The Dance of Hidden Desires: Unveiling Our Inner Truth

…It's a defense mechanism, a way to navigate social interactions without exposing our authentic selves. We may agree when we disagree, feign interest, or even fabricate stories that align with perceived societal norms. This art of bullshitting, while it may offer temporary comfort or safety, distances us from our true essence…

When we discover a Life in Synergy®, the BS we hold inside as the only creator of reality is tossed and sent packing…

In the journey of self-improvement and spiritual growth, one of the most profound challenges we face is aligning our inner truths with the persona we present to the world.

It's a complex dance, often mired in the fear of vulnerability, where our deepest desires remain cloaked under a veil of alternative intentions. This discord between our inner truth and outward expressions can lead us down a path of emotional dissonance and, frankly, bullshitting the world – and ourselves. At the core of this issue lies the fear of vulnerability. Expressing our true desires and intentions can be daunting. We fear judgment, rejection, and misunderstanding. In a world that often values strength over emotional honesty, showing our true selves feels risky. This fear compels us to wear masks, to present a version of ourselves that we believe is more acceptable or appealing. When we choose to hide our true desires, we often resort to what can bluntly be called bullshitting. It's a defense mechanism, a way to navigate social interactions without exposing our authentic selves. We may agree when we disagree, feign interest, or even fabricate stories that align with perceived societal norms. This art of bullshitting, while it may offer temporary comfort or safety, distances us from our true essence.

The Consequences of this Inauthenticity

Living inauthentically has profound consequences. It not only hinders our personal growth but also affects the quality of our relationships. Connections built on half-truths and concealed desires lack depth and authenticity. They are like houses built on sand, vulnerable to the tides of change. Embracing our inner truth is a courageous act. It requires self-awareness, acceptance, and the willingness to be vulnerable. This journey isn't easy. It involves confronting fears, unlearning conditioned behaviors, and often, facing societal backlash. However, the freedom and authenticity it brings are transformative. In the realm of spiritual growth, aligning our inner truth with our outward expressions is paramount. It's about shedding layers of ego and societal conditioning, and bravely stepping into our authentic selves. This alignment is not just about honesty with the world, but honesty with ourselves. It's recognizing and embracing our desires, our fears, our strengths, and our weaknesses.

The path to revealing our true desires and intentions is a crucial part of our spiritual and personal development.

It's about breaking free from the chains of inauthenticity and embracing the vulnerability of our true selves. As we embark on this journey, we find that the most profound connections and growth come from a place of honesty and authenticity. Let's have the courage to stop bullshitting the world, and more importantly, ourselves. In doing so, we not only transform our own lives but also bring a deeper, more authentic connection to the world around us.



Care to find your TRUE self?


Helena and Brian

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Stay tuned, we changed formats on our new you tube channel and are currently compiling topics to be discussed on our soon to be, no bullshit, tell it as it spiritual and enlightenment channel for those who desire to not only live in this world, but create peace in it while they do so.


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Embracing the unknown

Life is full of mysteries, uncertainties, and unknowns. Sometimes, we find ourselves at the edge of our comfort zone, staring into the abyss of the unknown. Many people react to the unknown with fear and……

Embracing the Unknown: A Journey of Discovery and Growth

Life is full of mysteries, uncertainties, and unknowns. Sometimes, we find ourselves at the edge of our comfort zone, staring into the abyss of the unknown. Many people react to the unknown with fear and anxiety, choosing to stay within the familiarity of their comfort zones. However, embracing the unknown can be an empowering and transformative experience. In this blog, we will discuss the benefits of embracing the unknown, share some practical tips on how to do it, and inspire you to step out of your comfort zone and into the world of endless possibilities.

  1. The Benefits of Embracing the Unknown

The unknown can be an exciting, liberating, and enlightening experience. Here are a few benefits of embracing the unknown:

a. Personal Growth: Facing the unknown pushes you to develop new skills, overcome fears, and broaden your horizons. Every new experience can teach you valuable lessons about yourself and the world around you.

b. Creativity and Innovation: Embracing the unknown forces you to think outside the box, explore new ideas, and find creative solutions to problems. It's the driving force behind innovation and progress.

c. Building Resilience: Confronting the unknown and overcoming challenges makes you stronger, more adaptable, and better equipped to handle life's inevitable curveballs.

d. Finding Your Purpose: Venturing into the unknown can lead you to discover your passions, find your true calling, and build a more fulfilling life.

