The Pitfalls of Never Feeling Loved and Uncertainty's Power to Freeze

The feelings of never being loved and the uncertainty it brings can paralyze our inner guidance.

These experiences can significantly impact our emotional and spiritual well-being. This Life in Synergy® blog explores these pitfalls and offers insights on how to navigate them. The impact of Never feeling loved can echo on and be passed on from generation to generation and thus continue the pattern like a virus seeking a new host. Feeling unloved by parents, in relationships, with friends, etc., can have deep and lasting effects on our self-esteem and emotional health. This pattern of neglect can alter a persons perception of not only themselves but the energy of the external world as well throughout a entire lifetime. Self-Worth: Constantly feeling unloved can erode our sense of self-worth and lead to negative self-perceptions and the unchecked desire to spread our internal discontent outwards to others. Emotional Isolation: This feeling can isolate us emotionally, making it difficult to form meaningful, truthful connections with others.

It's important to recognize and address these feelings to foster healing and growth. 🌳

Self-Love: Cultivating self-love and compassion is crucial in overcoming feelings of being unloved. Engaging in self-care can help rebuild our self-worth, but acknowledgement of the answer when it arrives is crucial to release and repair. Seeking Support: Reaching out to supportive friends, family, spiritual guides or a therapist can provide the emotional support needed to overcome these feelings.

Uncertainty can be a powerful force that freezes our internal guidance, preventing us from making decisions and moving forward.

• Paralysis by over Analysis: Overthinking and worrying about the unknown can lead to inaction and stagnation ( repetitition).

• Fear of the Unknown: The fear of what lies ahead can paralyze our decision-making process and hinder our progress.

Learning to navigate uncertainty is essential for personal and spiritual growth.

• Mindfulness and Presence: Staying present and focusing on the current moment can reduce the anxiety caused by uncertainty.

• Trusting the Process: Trusting in the journey and having faith that things will work out can help us move forward despite the unknown. This is very hard for people to accept as the prior energies that aid in creating an addiction to self induced chemical states of mind ( natural) through negative behavior(s) that reinforce the desire for attention are often very , very seductive and people are often tricked by their own internal dialog that justify the spread of ones unresolved negative energies outward as it gives them a natural high that comes with turmoil.

The feelings of never being loved and the power of uncertainty can be significant obstacles in our lives.

By cultivating self-love, seeking support, and practicing mindfulness, we can overcome these challenges and continue on our path of personal and spiritual growth. This process is much more important than you the reader can imagine as I have personally seen the energy of unresolved internal conflicts manifest as external and have seen many “unresolved emotional car fires” lit and wind up burning the entire world through unresolved emotional disconnect(s).

We are all one and what we do to ourselves we do to the entire world, so unless you are rich enough to leave this planet forever and live with some Gray Alien on planet Blip Blip, you better wake up to the fact that you simply don’t shit where you eat. So the next time you want to externalize unresolved issues within, think of the ripple effect of doing so. Take a moment, step back and ask yourself this question : “What am I doing to help shift negative energy on this planet”?

The answer will tell all.

Brian Collins

Life in Synergy® ©2024

Awareness: The Key to Conscious Living

Awareness is the cornerstone of conscious living.

It involves being fully present in each moment, recognizing our thoughts, feelings, and actions, and understanding their impact on our lives and the world around us. This Life in Synergy blog delves into the importance of awareness and offers practical steps to enhance it. Awareness is the first step towards personal growth and transformation. It allows us to see things as they truly are, free from the distortions of our mind and emotions.

• Self-Understanding: Awareness helps us understand our motivations, desires, and fears, leading to greater self-awareness and self-acceptance.

• Better Decision-Making: Being aware of our thoughts and emotions enables us to make more informed and conscious choices.

There are several practices that can help us cultivate and enhance our awareness.

• Mindfulness Meditation with Helena Collins: Regular meditation practice helps train the mind to stay present and aware.

• Journaling: Writing down our thoughts and feelings can provide clarity and insight into our inner world.

• Mindful Breathing: Focusing on our breath with the amazing energy breath exercises offered in Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy can anchor us in the present moment and increase our awareness.

Living with heightened awareness brings numerous benefits to our lives.

