"I Will ______" in 2025: Why This Year Will Be Different (Maybe)

It’s officially 2025, folks.

 We’ve survived another trip around the sun, and the new year has come loaded with the usual cargo: resolutions, promises, and declarations like “This year, I will finally [insert lofty goal here].” 

Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? Well, before you dive headfirst into this annual exercise in optimism, let’s get real about why change can feel like chasing a caffeine fueled hamster on an infinite wheel. The truth is, making meaningful changes requires breaking old patterns. And breaking patterns isn’t as easy as swapping coffee for matcha or adding kale to your smoothies. If it were, you’d already have the six-pack, the perfect relationship, and the ability to resist doom-scrolling at 2 a.m.

Patterns: The Invisible Reality Puppeteers

Let’s cut to the chase: most of us are stuck in loops, whether we realize it or not. These patterns are sneaky little devils—woven into how we think, feel, and act. They’re inherited, learned, or sometimes just karmic souvenirs you’ve been lugging around for lifetimes. The result? You set goals but unconsciously sabotage them. It’s like saying, “I will quit procrastinating,” but then binge-watching cat videos for three hours.

Breaking patterns isn’t about willpower. It’s about understanding what’s driving them in the first place. You can’t fight what you don’t see. That’s where the magic happens, and no, it’s not the kind of magic that involves fairy dust or chanting under a full moon (unless that’s your thing).

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy Program: The Karma Game Changer

If you’re serious about tackling those patterns, meet your new best friend: Helena Collins and her Apex Life in Synergy program. Think of it as a master class in rewiring your inner autopilot. This program goes beyond the surface-level “just think positive” advice. It digs deep—helping you recognize and dismantle the energetic blocks holding you back.

Whether your goal is to level up your career, improve your relationships, or finally stop having the same bs arguments with yourself, Apex Life in Synergy equips you with the tools to make it happen. It’s practical, powerful, and tailored for real people living real lives.

(Also, if you’re reading this while eating leftover holiday cookies, no judgment—Apex Life in Synergy is all about meeting you where you’re at.)

Why 2025? Because It’s Already Here

Here’s the funny thing about 2025: it’s not waiting for you to get your act together. The global clock is ticking toward 2026, and the world keeps spinning. If you keep saying, “I will _____,” without taking action, you’re just putting today’s goals on tomorrow’s to-do list. Spoiler: tomorrow is always one day away.

The good news? Change is always possible—no matter what year it is. But to make real progress, you need to get off the hamster wheel and learn how to walk your own path. Helena Collins can show you the way.

Visit Life in Synergy to learn more and make 2025 the year you actually keep your promises to yourself.

Helena Collins has dedicated her entire life in creating the energy of peace in the lives of her clients.

How Subconscious Patterns Shape Collective Reality

The Science of the Subconscious Mind

Have you ever wondered why societal trends seem to mirror ones own personal habits? 

Or why entire communities seem to ebb and flow in a way that reflects individual struggles or triumphs? 

Science is beginning to shed light on something spiritual traditions have suggested for centuries: our subconscious patterns not only influence our personal lives but also contribute to shaping a collective reality.

The subconscious mind, responsible for approximately 95% of our mental activity, processes vast amounts of information and dictates much of our behavior, often without conscious awareness (Miller, 1956). It operates as a repository of beliefs, memories, and habitual thought patterns that drive our responses to the world. These patterns, formed through early experiences, learned behaviors, and even inherited traits, have a profound influence on how we perceive and interact with our environment.

Studies in neuroscience show that subconscious beliefs shape not only individual behavior but also collective dynamics. Research from the HeartMath Institute, for example, demonstrates how human emotional states can synchronize in groups, influencing collective outcomes (McCraty et al., 2017).

Earth: A Shared Matrix of Reality

Carl Jung’s concept of the collective unconscious suggests that humanity shares a deep reservoir of archetypes and symbols that influence our collective behavior. Modern science echoes this idea. Epigenetic research reveals that trauma and behaviors can be passed through generations (Yehuda & Lehrner, 2018). This intergenerational inheritance of patterns extends beyond the family unit, permeating communities and societies.

