The Shadows of Misinformation and Disinformation: Navigating the Illusions

In the vast tapestry of our interconnected world, the flow of information is the lifeblood of our collective consciousness.

It shapes our perceptions, fuels our beliefs, and steers our actions. However, amidst the rivers of knowledge, there lie treacherous currents of misinformation and disinformation, capable of overshadowing our free will and leading us over the cliff of oblivion. Understanding and countering these shadows is crucial for preserving our individual and collective spiritual integrity. Misinformation refers to false or inaccurate information spread without malicious intent. It can arise from misunderstandings, misinterpretations, or simply a lack of knowledge. Disinformation, on the other hand, is the deliberate dissemination of false information with the intent to deceive or manipulate. Both forms are insidious, but disinformation carries a more sinister weight, as it is crafted to exploit and control.

Human beings are inherently social creatures, deeply influenced by the energies and vibrations of those around them. In a collective group, whether it's a community, a nation, or even a global movement, the shared energy can become a powerful force. This collective energy can be a force for positive change, driving us toward greater unity and understanding. However, it can also become a conduit for spreading misinformation and disinformation, especially when driven by fear, anger, or other lower vibrations.

Overcoming Free Will

When misinformation or disinformation infiltrates a group, it can overshadow individual free will. The collective energy amplifies the false narratives, creating an echo chamber where dissenting voices are drowned out. In such an environment, individuals may find it increasingly difficult to think independently. The fear of social ostracism, the desire to belong, and the overwhelming pressure to conform can lead one to willingly accept and propagate falsehoods. This dynamic is akin to being swept away by a powerful current, unable to break free. The more we align our consciousness with the collective's distorted reality, the further we drift from our own inner guidance and truth. This can lead to a cascade of negative consequences, both spiritually and practically, as we make decisions based on false premises and perpetuate harm.

To navigate these treacherous waters, we must cultivate awareness, discernment, and spiritual resilience. Here are some steps to help maintain our spiritual sovereignty and protect ourselves from the shadows of misinformation and disinformation:

1. Cultivate Awareness: Stay vigilant and question the information you encounter. Develop a habit of critical thinking and seek out multiple perspectives before forming a conclusion. Awareness is the first step toward breaking free from the grip of false narratives.

2. Trust Your Inner Guidance: Reconnect with your inner wisdom through meditation, reflection, and spiritual practices. Your higher self can help you discern truth from falsehood, guiding you through the noise of misinformation.

3. Educate and Empower: Equip yourself and others with the knowledge and tools needed to identify and counter misinformation and disinformation. Education is a powerful antidote to ignorance and manipulation.

4. Raise Your Vibration: Focus on elevating your personal vibration through love, compassion, and positive energy. A higher vibrational state makes it more difficult for lower vibrational energies of misinformation and disinformation to take root.

In this journey of spiritual ascension and self-betterment, facing the challenge of misinformation and disinformation is a crucial step. By fostering awareness, trusting our inner guidance, engaging in open dialogue, educating ourselves and others, and raising our vibrations, we can navigate the shadows and preserve our spiritual sovereignty. Let us strive to be beacons of light and truth, illuminating the path for ourselves and others, ensuring that our collective energy propels us toward a future of greater awareness, acceptance, and unity.

The power to overcome the illusions lies within each of us, and together, we can create a world where truth and integrity reign supreme.

Helena and Brian Collins

Life in Synergy®-Boston

The Dance of Hidden Desires: Unveiling Our Inner Truth

When we discover a Life in Synergy®, the BS we hold inside as the only creator of reality is tossed and sent packing…

In the journey of self-improvement and spiritual growth, one of the most profound challenges we face is aligning our inner truths with the persona we present to the world.