Improved Relationships: Being aware of our own and others' emotions and needs can lead to more harmonious and fulfilling relationships. Greater Emotional Resilience: Awareness allows us to respond to challenges with greater calm and clarity, reducing stress and increasing our emotional resilience. Cultivating awareness is a powerful step towards living a conscious and fulfilling life. By practicing mindfulness, journaling, and mindful breathing with Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy wellness journey online, we can enhance our awareness and experience the many benefits it brings to our personal and spiritual growth.

Life in Synergy® ©2024

Ascension of Spirit: Elevating Your Soul

The ascension of spirit is a profound journey of elevating one's soul to higher states of consciousness and spiritual enlightenment.

Today's  Life in Synergy® blog explores the path to spiritual ascension, offering insights and practices to help you elevate your spirit. Spiritual ascension involves transcending the limitations of the physical world and connecting with higher realms of existence. It is about awakening to our true nature and realizing our untapped potential as spiritual beings.

• Awareness and Mindfulness: Learn how being present and aware of your thoughts, emotions, and actions is crucial for spiritual growth. Mindfulness practices such as meditation can help cultivate this awareness.

• Inner Healing: Discover the importance of addressing past traumas and emotional wounds to release negative energies and move forward on your spiritual path.

Explore various practices that can aid in the ascension process, each offering unique benefits to your spiritual journey.

• Meditation: Understand how Helena Collins practices help quiet the mind, connect with the divine, and receive guidance from higher realms.

• Energy Work: Learn about techniques such as Apex Life in Synergy® can help clear blockages and raise your vibrational frequency.

• Spiritual Study: Engage with Masters such as Helena Collins and study once hidden sacred spiritual teachings to gain valuable insights and deepen your understanding of the ascension process.

Connecting with like-minded individuals on a similar spiritual path can provide support, encouragement, and shared wisdom. Discover how spiritual communities offer a space for growth and collective ascension. The journey of spiritual ascension is a deeply personal and transformative experience. By cultivating awareness, engaging in spiritual practices, and connecting with supportive communities, we can elevate our spirits and move closer to our highest potential.

How Unresolved Subconscious Memories Impact Your Energy Field: Breaking the Cycle

Have you ever wondered why certain patterns seem to repeat in your life, despite your best efforts to change?

It's as if the same situations, people, and challenges keep cropping up, no matter what you do. This phenomenon isn't just a coincidence; it has deep roots in the relationship between our unresolved subconscious memories and the human energy field. Our subconscious mind is like a vast reservoir, storing every experience, emotion, and memory we've ever encountered. Many of these memories are unresolved, often because they were too painful or confusing to process fully at the time they occurred. These unresolved memories don't just fade away; they linger, imprinting their energy onto our subconscious.

The human energy field, also known as the aura, chi, ki, mana or prana body is a complex and dynamic blueprint of our physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual states. It is constantly in flux, influenced by our thoughts, feelings, and interactions with the world around us. Unresolved subconscious memories act like hidden programs within this energy field, subtly influencing our (all) behaviors, reactions, and overall energetic state.

When unresolved memories linger in our subconscious, they leave energetic imprints. These imprints act as filters through which we perceive and interact with the world. For example, if someone experienced rejection in the past and hasn't fully resolved the associated emotions, this unresolved energy might imprint on their energy field, leading them to subconsciously anticipate or even attract similar experiences of rejection in the future.

Repetition of Past Events to tell us to WAKE UP!!!!!

This imprinting of past energies can cause a repetition of past events. The unresolved energy shapes our thoughts, beliefs, and actions, creating a feedback loop where similar experiences are drawn into our lives. It's as if the universe is giving us repeated opportunities to address and heal these unresolved aspects of ourselves. Until we bring these subconscious memories to light and resolve their energy, we remain caught in these repetitive cycles.

The key to breaking these cycles lies in healing and transforming the unresolved energies within our subconscious. This process involves:

1. Awareness: Recognizing the patterns in our lives and the possibility that they are rooted in unresolved subconscious memories.

2. Reflection: Exploring and understanding the source of these memories and the emotions tied to them.

3. Release: Using techniques such as The Apex Life in Synergy program, EFV Keys, or one on one video sessions with Helena Collins help to transmute trapped energies and transform our responses to these memories.