  1. Practical Tips for Embracing the Unknown

a. Cultivate a Growth Mindset: Embrace the idea that challenges and failures are opportunities for learning and growth. This mindset will help you approach the unknown with curiosity and a sense of adventure.

b. Take Small Steps: Start by stepping out of your comfort zone in small, manageable ways. Gradually push yourself to take on bigger and more unfamiliar challenges.

c. Practice Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness practices such as meditation, yoga, or journaling to stay present and aware of your emotions and thoughts as you face the unknown.

d. Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, or mentors who can provide encouragement and advice as you embark on your journey.

e. Be Patient and Kind to Yourself: Embracing the unknown is not an easy process, and it's essential to be patient and gentle with yourself as you navigate through challenges and setbacks.

  1. Inspirational Stories

Countless individuals throughout history have embraced the unknown and achieved greatness. Here are a few examples to inspire you:

a. J.K. Rowling: Before the success of Harry Potter, Rowling was a single mother living on welfare. She faced numerous rejections from publishers but persevered and eventually became one of the world's most successful authors.

b. Sir Edmund Hillary: Along with Tenzing Norgay, Hillary was the first person to reach the summit of Mount Everest. Despite facing extreme weather conditions and the unknown terrain, he persevered and made history.

c. Oprah Winfrey: Oprah faced numerous hardships in her early life, but she embraced the unknown and became a pioneering television host, entrepreneur, and philanthropist.

Conclusion

Embracing the unknown can be a thrilling and transformative journey. By stepping out of your comfort zone, facing your fears, and learning from your experiences, you can unlock your potential and create a life filled with growth, adventure, and fulfillment. So, take a deep breath, and venture into the unknown with curiosity and courage.

The possibilities are endless.

Helena and Brian

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Patterns: the Building Blocks of the World Around Us

By understanding patterns, we can gain a deeper understanding of the world around us and appreciate the beauty and complexity of the universe……


Patterns are everywhere in the world around us, from the stripes on a zebra to the stars in the sky.

They are an essential aspect of human perception and understanding, providing a way to organize and make sense of the complexity of the world. In this article, we will explore what patterns are, why they matter, and how they can be used in various fields.

What are patterns?

A pattern can be defined as a repeated design or sequence that is recognizable or predictable. Patterns can be found in many forms, such as visual patterns, sound patterns, behavioral patterns, or mathematical patterns. They are often used in art, design, mathematics, science, and many other fields to create order and meaning.

One of the most common forms of patterns is visual patterns, which can be found in nature, art, and many other aspects of human life. For example, the spirals in a seashell or the veins in a leaf are visual patterns that occur in the natural world. In art, patterns are often used to create visual interest and can be found in a wide range of media, such as textiles, ceramics, and painting.

Why do patterns matter?

Patterns are important because they help us make sense of the world around us. They allow us to organize and categorize information, which can help us identify and understand complex relationships. For example, patterns in mathematical sequences or equations can help scientists and mathematicians understand and predict the behavior of physical phenomena.

In addition, patterns can be used as a powerful tool for communication. Visual patterns, for example, can convey information and meaning without the use of words. In some cultures, patterns are used to represent ideas, beliefs, or cultural traditions. For example, traditional patterns in African textiles often have specific meanings and represent important cultural values.

How are patterns used in various fields?

Patterns are used in many different fields, from mathematics and science to art and design. In mathematics, patterns are used to identify and understand relationships between numbers or other mathematical concepts. In science, patterns are often used to identify trends in data or to predict the behavior of complex systems.

In art and design, patterns are often used as a way to create visual interest and to convey meaning. Patterns can be found in many different media, from textiles and ceramics to painting and graphic design. In architecture, patterns are used to create visual interest and to enhance the aesthetic appeal of buildings.

Conclusion

Patterns are an essential aspect of human perception and understanding, providing a way to organize and make sense of the complexity of the world. They can be found in many forms, such as visual patterns, sound patterns, behavioral patterns, or mathematical patterns, and are used in various fields, such as mathematics, science, art, and design. By understanding patterns, we can gain a deeper understanding of the world around us and appreciate the beauty and complexity of the universe.