It's a complex dance, often mired in the fear of vulnerability, where our deepest desires remain cloaked under a veil of alternative intentions. This discord between our inner truth and outward expressions can lead us down a path of emotional dissonance and, frankly, bullshitting the world – and ourselves. At the core of this issue lies the fear of vulnerability. Expressing our true desires and intentions can be daunting. We fear judgment, rejection, and misunderstanding. In a world that often values strength over emotional honesty, showing our true selves feels risky. This fear compels us to wear masks, to present a version of ourselves that we believe is more acceptable or appealing. When we choose to hide our true desires, we often resort to what can bluntly be called bullshitting. It's a defense mechanism, a way to navigate social interactions without exposing our authentic selves. We may agree when we disagree, feign interest, or even fabricate stories that align with perceived societal norms. This art of bullshitting, while it may offer temporary comfort or safety, distances us from our true essence.

The Consequences of this Inauthenticity

Living inauthentically has profound consequences. It not only hinders our personal growth but also affects the quality of our relationships. Connections built on half-truths and concealed desires lack depth and authenticity. They are like houses built on sand, vulnerable to the tides of change. Embracing our inner truth is a courageous act. It requires self-awareness, acceptance, and the willingness to be vulnerable. This journey isn't easy. It involves confronting fears, unlearning conditioned behaviors, and often, facing societal backlash. However, the freedom and authenticity it brings are transformative. In the realm of spiritual growth, aligning our inner truth with our outward expressions is paramount. It's about shedding layers of ego and societal conditioning, and bravely stepping into our authentic selves. This alignment is not just about honesty with the world, but honesty with ourselves. It's recognizing and embracing our desires, our fears, our strengths, and our weaknesses.

The path to revealing our true desires and intentions is a crucial part of our spiritual and personal development.

It's about breaking free from the chains of inauthenticity and embracing the vulnerability of our true selves. As we embark on this journey, we find that the most profound connections and growth come from a place of honesty and authenticity. Let's have the courage to stop bullshitting the world, and more importantly, ourselves. In doing so, we not only transform our own lives but also bring a deeper, more authentic connection to the world around us.

Care to find your TRUE self?

Helena and Brian

PS

Stay tuned, we changed formats on our new you tube channel and are currently compiling topics to be discussed on our soon to be, no bullshit, tell it as it spiritual and enlightenment channel for those who desire to not only live in this world, but create peace in it while they do so.

2024 New Year, New You: Embracing Your Unique Path with Apex Life in Synergy

Finding Strength in Your Uniqueness

As the New Year unfolds, it's a time for reflection, for setting goals, and, most importantly, for embracing our true selves. You've been labeled as 'different,' 'weird,' or 'odd.' You've felt the sting of being ostracized. But here's the thing: it's your unique path that makes you extra-ordinary. In a world that often tries to fit us into boxes, standing out can be a superpower. Your perspectives, your dreams, and your journey are yours alone. This year, let's turn these so-called 'weaknesses' into our greatest strengths.

Apex Life in Synergy: A Companion for the Unconventional

In this spirit of embracing our uniqueness, Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy emerges as more than just a wellness product. It's a companion for those who walk the road less traveled. Designed for the outliers, the dreamers, and the rebels, Apex Life in Synergy aligns with your distinct lifestyle. This product isn't just about physical well-being; it's about a holistic approach to life itself. It's for those who understand that true wellness is a blend of all minds, bodies, and souls. Apex Life in Synergy is crafted to resonate with your innermost being, enhancing your journey towards self-improvement and spiritual growth. Whether you're setting resolutions to improve your health, seeking mental clarity, or pursuing spiritual depth, Apex Life in Synergy adapts to your pace. It's not about conforming; it's about growing in the way that's right for you. As you embark on this journey with Apex Life in Synergy, you're not alone. You're part of a community that values individuality and personal growth. Together, we celebrate our differences and encourage each other to shine in our unique ways.

Make This Year Yours

So, to you — the one who's felt like an outsider, the one who's been misunderstood — this is your time. Make this year about embracing who you are, about thriving in your uniqueness. With Apex Life in Synergy by your side, step boldly into a year of transformation and fulfillment.