For instance, societal attitudes towards work, relationships, and success often reflect dominant subconscious patterns of the collective. These patterns are perpetuated through media, education, and cultural narratives, shaping a shared reality that feels inescapable until individuals begin to shift their own subconscious programming.

The Butterfly Effect of Individual Healing

As each person confronts and rewrites their subconscious patterns, the ripple effect on the collective can be profound. HeartMath’s research on “coherence” shows that when individuals practice mindfulness and emotional regulation, the resulting electromagnetic field influences those around them (Bradley et al., 2018). This suggests that individual efforts to heal subconscious wounds don’t just transform personal lives—they contribute to a more harmonious collective reality. When enough people begin to shift, the collective “matrix” of reality starts to transform as well.

We are not simply hocking our programs on you, like some unseen “wellness” gurus leaning over you telling you some special program will do something special for you ( when they had a team of people write it for them and simply read what they say). We live what we teach and have been doing so for decades, we don’t bullshit, we live it and know all of the stress and anxieties you feel because we have lived them as well. Rape survival, abuse survival, abandonment, addictions, immense violence, betrayal, money worries, etc…..we have been there.

Breaking the Cycle with the Apex Life in Synergy lifestyle program

Recognizing and transforming subconscious patterns is no small task. It requires tools, commitment, and guidance. At Life in Synergy, our Apex Life in Synergy program integrates cutting-edge understandings with ancient wisdom to help individuals identify and rewrite these limiting patterns.

By focusing on practices like body based mindfulness, conscious awareness, and cognitive reframing, we empower clients to break free from inherited and learned subconscious cycles. These shifts not only improve personal well-being but also contribute to creating a collective reality grounded in authenticity, resilience, and hope. A unique synergy of Helena Collins multi award winning SFM and Apex Life in Synergy consciousness methods/ practices truly connects the mind in body in yet untouched levels.

You can become the Architect of Change

When you step into your power to transform subconscious patterns, you don’t just change your life—you help rewrite the story of humanity. The collective reality is not set in stone; it is a living, breathing creation shaped by every thought, emotion, and action. Are you ready to take your first step? Explore our programs at www.lifeinsynergy.com and discover how you can become part of the shift toward a brighter collective future.

Many people who sought us out at our multi award winning brick and mortar locations in Boston for 20 plus years have experienced massive shifts and you can too now online with us.

Let’s reimagine what’s possible, together.

Helena and Brian Collins-Boston

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Tik-Tok Desire and the Glitches in the Matrix of Manifestation

The ol’ manifestation machine not giving you want you expect?

Well Hello dear Life in Synergy® readers!

Today, we are here to playfully explore the crisscrossing dimensions of time, desire, and the trend du jour, manifestation. Or, as we like to call it, the Bermuda Triangle of the human condition. Let's start by taking a ride on the Time-Train, shall we?

Tick-Tock, It's Time O'clock

Time, dear friends, is one of those concepts that feels as slippery as a greased pig on roller skates. On one hand, we’re bound by it. Time rules our routines, deadlines, and the ominous 40 or so hours we have to spend pretending to work each week. I mean, do we really work that much, or is Candy Crush just that good?

Yet, on the other hand, time is also abstract. Time is an illusion, as the great Albert Einstein said. This is the same guy who devised a theory of relativity while working in a patent office, so who are we to argue? But does it mean that the 5 minutes you spend stuck in an elevator with someone chewing garlic-flavored gum is as illusory as Einstein's hair in the morning? Or is it just...longer? Einstein, we need a follow-up, please.

You Want, Therefore You Are

Now let's sail over to the Island of Desire. Desire, you see, is the fuel that ignites our Time-Train. It's what gets us out of bed in the morning. Or, for some, the thought of freshly brewed coffee or the panicked realization that you overslept...again.

But desire, like a mischievous imp with a twisted sense of humor, often toys with us. One moment you're lusting after that shiny new smartphone, and the next, you're standing at the recycling center wondering how you ended up with a drawer full of outdated tech. "But it has a better camera," you say, desperately trying to justify your choices to a trash can.

