expanding our spiritual wardrobe with an eclectic mix of wisdom from various traditions. This synergy of exploration enriches our understanding and helps us see our original path in a new light.

New Threads of Thought to wear

Imagine for a moment weaving new threads of thought into your spiritual fabric.

Each thread represents a concept or practice from a spiritual tradition outside your own. As you weave these threads, you create a richer, more vibrant tapestry. This doesn’t mean losing the essence of what you believe but enhancing it with broader insights and perspectives. Taking a step back invites you to stand before the mirror of reflection. It’s in this space that you can objectively view the tapestry of your beliefs. From this vantage point, you might discover patterns and colors (beliefs and practices) that no longer serve you. Equally, you might find that integrating new threads brings out the beauty of the ones that have always been part of your spiritual garment. The most beautiful aspect of taking a detour is the journey back home - to your original spiritual practice or concept. With fresh eyes and a heart enriched by diverse spiritual insights, you return not as the same person but as someone who sees the deeper truth in their beliefs. The practices that once seemed like the ultimate truth now unfold with greater depth and meaning.

Embrace Your Spiritual Synergy

So, dear seekers of all that is etheric, I encourage you to embrace the Emperor’s New Clothes mentality as a metaphor for your spiritual growth.

Let it remind you of the value in stepping back, exploring the vastness of spiritual wisdom the world has to offer, and weaving those insights into your practice. This journey of exploration and integration doesn’t detract from your spiritual essence; it enhances it, offering a fuller, more vibrant tapestry of understanding and connection. As we navigate our spiritual paths, let us do so with the courage to explore, the wisdom to integrate, and the vision to see our beliefs in a new and illuminating light. After all, the richest spiritual wardrobe is one that is ever-evolving, ever-expanding, and woven with the threads of universal truth.

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The Power of "No"-ing: Embracing Your No- Energy field.

In a world that constantly pushes us towards the "yes" – yes to more work, yes to social expectations, and yes to endless commitments – discovering the power of "no" can be a transformative journey.

"No" is not just a word; it's a complete sentence, a declaration of sovereignty over your own life. It's about stepping into a state of "no-state" energy, where you give yourself permission to honor your limits, listen deeply to your intuition, and choose paths that align with your highest good.

Understanding No-State Energy

No-state energy is about being in alignment with your true self. It's a state where you're not swayed by the external pressures to conform or please. Instead, you're guided by an inner knowing, a compass that directs you towards choices that resonate with your soul's purpose. When you embody no-state energy, you're in a space of clarity and discernment. You can see beyond the immediate allure of opportunities and invitations, sensing deeply whether they serve your highest interests and spiritual growth.

The Benefits of Being in a No-State

1. Clearer Boundaries: Learning to use "no" power helps you establish healthy energetic boundaries, safeguarding your energy and emotional well-being. It's about respecting yourself enough to decline what doesn't serve you.

2. Deeper Self-Knowledge: Each "no" is an opportunity to understand your desires, fears, and values more deeply. It's a practice in self-reflection and honesty.

3. Increased Presence and Mindfulness: Being selective about your commitments allows you to be more present and engaged with the activities and relationships that truly matter to you.

4. Empowerment: Saying "no" is an act of empowerment. It reaffirms your ability to make choices and take control of your life's direction.

How to Stay in a State of "No-ing"

1. Listen to Your Intuition: Your intuition is a powerful guide. If something feels off, it probably is. Trust that inner voice.

2. Practice Mindfulness with the Apex Life in Synergy program: Stay connected with your feelings and emotions. Mindfulness helps you recognize when you're overextending yourself.

3. Communicate Clearly and Kindly: You can say "no" with kindness and respect, leaving no room for guilt or misunderstanding.

4. Reflect on Your Values: Regularly revisit your values and priorities. They will help you discern which opportunities align with your path.

5. Embrace Discomfort: Saying "no" can be uncomfortable, especially at first. Recognize that discomfort is part of growth.

Living in a state of "no" is not about negativity or closing yourself off to the world. It's about making intentional choices, honoring your energy, and aligning with your spiritual journey. In the power of "no", there's profound freedom and authenticity. By embracing your no-state energy, you create space for what truly enriches and advances your soul's evolution.

Helena Collins

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The Curious Power of Blame and the Oxymoron Behavior It Unleashes

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Let's talk about the world's favorite pastime.

No, not scrolling through social media for hours on end or trying to decipher the latest TikTok dance craze. I'm talking about the grand old sport of blame. Ah, blame – it’s like the glitter of emotions; once you open it up, good luck getting it out of... well, anything. But here's the kicker: blame, in its essence, is a fascinating display of oxymoron behavior. It's the yoga class of the psyche, bending us into emotional pretzels as we navigate the hilarious irony it often presents. First off, have you ever noticed how blame is the only game where everyone's playing, but somehow, nobody wins? It's like a perpetual game of hot potato, but instead of a potato, it's a flaming ball of "Not It!" The rules are simple: pass the blame as quickly as possible, and whatever you do, don’t get caught holding it when the music stops.

Why? Because accountability, my friends, is apparently lava.

The “It’s Not Me, It’s You” Phenomenon

Blame is the ultimate relationship tester, bringing out the oxymoron behavior in all of us. Picture this: two people arguing, each convinced of their righteousness, in a dazzling display of "It's not me, it's you." It’s the adult version of pointing fingers, but with more sophisticated vocabulary and, sometimes, passive aggression so thick you could cut it with a knife. And let's not forget the irony. Oh, the irony of shouting, “I’m not yelling!” at the top of your lungs, or the classic, “I’m calm! Can’t you see how calm I am?!” while resembling a teakettle about to whistle. It's the emotional equivalent of saying you're on a diet as you inhale the third slice of cake – delightful in its contradiction.

The Superpower of selective amnesia

Blame has this miraculous ability to grant us selective amnesia, particularly when it comes to our own faults. It’s a bit like those diet ads that promise you can eat anything you want and still lose weight. In the heat of a blame battle, our memories become as selective as a toddler choosing vegetables. “I never said that!” we proclaim, with the confidence of someone who has forgotten the existence of screenshots. It’s a superpower, really, the ability to edit our memories in real time to suit our narrative. Take note, Superhero flicks.

The big deep Moral of the Story

But here's the beauty of it all: in the absurdity of blame and the oxymoron behavior it inspires, there's a lesson to be learned. It's about taking a step back, laughing at ourselves, and realizing that maybe, just maybe, we're not always the hero of our own story. Sometimes, we're the comic relief, and that's perfectly okay. So, next time you find yourself in the blame game energy loop, take a moment. Laugh at the absurdity of it all. Because at the end of the day, life's too short to spend it in a game where the only prize is a bitter taste of self-righteousness. Let's choose joy, accountability, and a bit of self-deprecation instead. After all, a good laugh at our own expense is the best way to keep our egos in check and our hearts light. In the grand comedy of life, blame is just another scene. Play it well, play it with humor, and when in doubt, remember the wise words of the age-old saying: "If you can’t be a good example, then you’ll just have to be a hilarious warning."

Helena and Brian Collins

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