Helena and Brian ( also outsiders)

www.lifeinsynergy.com

-2 minutes to midnight peeps

The Butterfly Effect of Our Actions:

How Causing Pain Reverberates Through the Universe

We've all heard of the butterfly effect—the idea that a small change in one part of the system can lead to significant changes in another.

This concept, often discussed in the realms of chaos theory and physics, has profound implications for our daily lives, particularly in how our actions affect others and, by extension, the world at large.

The Ripple Effect of causing Pain

Imagine throwing a stone into a calm pond. The impact creates ripples that extend far beyond the point of contact, affecting the entire body of water. Similarly, when we cause someone pain, whether intentionally or unintentionally, the impact reverberates.

The person we hurt may go on to hurt others, either as a way to cope with their own pain or simply because their emotional state has been altered. This creates a chain reaction, a series of ripples that can extend far beyond our immediate circle.

The Karmic Cycle

For those who believe in the concept of karma, causing pain to others is not just an isolated event; it's a karmic debt that one accrues. This debt doesn't just affect the individual who caused the pain; it impacts the collective karma of humanity. In a world already fraught with suffering, adding to that collective burden has far-reaching consequences.

The Interconnected Web of Life

We are all connected, not just by social networks or familial ties, but on a much deeper, metaphysical level. Some spiritual philosophies suggest that we are all part of a single, universal consciousness. When we hurt another, we are essentially hurting ourselves, and this pain resonates through the collective consciousness, affecting the overall well-being of our planet.

The Power of Positive Actions that repair

The good news is that the butterfly effect works both ways. Just as causing pain can create a ripple of negative consequences, acts of kindness, compassion, and love can generate a wave of positive energy. By being mindful of our actions and striving to make choices that contribute to the greater good, we can counterbalance the negative ripples we've set in motion.

Wrap it up already

The butterfly effect teaches us that our actions, no matter how small, have consequences that reach far beyond our immediate environment. By being aware of the impact we have on others, we can make more conscious choices, not just for our own well-being, but for the collective well-being of all life on Earth. So the next time you're faced with a decision, consider the ripples it will create for ALL.

Choose wisely, for the sake of us all.

Helena and Brian

Embracing Our Mistakes: How Admitting We're Wrong Can Lead to Spiritual Growth

In a world where it's increasingly easy to hide behind our screens and deflect accountability, admitting when we're wrong can be a daunting task.

Society often equates being wrong with weakness, but in reality, accepting our mistakes is a crucial step in personal and spiritual growth. In this blog, we'll delve into the importance of recognizing our errors, the benefits it brings to our spiritual journey, and how we can cultivate the humility to own up to our mistakes.

The Fear of Being Wrong

The fear of being wrong is deeply ingrained in our psyche. From a young age, we're taught to avoid making mistakes, as they're seen as signs of incompetence or failure. But this mindset can be detrimental to our growth. If we're always worried about appearing perfect or infallible, we'll be hesitant to take risks, explore new ideas, or grow from our experiences.

Admitting We're Wrong: A Pillar of Spiritual Growth

1. Fosters humility and self-awareness

When we admit that we're wrong, we cultivate a sense of humility and self-awareness that is essential for personal and spiritual growth. Recognizing our imperfections allows us to see ourselves and the world around us more clearly, enabling us to make more informed decisions and grow in wisdom.

1. Encourages learning and growth

Mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow. When we admit our errors, we open ourselves up to new insights and understanding. Embracing our mistakes can lead to valuable life lessons and spiritual growth, as it teaches us to be more adaptable and resilient in the face of adversity.

1. Strengthens relationships

Owning up to our mistakes can strengthen relationships by fostering trust, respect, and empathy. When we admit our faults, we show that we value honesty and are willing to take responsibility for our actions. This can lead to deeper connections with others, as it encourages open communication and understanding.