At Life in Synergy, we understand the profound impact that unresolved subconscious memories can have on your energy field and your life. Helena and Brian Collins offer specialized enlightenment programs designed to help you identify and release these hidden imprints, freeing you from the cycles of the past. Through their award winning expert guidance and transformative practices, you can achieve a balanced energy field and a harmonious, empowered life. If you're ready to break free from the past and step into your true potential, explore the enlightenment programs at Life in Synergy. Together, we can create a future that aligns with your highest self, free from the shadows of unresolved memories.

By understanding and addressing the deep connections between our subconscious memories and our energy field, we can transform our lives and stop the repetition of past events. Embrace the journey of healing and enlightenment with Life in Synergy, and discover the power of living in harmony with your true self.

Unveiling the Energy That Scripts Your Daily Life with Helena Collins

Every day, we make choices, from the paths we walk down to the foods we savor.

But have you ever paused to consider what drives these decisions? What if the unseen energies and subconscious patterns are scripting your life?

Understanding the force behind your daily routines and preferences could be the key to unlocking a more fulfilled and harmonious existence. Many of us live life on autopilot, following routines and preferences without questioning their origins. Why do we choose the same seat at a restaurant, favor a particular color, or stick to familiar paths? These decisions might seem trivial, but they are external manifestations of an internal script, written by the subtle energies that shape our thoughts and actions. To explore and understand these forces, Helena Collins offers the Apex Life in Synergy Course. With decades of experience and numerous accolades, Helena spent years studying with ascended masters across the globe, amassing a vast knowledge base in the realm of energy and consciousness. Her course is designed to peel back the layers of your everyday choices, revealing the energetic patterns that drive them.

Helena Collins of Life in Synergy®

What Shapes Our Daily Choices?

The Apex Life in Synergy Course delves into the core of why we resonate with certain environments, people, and routines. It looks beyond the superficial to the energetic imprints that dictate our behaviors. Helena teaches that our choices are influenced by a mix of past experiences, spiritual energies, and deep-seated emotional responses. By becoming conscious of these influences, we can rewrite our life’s script to better align with our true desires and potential. Participants in the Apex Life in Synergy Course have described it as a transformative experience. They learn not only to recognize their patterns but also how to actively shift their energies towards more positive and enriching choices. Helena's teachings provide practical tools for anyone looking to understand their life's script and reshape it in a way that fosters growth and satisfaction.

•Are you ready to discover what energies are scripting your life?

•Are you prepared to challenge your everyday patterns and uncover the reasons behind your constant choices?

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy Course might just be the key to a deeper understanding of your life’s narrative and how you can actively co-create it. Dive into this journey of self-discovery and start living in synergy with your truest self, guided by one of the most knowledgeable figures in the field of energy consciousness.

Life in Synergy®-Boston Massachusetts

Exploring the Untapped Wonders of the Human Mind: Astral Projection, Second Sight, and Human Energy Fields

The human mind is a frontier of endless possibilities, a vast landscape brimming with untapped potential.

As we journey through life, certain mystical experiences like astral projection, second sight, and the exploration of human energy fields invite us to consider a broader perspective on what it means to be human. These phenomena, often regarded as extraordinary, might actually be glimpses into the latent capabilities of our species. This isn't about being "out there"—it's about diving deeper into the inner cosmos of human potential.

Astral projection, or the ability to travel outside the physical body, is one of the most intriguing aspects of the human mind's capabilities. This practice has been referenced in various cultures and spiritual texts throughout history, suggesting a universal curiosity about the nature of existence and consciousness. Those who have experienced astral projection describe it as a profound event that expands their understanding of the universe and their place within it. Imagine being able to explore distant locations or spiritual dimensions without leaving your room. This ability, while not common, highlights the incredible potential of the human consciousness to transcend physical limits. It suggests a stage of human evolution where our awareness and cognitive abilities can extend far beyond current expectations.