Helena and Brian





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Breaking Free from Negative Patterns:

Negative patterns are behaviors or thought processes that can cause harm or distress to individuals or those around them.

These patterns can be difficult to break, as they are often deeply ingrained habits that have been reinforced over time. In this article, we will explore what negative patterns are, why they matter, and how they can be addressed…….

Understanding the Power of Habit

Negative patterns are behaviors or thought processes that can cause harm or distress to individuals or those around them.


These patterns can be difficult to break, as they are often deeply ingrained habits that have been reinforced over time. In this article, we will explore what negative patterns are, why they matter, and how they can be addressed.

What are negative patterns?

Negative patterns can take many forms, such as compulsive behaviors, negative self-talk, or destructive relationships. They can be caused by a variety of factors, such as trauma, stress, or negative self-image, and can lead to a range of negative outcomes, such as anxiety, depression, or substance abuse.

One of the key characteristics of negative patterns is that they tend to be repetitive and self-reinforcing. Once a pattern has been established, it can be difficult to break out of, as it can become a habit that is reinforced by a sense of familiarity or comfort.

Why do negative patterns matter?

Negative patterns can have a significant impact on an individual's life and can lead to a range of negative outcomes, such as mental health issues, relationship problems, or substance abuse. In addition, negative patterns can be self-perpetuating, leading to a cycle of negative thoughts and behaviors that can be difficult to break.

Moreover, negative patterns can have a ripple effect on those around us, affecting our relationships with family, friends, and coworkers. They can also have an impact on the wider community, as negative patterns can contribute to issues such as crime and social isolation.

How can negative patterns be addressed?

Breaking negative patterns can be a challenging process, but it is possible with the right approach. The first step is to identify the negative pattern and the underlying factors that contribute to it. This may involve seeking support from a mental health professional, such as a therapist or counselor, or engaging in self-reflection and journaling.

Once the pattern and underlying factors have been identified, the next step is to develop a plan for breaking the pattern. This may involve developing new habits or coping strategies that can help to counteract the negative pattern. For example, if the negative pattern involves substance abuse, a plan may involve seeking support from a substance abuse treatment program, developing healthy coping strategies, and building a strong support network.

Finally, breaking negative patterns requires persistence and patience. It can take time to break a deeply ingrained habit, and setbacks may occur along the way. However, with a strong support network and a commitment to change, it is possible to break negative patterns and move towards a more positive and fulfilling life.

Conclusion

Negative patterns can be difficult to break, but they are not insurmountable. By understanding the power of habit and the impact of negative patterns, individuals can develop strategies for breaking free from these patterns and moving towards a more positive and fulfilling life. Whether seeking support from a mental health professional, engaging in self-reflection, or developing healthy coping strategies, breaking negative patterns is a journey that can lead to growth, healing, and a better quality of life.


Let me show you how to break your patterns..

Helena




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Well, ain’t that a bitch! (Says residents of Atlantis)

Imagine if then we are watching history repeat itself while saying “Wow it looks like history is repeating itself!” …..

Imagine if all the old legends were true?

Imagine if then we are watching history repeat itself while saying “Wow it looks like history is repeating itself!”

A global flood that changes the topography of the entire planet? Meteors that crash down and reset the world ( Hmmm, see recent NASA probe mission)…now mind you I am not even touching on all the famine, disease, starvation, etc….all “old” energies constantly get updated in each century if left unchecked. The problems that we have now couldn’t have happened 100 years ago, 300 years ago, or 1000 years ago….they are tailored to fit this current vibration.

People make the mistake of getting confused thinking “old “ energies will never come back…you know that whole usage of the “never again” mentality that says our current world could never allow past horrors to replay again…..as they are replaying right now. Humans can’t even treat each other with kindness and yet they want the complexity of the totality of energy ( past, present, future) workings. Nope, you have to do the work to ascend, it cant and won’t just be handed out.

How about this secret then?

1st….KNOW that negative energy WILL replay unless it is addressed through action….not through bullshitting. To admit this is to begin to accept a bigger picture and begin a special connection within the self. The rest? Well, you have wonderful resources on this website to begin to become responsible for the fucked up world. We all act like tiny broadcasting units…and the more that can broadcast specific vibrations and frequencies the better.

Negativity has had its grasp on our world for a very long time, so which direction do you want it to go now?…a replay of old shit again or the purity of experience known as release?

Brian


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