1. Promotes self-compassion and forgiveness

Admitting we're wrong also helps us develop self-compassion and forgiveness. By acknowledging our mistakes, we learn to accept our imperfections and treat ourselves with kindness and understanding. This self-compassion, in turn, allows us to extend forgiveness and empathy to others, nurturing our spiritual growth and fostering a more compassionate world.

Cultivating the Ability to Admit We're Wrong

1. Practice self-awareness

Developing self-awareness is the first step in admitting when we're wrong. This involves paying attention to our thoughts, emotions, and actions, and reflecting on how they affect ourselves and others. By becoming more aware of our internal and external experiences, we can better identify when we've made a mistake and take responsibility for it.

1. Cultivate humility

Humility is essential for admitting we're wrong, as it allows us to recognize that we are not infallible and that our perspectives may be limited. Cultivating humility involves embracing our imperfections, seeking feedback from others, and remaining open to new ideas and viewpoints.

1. Foster a growth mindset

Adopting a growth mindset is crucial for embracing our mistakes and using them as opportunities for growth. This involves viewing challenges and setbacks as chances to learn and develop, rather than as indicators of failure or incompetence.

1. Practice self-compassion and forgiveness

Learning to forgive ourselves and others for mistakes is essential for spiritual growth. By practicing self-compassion and extending empathy to others, we can create a more compassionate and understanding environment, both within ourselves and in our relationships with others.

Admitting when we're wrong is not a sign of weakness; rather, it is an essential step in personal and spiritual ascension. If you are strong enough to exert yourself physically, have you done so spiritually?

Life is much more than you think.

Helena and Brian

The Inevitable Emergence of Truth: The Unwavering Path to Discovery

In a world filled with misinformation, “fake” news, and “alternative facts”, truth energy has become an ever-elusive entity.

We may be tempted to believe that the truth is subjective, malleable, or even nonexistent. However, history has shown us time and again that the truth has a remarkable way of revealing itself, despite our best efforts to hide, manipulate, or deny it. Let’s explore the idea that the truth always finds a way, unraveling the reasons behind this phenomenon and highlighting several instances where the truth has triumphed over deceit.

The Tenacity of Truth

1. Human curiosity and the pursuit of knowledge: Humans are innately curious beings, driven to explore and understand the world around them. This insatiable thirst for knowledge has led to countless breakthroughs in science, technology, and other fields. Our inherent desire to seek the truth allows us to see through the fog of misinformation and eventually uncover the facts.

2. Technology as a tool for truth: The advent of the internet and social media has democratized information, making it easier than ever for the truth to be shared and disseminated. While these platforms can also propagate falsehoods, they have also provided individuals with the ability to fact-check, research, and collaborate in order to expose lies and deception.

3. The value of transparency: Societies that value transparency and openness tend to be more resilient to misinformation and deceit. As more individuals and organizations prioritize transparency, the likelihood of the truth being suppressed diminishes. In these environments, truth has a better chance of prevailing.

Notable Examples of Truth Prevailing

1. Watergate Scandal: In the early 1970s, the Watergate scandal shook the United States to its core, ultimately leading to the resignation of President Richard Nixon. This historic event was brought to light by the investigative work of journalists Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein, who uncovered a web of lies, deceit, and corruption that reached the highest levels of government.

2. Tobacco Industry Exposé: For decades, tobacco companies knowingly misled the public about the dangers of smoking. Through the work of whistleblowers, activists, and the Surgeon General's report in 1964, the truth about the detrimental health effects of smoking was finally exposed, leading to significant changes in public health policy.

3. Climate Change: Despite ongoing efforts by climate change deniers and the fossil fuel industry to downplay the severity of the issue, the overwhelming scientific consensus on the reality of human-induced climate change has prevailed. As a result, nations around the world have begun to take action to mitigate the effects of climate change and transition to cleaner, more sustainable energy sources.

Truth energy has an uncanny ability to emerge, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles.