Second sight, or clairvoyance, refers to the ability to perceive events or information beyond the reach of the normal senses. Often viewed with skepticism, clairvoyance is nonetheless a part of many people's experiences, offering them insights into the past, present, or future, and a deeper connection to the spiritual world. This capability might be a natural extension of our senses, an evolutionary tool still in development, which could lead to a more profound collective understanding and anticipation of future events. The concept of human energy fields, or auras, suggests that each person emits an energy field that can be perceived and interpreted by others. This idea aligns with many spiritual and holistic practices, which propose that our physical health and emotional well-being are directly connected to the state of our energy fields. Developing sensitivity to these fields could enhance empathy, healing, and the ability to connect with others on a deeply intuitive level.

Those who possess these abilities today are often seen as anomalies, but perhaps they are simply early indicators of what is possible for the future of humanity. Rather than viewing these individuals as "odd" or different, it may be more productive to see them as pioneers, trailblazers of cognitive and spiritual capabilities that many more of us might develop in the future. The evolution of these skills could signify a coming age where human consciousness expands in unimaginable ways.

Wrapping up this cosmic wonderland

The exploration of astral projection, second sight, and human energy fields invites us to open our minds to the incredible possibilities of human evolution. These are not mere curiosities or anomalies but potential stages of our development as a species. As we continue to explore these frontiers, we may discover that these extraordinary abilities are not only natural but are also accessible to many, if not all, given the right nurturing and understanding. Embracing these possibilities could lead to a future where we are more connected to each other and the universe itself, transcending the known limits and venturing into the vastness of human potential.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy®

The Cleansing Spiritual Effects of Rain on the Human Psyche

In the quiet that follows the initial rumble of a thunderstorm, there exists a profound spiritual resonance that rain imparts to the human spirit.

The soft patter of raindrops on rooftops and leaves serves as a soothing symphony, orchestrating a moment of deep introspection and emotional cleansing. Rain, with its purifying essence, symbolizes the washing away of life's clutter and chaos. As it nourishes the earth, so too does it cleanse our thoughts, providing a slate as fresh as the washed streets. This natural purifier encourages us to release our pent-up worries and stale energies, fostering a space where new intentions can flourish. The reflective sheen of rain-soaked surfaces mirrors our capacity for introspection. Enclosed indoors, the sound of raindrops beckons us to delve into deeper contemplation of our lives and our paths. This enforced pause in our daily routines is an invitation to reflect on what truly nourishes our souls and to reconsider the paths we choose to walk.

Contrary to the often negative connotation of melancholy, rain invites us to find comfort in this gentle sadness. There's a soothing, almost healing quality to acknowledging the soft blues within us, allowing the rain's gentle rhythm to guide us through our emotional landscapes. It's in these moments that many experience profound epiphanies and spiritual awakenings. Rain's impact extends beyond our inner worlds, deepening our connection with nature and the cycle of life. The fresh scent of rain on soil, known as petrichor, has a grounding effect, reminding us of our place within the natural world. This connection can enhance our spiritual awareness, reinforcing our sense of belonging to a larger, intricate ecosystem.

Wrapping it up, simply put, rain epitomizes rebirth and regeneration.

Just as landscapes burst with life after a rainfall, our spirits too can experience a rebirth, filled with renewed energy and a refreshed perspective. This cycle of renewal is vital in our spiritual journey, each rainfall providing an opportunity to grow, adapt, and evolve. In every drop of rain, there is a potential for emotional and spiritual rejuvenation. It offers a moment to pause, reflect, and reconnect, not only with ourselves but with the world around us. So the next time the skies darken and the clouds weep, embrace the rain's lesson: to wash away the old and nourish the new within each of us.

So take a moment to listen to the rainfall ( when you have a chance).

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy.com

Finding Balance: The Spiritual Perspective on Money and Comparison

In a world that constantly bombards us with images of success and opulence, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparing our financial journey to that of others.

At Life in Synergy, we understand that money itself isn’t the root of imbalance—rather, it's our perception of and reaction to money that can lead to spiritual and emotional turmoil. Today’s blog explores how shifting our focus from comparison to personal growth can lead to a more balanced relationship with money.