Manifestation, or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Quantum Flapdoodle

Now, coming to the current trend: manifestation. Oh boy, isn't it fun to think that by simply visualizing a Lambo in your driveway it'll pop into existence faster than a pimple on prom night? What a splendid notion! I mean, who needs hard work, perseverance, or even basic human decency when you've got the Cosmic Catalog at your fingertips?

Manifestation, often portrayed as the VIP access to the Universe’s vending machine, is currently riding high on the trendy wave. It's spiritual consumerism at its finest, with the world reduced to a celestial Amazon, ready to 'Prime' deliver your every whim and fancy.

But as enchanting as it might sound, manifestation comes with its own set of pitfalls. It's like when you order a bean bag chair online, picturing a cushy seat of cloud-like comfort, only to receive a package that could fit in your pocket, containing a DIY origami kit instead. You could say you manifested something alright. But was it really what you wanted?

When Time, Desire and Manifestation Do the Tango

When time, desire, and manifestation intertwine, it can become an unpredictable dance. Imagine, if you will, a ballet of two left feet. Time steps on Desire's toes, Desire accidentally elbows Manifestation in the face, and Manifestation trips over Time’s untied shoelaces. It's more slapstick than Swan Lake, but it's our dance, folks.

The primary pitfall is the trap of instant gratification that the manifestation trend seems to promise. After all, when time is an illusion and desire is endless, why shouldn’t we have our vegan, gluten-free cake and eat it too, immediately?

The trouble begins when our dancing trio loses its rhythm. We start believing that we can fast-forward the Time-Train by sheer will or that our every ephemeral desire must be instantly gratified. What happens then? Well, like any badly choreographed dance, someone gets kicked in the shin.

The Witty Conclusion

In the grand comedy of life, the union of time, desire, and manifestation is like an absurdist play directed by a capricious trickster. It's confusing, it's paradoxical, and yes, it's also quite funny.

So, the next time you're manifesting that beach vacation, remember to check your desire's baggage at the door and time your moves just right. And remember, even if you end up with a beach ball instead of a beach view, it's all part of the cosmic gag reel. In the meantime, we are now off to manifest a coupla’ ‘cupsa of coffee. Wish us luck! If you hear tales of an aging enlightened couple accidentally starting a coffee pot revolution, know it was all in the pursuit of the perfect brew.

Until next time, keep those desires in check, be patient with time, and “manifest” responsibly!

Helena and Brian

www.lifeinsynergy.com

The Duplicity of Human Nature: A Nuanced Examination

The duplicity of human nature has long fascinated psychologists, sociologists, and philosophers alike.

As an inherent aspect of our existence, this duality reveals a complex interplay between seemingly contradictory facets of our character. In this deep deep blog, we will delve into the origins, expressions, and implications of this duplicity, exploring the factors that contribute to its manifestation and how it shapes human behavior.

Origins of Duplicity in Human Nature

The concept of duplicity in human nature has its roots in various philosophical and religious traditions. Ancient philosophers, such as Plato and Aristotle, alluded to the duality of the human soul, which comprises rational and irrational elements. Similarly, religious texts such as the Bible and the Bhagavad Gita emphasize the struggle between good and evil within the individual. The notion of duplicity has evolved over time, with more recent psychological theories, such as Freud's structural model of the psyche, also positing the existence of conflicting internal forces that shape human behavior.

Biological and Social Factors

The duplicity of human nature stems from both biological and social factors. On a biological level, the dualistic nature can be attributed to the interplay between the brain's emotional and rational processing centers. The amygdala, responsible for the emotional response, often conflicts with the prefrontal cortex, which governs rational thinking. This tug-of-war between emotion and reason is a cornerstone of human duplicity.

Social factors also contribute to the dualistic nature of humans. Socialization processes, including cultural norms, family dynamics, and peer influences, play a crucial role in shaping the individual's self-concept and behavior. Individuals often learn to navigate social environments by adopting context-dependent personas, which can lead to inconsistencies in self-presentation and behavior.