Whether it is through human curiosity, technological advancements, the value of transparency, or the courage of whistleblowers and journalists, the truth will always find a way to reveal itself. As we continue to navigate an increasingly complex world, it is crucial that we remain vigilant in our pursuit of the energy of truth, for it is only through the illumination of facts that we can make informed decisions and drive positive change on our planet.

Helena and Brian

Turning a Blind Eye: The Perils of Ignoring the Truth

In today's fast-paced, information-driven world, it's becoming increasingly easy to fall into the trap of ignoring the truth.

With so much information at our fingertips, we often struggle to differentiate between fact and fiction, sometimes opting to accept the latter due to confirmation bias or other psychological factors. In this blog post, we'll examine the consequences of ignoring the truth, explore the reasons behind this behavior, and discuss ways to confront and embrace reality, even when it's uncomfortable.

The Dangers of Ignoring the Truth

1. Eroding trust: When we ignore the truth, we erode trust in ourselves and our relationships. Deceit, misinformation, and denial can damage personal connections and contribute to a breakdown of communication.

2. Poor decision-making: Basing decisions on falsehoods or incomplete information can lead to negative outcomes, both personally and professionally. Inaccurate information can undermine our ability to make informed choices, potentially resulting in unintended consequences and regrets.

3. Stifling growth: Ignoring the truth can hinder personal growth and self-improvement. By refusing to face reality, we may miss valuable opportunities to learn from our mistakes and evolve as individuals.

4. Perpetuating ignorance: When we choose to overlook the truth, we contribute to a culture of ignorance. This can perpetuate harmful myths, stereotypes, and misinformation that negatively impact society as a whole.

Why Do We Ignore the Truth?

1. Confirmation bias: We often seek information that confirms our existing beliefs, leading us to overlook or dismiss evidence that contradicts our views. This cognitive bias can make it difficult to objectively evaluate information and recognize the truth.

2. Cognitive dissonance: When faced with information that conflicts with our beliefs or values, we may experience psychological discomfort. To resolve this tension, we may choose to ignore the truth, opting for a more comfortable, albeit flawed, narrative.

3. Fear of change: Accepting the truth can sometimes require us to change our beliefs, behaviors, or circumstances. This change can be intimidating, prompting us to cling to familiar falsehoods instead of embracing the unknown.

4. Groupthink: The desire to conform to the opinions and beliefs of our social group can sometimes lead us to ignore the truth. Groupthink can stifle critical thinking and prevent us from questioning the status quo.

Confronting and Embracing the Truth

1. Cultivate critical thinking skills: Develop the ability to objectively analyze information and evaluate its validity. Ask questions, seek diverse perspectives, and approach new information with an open mind.

2. Embrace vulnerability: Accept that acknowledging the truth may involve admitting mistakes or confronting uncomfortable emotions. Embrace vulnerability as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement.

3. Challenge your beliefs: Regularly reassess your beliefs and values to ensure they are grounded in truth. Be willing to update your views when presented with new, credible information.

4. Seek diverse perspectives: Engage in conversations with individuals who hold different opinions and beliefs. This exposure can help broaden your understanding of complex issues and challenge your preconceived notions.

5. Practice self-reflection: Regularly examine your thoughts, feelings, and actions to identify areas where you may be ignoring the truth. Use self-reflection as an opportunity to confront and address these blind spots.

Ignoring the truth can have significant consequences on our personal and professional lives, as well as on society as a whole.

By understanding the reasons behind this behavior and actively working to confront and embrace reality, we can foster personal growth, make better-informed decisions, and contribute to a more enlightened and compassionate world. Recognizing the value of truth and striving for intellectual honesty will help us build stronger connections, navigate challenges, and lead more authentic, rewarding lives in synergy with all of creation.

Helena and Brian

WW3 or ?

Ascend or descend, it is your choice, through your actions.

Pretty simple but profound blog, don't ya think?

Helena and Brian

The Importance of Wellness: How to Lead a Healthier and Happier Life

Wellness is a term that refers to the overall well-being of a person, including their physical, mental, and emotional health.