When we compare our financial status to that of others, we aren't just evaluating numbers; we're often weighing our self-worth against visible markers of success. This comparison can distort our perception of what it means to be successful, embedding feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. This mindset does not just hinder our happiness—it can actively disrupt our financial stability. By focusing on someone else's endgame, we lose sight of the crucial steps needed to forge our own path toward financial well-being.

Engaging in this constant comparison often dredges up unresolved energies of inadequacy and self-hatred. When we measure our lives against others', we focus on what we perceive to be lacking rather than appreciating what we have and recognizing opportunities for growth. This skewed focus can prevent us from taking the actions necessary to improve our financial situations, as we're caught up in a cycle of negativity and self-defeat under the comparison microscope.

The key to overcoming this challenge is to shift the focus back to ourselves—not in isolation, but in terms of our personal growth and spiritual development. Here’s how we can start this transformation:

1. Recognize Your Unique Path: Understand that your financial journey is unique and cannot be directly compared to anyone else’s. Embrace that everyone has different goals, challenges, and starting points.

2. Set Personal Goals: Instead of looking outward, look inward. What do you want to achieve financially? Setting personal goals gives you a roadmap to follow, focusing your energy on productive activities that lead to real, tangible outcomes.

3. Develop Financial Literacy: Knowledge is power. Educate yourself about financial management, investment strategies, and economic principles. The more you know, the more empowered you will be to make wise decisions that reflect your personal values and goals.

4. Seek Spiritual Alignment with Apex Life in Synergy program: Money should not be a source of stress but just a tool for achieving your life's purposes. Seek ways to align your financial actions with your spiritual values and never allow the latest shiny object to govern your energies.

At Life in Synergy®, we encourage you to view money as a form of energy that flows into and out of our lives. By managing this energy wisely and aligning it with our inner values, we not only enhance our financial well-being but also our spiritual health. Remember, when you stop comparing and start focusing on your personal and spiritual growth, money becomes a tool to enhance your journey, not the journey itself. Let's strive to transform our relationship with money from one of stress and comparison to one of harmony and purpose. Remember, you are the architect of your own financial destiny and the creator of your spiritual path.

Focus on the inner part of you that manifests YOU….never compare yourself to anyone else, you are unique and powerful and can do wonders once you get out your own way.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

Life in Synergy Inc.

Finding "The One": How Self-Improvement Clears the Path to Your Soulmate

The magic of a Boston Willow tree bench.

In the quest for love, many of us have stumbled, retraced our steps, and occasionally wondered if we're destined to settle rather than find our true "soulmate."

At Life in Synergy, we believe that the journey to finding "The One" is deeply intertwined with the journey within oneself. It’s about more than just waiting for the right person to appear; it’s about becoming the right person who attracts the love and connection that resonate with our deepest self.

Before we can truly connect with another, we must first understand and nurture our own selves. This is not a process of changing who we are to fit an ideal, but rather, refining our own energies to be in harmony with our true nature. Old, outdated energies—be it past hurts, unresolved conflicts, or limiting beliefs—act as barriers. They cloud our judgment and influence our interactions, often leading us to "settlemates" rather than soulmates.👎

Cleansing these clinging energies requires honest self-reflection and a commitment to personal growth. Techniques such as the Apex Life in Synergy® Journey can facilitate this cleansing process. By addressing and healing these stagnant parts of our selves, we not only improve our own lives but also enhance our relationships as a result. As we shed these layers of old energy, we become more authentic and, consequently, more magnetically aligned with people who match this authenticity.

The path to discovering a soulmate is fundamentally a journey to authenticity. When we are true to ourselves, we emit a frequency that attracts similar energies. This doesn’t mean that the journey will be easy or devoid of loneliness at times, but it is essential. The work you do on yourself is not just about making you a better person—it's about making you your person. As we cleanse away the past and embrace our true selves, our capacity for deeper connections improves. We begin to see beyond superficial traits and connect with others on the level of soul values in synergy and true compatibility. This connection is what distinguishes a soulmate from a settle mate. A soulmate resonates deeply within your true self, not just the surface self that the world often sees.

👩‍❤️‍👨 👩‍❤️‍👩 👨‍❤️‍👨 ‘Finding the One" is not a destination but a continuous process of becoming and attracting.