Expressions of Duplicity

The duplicity of human nature manifests itself in various aspects of human behavior. Some common expressions of duplicity include:

1. Moral Duality: The struggle between moral and immoral inclinations is a classic expression of human duplicity. Research suggests that individuals often experience a conflict between their moral compass and their self-serving desires, leading to moral dilemmas and discrepancies in behavior.

2. Authenticity and Inauthenticity: Duplicity can also emerge in the form of authenticity and inauthenticity. Individuals may present themselves differently in different contexts, leading to a discrepancy between their true self and the personas they adopt in different situations.

3. Cognitive Dissonance: The experience of cognitive dissonance, or the psychological discomfort caused by holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes, is another manifestation of the duplicity of human nature. Individuals may engage in self-deceptive practices to reconcile these conflicts, further complicating their sense of self.

Implications of Duplicity

The duplicity of human nature carries several implications for both the individual and society. On an individual level, this duality can lead to internal conflicts, emotional turmoil, and a fragmented sense of self. Additionally, the adoption of different personas can strain interpersonal relationships and hinder the development of genuine connections. On a societal level, the duplicity of human nature can contribute to social inequality, as individuals may exploit their duplicitous nature to gain unfair advantages or manipulate others. Furthermore, this duplicity can impede collective action on pressing issues, as individuals and groups may prioritize self-interest over the common good.

The duplicity of human nature is a multifaceted phenomenon with deep roots in biological and social processes.

Its various expressions and implications have profound consequences for both individual well-being and societal functioning. A deeper understanding of this duplicity can provide valuable insights into human behavior and contribute to more effective interventions that promote personal growth and social cohesion.

Helena and Brian

The Art of Fumbled Opportunities and the Symphony of BS: A Masterclass

Greetings, fellow aficionados of life's absurdities!

Today, we'll embark on a whimsical journey through the chaotic universe of missed chances and never-ending BS. A realm where the mighty gods of Sarcasm and Irony reign supreme, and where humans with butterfingers excel in fumbling opportunities, only to create a majestic symphony of nonsense.

Chapter One: The Dropped Ball Chronicles

We've all had our fair share of missed opportunities. Like that time you had a perfect chance to talk to your crush, but instead, you decided to flirt with a fire hydrant. Or when you were handed the opportunity to invest in Bitcoin back in 2010, but you opted for Beanie Babies instead. Ah, such is life, where we boldly stumble where no one has stumbled before.

Take my buddy Steve, for instance. Steve had the chance to score free front-row tickets to the Super Bowl, but instead, he got food poisoning from a suspicious street taco. Now, if that's not a double whammy of fumbled fortune, I don't know what is!

Chapter Two: The BS Symphony in C Major (C for Crap)

As we navigate the treacherous waters of missed chances, we are inevitably confronted with the melodious tunes of pure, unadulterated BS. The world is teeming with it - from fabricated résumés to politicians' promises, and even those pesky Instagram influencers who swear by their skinny teas.

Let's turn our attention to Aunt Linda, a master conductor of the BS Symphony. Aunt Linda is the reigning queen of multilevel marketing schemes. With her unwavering belief in essential oils, she has attempted to cure everything from the common cold to global warming. Unfortunately for Aunt Linda, her essential oils have yet to turn a profit or save the planet, but she remains the embodiment of relentless BS.

Chapter Three: The Fine Art of Embracing the Chaos

The key to surviving the tumultuous landscape of missed chances and continuous BS is to learn to embrace the chaos. After all, what would life be without these absurd moments that make us question our sanity?

Think about it - if we nailed every opportunity that came our way, where would the fun be? What stories would we tell our grandchildren, or share with friends over a pint of beer? The truth is, our mistakes and follies make us human and give us character.

So, as you navigate this rollercoaster ride we call life, remember to take a moment to appreciate the beauty of fumbled chances and the harmonious sounds of the BS Symphony. And always keep in mind, the key to a life well-lived lies in embracing our own imperfections and finding humor in the madness that surrounds us.

In the immortal words of Bob Ross, "We don't make mistakes, just happy little accidents."

Keep on fumbling, friends

Helena and Brian