It encompasses a wide range of factors, such as healthy eating habits, regular exercise, quality sleep, stress management, social connections, and mental health care. Achieving and maintaining wellness is essential for leading a healthy and happy life.

Physical Health

Physical health is the foundation of overall wellness. It involves maintaining a healthy weight, consuming a balanced and nutritious diet, and engaging in regular physical activity. A healthy diet should include a variety of foods from all major food groups, such as fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean protein, and healthy fats. Physical activity can help improve cardiovascular health, build muscle strength, increase endurance, and improve overall physical performance. Regular exercise can also reduce the risk of developing chronic diseases, such as diabetes, heart disease, and certain types of cancer.

Mental Health

Mental health is just as important as physical health. It involves the ability to manage stress, anxiety, and depression, and maintain healthy relationships with others. One way to maintain good mental health is to engage in stress-reducing activities, such as Apex Life in Synergy meditations, SFM, Life in Synergy Stretching & deep breathing exercises. It is also important to seek professional help if you are experiencing mental health issues, as a qualified therapist or counselor can provide support and guidance to help you navigate difficult emotions and situations.

Social Connections

Social connections are also important for overall wellness. Humans are social creatures and need social interaction to maintain good mental health. Spending time with friends and family, volunteering, or participating in group activities can help you feel connected and supported. This sense of belonging and social support can help improve mood and reduce stress levels.

Sleep

Quality sleep is essential for overall wellness. Adequate sleep helps restore the body and mind, and can improve physical and mental performance. Most adults need between 7-9 hours of sleep per night, and creating a sleep-friendly environment can help ensure quality sleep. This can include keeping the bedroom cool, quiet, and dark, avoiding electronics in the bedroom, and establishing a consistent sleep routine.

Conclusion

In conclusion, wellness is a holistic concept that involves the overall well-being of a person. It encompasses various factors, such as physical health, mental health, social connections, and sleep. Achieving and maintaining wellness can help improve physical and mental performance, increase life satisfaction, and reduce the risk of chronic diseases.

By adopting healthy habits and prioritizing self-care, you can lead a happier and healthier life.

Helena and Brian

Flow or Undertow?

Water is an amazing teacher and

meditative aid.

If you are willing to take the time and remove your thoughts from “reality” for a bit then I ask you to sit by some moving water. If you do not have access to a river, shoreline, etc….then how about an aquarium? No? Then how about a faucet or toilet? Don’t allow yourself to be trapped into one concept of consciousness where all things must be perfect in order to achieve some sense of ascension.

Humans just love to hold onto releasing….

I mean if I see one more “star” talk about “It’s not about the money” and how they let go of the desire to succeed and now are “all” about the oneness of being in the moment of the self where they can let go and simply “be”….( whatever the hell that means)…I will truly shit myself. Of course, they can let go…because they have already amassed huge fortunes from the latest digital fan hero fest saga or overpriced sage-scented face creams carried over sacred mountains by a golden yack or made the riches of Solomon from a pop tune that is ear wormed into your head for time eternal.

They already have the freedom to sit on their asses and tap into the facade of many “self-help” Gurus and feed into an industry that truly sells a person a bullshit bill of goods. Don’t get me wrong, money is important in this world but it has NEVER been my personal focus throughout my entire career. Even though we had a HUGE rent at our swanky studio in Boston’s Back Bay, I would treat roughly 35% of clients for free and did so for years. Why? Because who am I to deny the gifts given to me and not “allow” someone to visit with me because they were “poor”.

Fuck that….as I will always remember where I come from ( a shitty violent South Boston inner-city Housing project). So I know deep inside what it is like for someone to feel “less than”….it was my job to then change that frequency to “greater than” and I did…frequently for countless people. Now I am not up a high horse, but it is also what it is, so when I see people acting like walking prophets but are only concerned with “profits” then I have to speak the truth. I so want to have a meeting with these people/gurus/podcasting know-it-alls and say “ Hey bucko, show me your superpowers!” and if I am asked about mine? Well, which instances?