It's about creating a life that feels fulfilled independently, which paradoxically, makes you more likely to find that person who complements your vibrancy rather than completes it. Embrace your personal development journey with patience and persistence, knowing that each step forward is a step closer to the love that truly fulfills you.

At Life in Synergy, we understand that the journey to love is as much about finding yourself as it is about finding another. By working on ourselves and cleansing the outdated energies that held us back in the past, we open new doors to possibilities of love, connection, and discovery. When Brian and I began dating back in the Jurassic era, it was something wild to us both as we were just friends for years and never would have thought that we would wind up dating or being married to each other. Then one night after walking in the South End of Boston, life decided differently and the Universe said one night “Now” and one fateful night in November many, many, many (gasp) many years ago, the cosmos shifted and I found my soulmate was right in front of me for years and let him know right then and there.

The entire world then opened with possibility energy and as a result of our Divine union and love, we traveled the entire globe, studied with a variety of Masters and Kahunas in a variety of spiritual and energetic modalities, opened 2 multi award winning life changing businesses that shaped the lives of countless people in Boston’s Back Bay for decades.

So, remember, in the quest for your soulmate, the most profound relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself first. Let this relationship flourish and watch as it leads you to the love you've always hoped to find….but you have to put the work in.

Helena and Brian-Boston

Life in Synergy Inc

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Hey it’s been 31 years and counting so, we must be doing something right.

A New Dawn: Passing the Torch of Transformation to Our Youth

Today, we explore a vital cycle in our journey through life—the transition of wisdom, challenges, and energy from one generation to the next.

This ever-turning wheel not only carries forward our collective legacies but also offers pivotal moments for transformation and renewal. As we delve into this sacred exchange between the old and the young, we uncover opportunities for a profound reset in human consciousness.

Each generation inherits a world shaped by those that preceded it—complete with their achievements, their unresolved issues, and their unresolved energies. These legacies, whether they are of peace and prosperity or conflict and challenge, are the materials with which the new generation must build their future. However, this isn’t just a handover of circumstances; it’s a transfer of spiritual and energetic blueprints that can either empower or limit. Often, the societal structures and collective egos built by previous generations reach their zenith just as new generations come of age. These structures—rooted in the old energies of control, domination, and resistance to change—can stifle growth and perpetuate cycles of conflict and degradation. The pinnacle of ego thrives on maintaining the status quo, fearing the loss of control and facing the unknown that new energies bring.

Yet, there is a beautiful inevitability in the rise of new energies as each generation reaches its own form of consciousness. Young minds, often underestimated, bring with them the seed energy of profound change. These are the moments when the old energies, so rigid and unyielding, are confronted with the irresistible force of a new vision. The youth of today are not just passive recipients of inherited worlds; they are active creators, capable of resetting the narratives that have long dictated human action.

The Role of Apex Life in Synergy in Navigating Transitions

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program plays a crucial role in this transformational process. By tapping into universal energies and fostering a deep understanding of our interconnectedness, the program helps individuals of all ages recognize the influence of old energies and the potential for new ones. It teaches us to harness these energies consciously, paving the way for a reset in our personal lives and our collective reality. The program encourages a dismantling of the ego-dominated paradigms, promoting a shift towards empathy, collaboration, and openness to change. Through Life in Synergy guided meditation, internal energy work, external muscular balancing, ( and more) participants learn to lower the walls built by previous generations and open doors to new possibilities.

As we pass the torch to the youth, we must do so with openness and humility, inviting them to rewrite the scripts of power and progress. This transition is a crucial opportunity to reset not just societal structures but the very essence of human consciousness. By supporting the young in their quest to overcome old barriers and create new pathways, we contribute to a cycle of renewal that benefits all generations.

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Let us embrace the passing of this torch not as a moment of loss but as an opportunity for rebirth. In supporting our youth, in challenging our egos, and in participating in programs like Apex Life in Synergy, we lay the groundwork for a future that reflects our highest aspirations and our deepest understandings of unity and peace. Together, let’s welcome the new dawn, energized by the fresh perspectives of our youth and enriched by the wisdom of those who have paved the way. It is time for a profound reset—a time to let go of old energies and embrace the transformative power of new beginnings.

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy Inc-Boston Ma.