Curing the blind?

Ending depression?

Making infertile women have children? 30 years migraine ceasing after 1 visit? ( which I have done…..and on and on)

See “about us” and read some clients’ testimonials if you think I am bullshitting.

Water time

Now, what should you do with water?

Well, 1st…observe it.

Appreciate the fluidity and motion and its ability to change its state into liquid, solid, and gas. 3 states of being as one.

Hmmmmm? Triune state as one… Somewhat “Holy” don’t you think? Now ponder that for a second if you are dwelling on an issue or “problem”. This Hydrogen and Oxygen substance changes states based on surroundings and yet humans hold onto situations and want “others” to change vs seeing the connection to the whole and taking the time to transmute inner stagnations…water seems to know itself more than most humans.

Watch it support and move items that live in it, see its willingness to become whatever vessel shape it is poured into…It doesn’t “poo poo” a situation, it simply flows and becomes the situation. As you are watching ( whether it is a stream or running faucet) enlighten yourself with the FACT that you are roughly 60% water and your consciousness either impedes the flow or allows the state of change of ANY “problem”.

You are water….so stop running from yourself, you are a natural flow.

Brian

Lies Lies Lies (Yeah)

If you are as old as dirt as we are, you may remember an 80s band called “The Thompson Twins”.

One big hit they had back in the day was called “Lies”….( see video).

Lying is not Godly or God-like in any way, shape, or form. The act does embrace negative forces however and does so impeccably by making a believer believe that they are not causing disruptions in the formation of peace when they lie. Some levels of lying actually feed the addictive natural hormones within, you know such as the energies of unsolved issues with parents or a deep lack of belief in self so a fabricated personality needs to be developed vs during the needed work to walk the walk of peace within to discover the inner self.

Lies bring a world of lies…the truth?

Yup, ah, duh, it sets all free.

Us

ps

Enjoy the pop synth throwback…..

4 Tips to Destress

Stress

I wanted to repost my tips that I was interviewed by Boston Magazine a few years ago…..with so much stress in the world, I wanted to give a few tips to help with body energy and ascension from life-sucking levels of anxiety and doom.

Scenario One: Yet Another T Breakdown or Mass Pike Traffic Jam

Instead of stewing about how late you’ll be, use your stationary time to think of something positive, Collins says.

“If you are frustrated, then create the energy of pleasure in your head. Replay a positive scenario that you have had in the past over and over for three minutes in your mind,” he recommends. “This personal life experience mantra will help to change your overall vibe and make a crappy situation more tolerable.”

Scenario Two: Work Stress

Whether it’s a tight deadline, a demanding boss, or an always-annoying co-worker, the office is rife with stressful situations. When dealing with the irritating desk-mate, Collins suggests looking inward.

“You have to realize that you can never change the other person,” he says. “If they are annoying, could you be producing annoyance energy in any way?” Take a minute to take stock of your own internal state and the vibes you’re putting off.

Scenario Three: Dealing with Rudeness

Next time your barista snaps at you or a stranger jostles you out of the way on the T, Collins says to analyze where in your body you hold that stress—maybe you make a fist or hunch your shoulders—and let it go.

“Everyone has a specific storage bank in the body that stress makes deposits to when you encounter people that pull your ‘rude trigger,'” he says. “Next time you encounter a rude person, simply adjust this area by taking a long breath, hold it for a moment, exhale, and focus in on your storage bank and relax this affected zone.”

Scenario Four: The Seat-Kicker

It’s a rule of the universe that a child will kick the back of your seat on every long flight, ever. Collins insists the annoyance can be spun into a positive.

“What I do is envision the kicks as a release mechanism,” Collins says, adding that this mindset may take a while to adopt. “With each kick, I see my tension subsiding versus increasing. I use the child’s actions to bypass a normal emotional response.”

Enjoy the above and check out our amazing mindfulness programs available to you.,,,they contain some really really good shit.

Brian